RE: BDSM, sexual or not?

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: BDSM, sexual or not?

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: BDSM, sexual or not?

Page: << < prev 1 2 [3]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: BDSM, sexual or not? - 9/28/2007 4:43:11 PM

BossyShoeBitch

Posts: 3931
Joined: 1/13/2007
From: South Florida
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65

quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

i love testing theories .Cause it is about personel resolve. It is a lot like doing a new computer program. You have test it out before you let it out to the public

I don't see you as testing theories.

I see you as unable to understand something .... how people can be in a BDSM relationship and not fuck.
(sorry for the wordage but jeez it really just fit there!)

see Camille, just that last line turned me on..
Geez, everything turns me on..
Sorry, gotta go, um... I just gotta go..

_____________________________

A clever man can get out of situations a wise man never gets into...
A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.

(in reply to camille65)

Profile

Post #: 41

RE: BDSM, sexual or not? - 9/28/2007 4:55:40 PM

Prinsexx

Posts: 4584
Joined: 8/27/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: sammiebabygirl

This is my first official post, not counting my introduction and it is something i have thought of and discussed often. i hear it all the time, especially from female subs that it is NOT sexual for them.

Welcome sammiebaby....I was a first poster such a short time ago and now I feel like an old girl already as everyone welcpmed me here so well....so welcome welcome also....my personal opinion is that it is ALL sexual but on a continuum like sometimes the sex is overt to the point of climax and somwtimes covert beneath the guise of service or dominaion but that's like a build up of energy and the climax might come later....
I am mostly submissive to men in as much as i cannot (never say never0 be topped by a woman...I have a new Dom and yes I love Him whether he loves me or not and yes it is sexual but only if it is sexual for him as I serve him right? but i love to be dominant to women, actually very picky and have a certain 'type' but when I am dominant it's usually not overtly sexual for me as I feel the sense of responsibility and control dynamic is more important than the climax......
anyone saying it's not sexual in bdsm is to me a little like a priest saying he's not sexual (apologies to priests here ok) when there is a narrow band definition of what sex is ie sexual intercourse as penetration....what I mean is if it floats your boat, makes you gloat, feeds your goat whatever whatever it's sexual...........and I'll take on all comers who want to argue with me as I'm in that sort of mood............
Prinnie xx

(in reply to sammiebabygirl)

Profile

Post #: 42

RE: BDSM, sexual or not? - 9/28/2007 5:02:31 PM

Celeste43

Posts: 3066
Joined: 2/4/2006
From: NYS
Status: offline

My two cents; it's only sexual if you're doing it right.

(in reply to Prinsexx)

Profile

Post #: 43

RE: BDSM, sexual or not? - 9/28/2007 5:45:21 PM

sammiebabygirl

Posts: 465
Joined: 10/23/2004
From: Upstate, NY
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: AFlyInYourWeb

If the e-mail from CM is going to your spam folder, enter the sending address [collarbot at collarme dot com] into your e-mail address list. Most spam filters will not intercept e-mails from addresses listed in your address file.

Actually, there is NO e-mail at all coming from the forums. The only e-mail i get from CM is from the personals. They have been coming to my IN box all along. i have reported this to the moderators, but so far, i am not receiving anything.

jen

(in reply to AFlyInYourWeb)

Profile

Post #: 44