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ORIGINAL: slave2behis
LOL, oh no he doesn't pay for everything. I am a professional and make well over 65K per year. When with Master he takes care of me and allows me to work. All of my money goes into a money market account in my name only. When I was going to leave I was going to take some money out for getting an apartment is not cheap....it was at his insistence that I did not use my own money for the rent.

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ORIGINAL: SusanofO

I wouldn't call it a profile. I read it also. It's...it's...well, I am not sure what it is - but it's not really a profile, IMO. 
That's why I said she doesn't seem to know what she is looking for. Therefore, how can she really claim to be "surprised" she isn't finding it?

My advice: She should read a lot of other female submissive's profiles. There are some truly great ones out there. That will give her a  better idea of how a really informative and thoughtful one is constructed. That could be very helpful.

Also, IMO, 3 months isn't enough time for anyone to do a thorough partner search. I've seen people get lucky and find someone they consider truly compatible that early on, but IMO if they do (and I'd consider it a rare occurrence), I attribute that to luck.

IMO, she needs to decide what she wants, be able to get that across, write a decent profile, and be more patient.  

-Susan

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ORIGINAL: slave2behis

I guess perhaps I am overly anxious but I have always gotten what I wanted and needed and usually without waiting too long. Finished school early, have a good career, a good Master who was understanding and I had tried younger guys. I have noticed people who have been looking for years. I knew at an early age what I was and what I needed too.

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ORIGINAL: DarkDaddyZ

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ORIGINAL: iammachine

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ORIGINAL: DarkDaddyZ

I got the best advice on collecting dirty underwear on collarme so I'm DAMN happy!

You've been talking to the dude that sends me an email every day, haven't you?

LOL Perhaps he's my negotiator! 

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ORIGINAL: SultrySub4M

Once more I am off to see another man for a "trial" he paid the airfare and it is a return ticket too. Perhaps he will be the "real deal" or perhaps not.
 
I guess I am looking to see what is out there in the world after having been totally sheltered by the former Master.
 
Right now I dance two times a week and make bucks, Master did not throw me out when I left him, instead he is supportive but interestingly enough does not chase me and/or demand anything.
 
Slave2behis:  girl, it aint them, it's you.  You are a 25yold girl who is naive at best and an idiot at worst.  These are quotes from your profile.  Sounds like you are looking for a sugar daddy not a sadistic bastard, but you are certainly a masochist if you keep this up.  I feel for you seriously, bc if you don't get your head out of your ass, you will continue to attract these losers.  FYI: any dirty old man with two nickes to rub together would gladly PAY for your services and your heart if you let him.  You appear to be a ho, rather than a serious young woman looking for the love of her life (supposedly).  Quit your stripper job, go to a university, learn something and build your own life without having to sell out for wrinkled dicks.  Of course, he didn't throw you out!!!!  Look at your tits!  Their fab, but they don't make up for common sense and self-esteem.  You asked everyone, now listen!!!
 
 

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ORIGINAL: kc692

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ORIGINAL: slave2behis

Dear Mistress of Snark;

You are right. I do value myself highly and I don't submit on line and only when there is that peculiar connection. You just joined here, and you have a mate so I don't see that you would have had all of the experiences I have had. One reason I avoided posting for most of my time here is that so many don't offer real advice but seem to practice a level of being mean that is probably only matched by some of the so called reality shows that depend upon people liking to see others humiliated and degraded for their entertainment.

I have a question.....how do you feel about your master's other slave who is closer to his age??????

As an aside, noone has stopped you from sending pictures to anyone personally...there are just rules so you can't subject us ALL to it....I'm sure if you would have learned the attach pics buttons, there were some you mailed that would have enjoyed masochistic pics, I for one am glad the rules are there.

But I digress......how do you feel about not being the only other slave there?  Maybe that is why he didn't care so much if you hauled ass for a bit...but then, is also purty cool that a 67 year old man can put you on his arm (yanno since you are a hot dancer and all) and yet you leave and he spends time alone with the other,.,..purty good arrangement, he is wise for his years.....

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ORIGINAL: SusanofO

Do you know exactly (or mostly) what kind of Master you are seeking? IMO, being able to pinpoint some major criteria, and decide how you'll be able to tell when someone looks like they might meet those cirteria, can be very helpful in a search.

I am not saying you didn't do this - but you didn't mention what exactly you were seeking in a Master while you were searching, in this post, or how you filtered people out - or anything.

Just wondering how many potentials you actually met in person, or what went down, when you did. I am not saying that you still could not have been disappointed, but - 

If this is a "problem-solving" thread you meant to start, then maybe that part would be pertinent information to cover.

If not, then I maybe should not have mentioned it might be important.

But it sounds to me, like you  may have little or no idea what you really want - and that, my dear, is gonna get you into trouble, and-or leave you disappointed  a lot. Unless, IMO, by some miraculous turn of events, you just happen to be incredibly lucky. 

- Susan