Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

Gun Fetish


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> Gun Fetish Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
Gun Fetish - 9/27/2007 9:34:22 PM   
xoxi


Posts: 1066
Status: offline 		My first 'kinky'experience was actually getting head and having sex with a gun held to my head and other parts of my anatomy.  It wasn't loaded...my boyfriend had just cleaned his handgun.  And I said we should play with it.  I also got spanked.  It was my 19th birthday and way hot.

I've never had a chance to do gun play again but I really want to.

Anyone else think guns are sex?
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/27/2007 9:37:12 PM   
RRafe


Posts: 2060
Joined: 8/29/2007
Status: offline 		Sure. I use all sorts of props to make scenes hotter.

Some people seem to think that fear is sex-go figure.

_____________________________

I seem to be some wierd combination of Ren and Stimpy

(in reply to xoxi)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/27/2007 9:38:22 PM   
Alumbrado


Posts: 5560
Status: offline
quote:

Anyone else think guns are sex?


Good question... and one that's never come up here before...

(in reply to xoxi)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/27/2007 9:38:34 PM   
xoxi


Posts: 1066
Status: offline 		Fear is extremely hot to me.  Probably because it gets blood pumping and endorphins are released.  I also love wrestling and takedowns but a knife to the throat or a gun to the head is just oh my god sex.

(in reply to RRafe)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/27/2007 9:39:47 PM   
RRafe


Posts: 2060
Joined: 8/29/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: xoxi

Fear is extremely hot to me.  Probably because it gets blood pumping and endorphins are released.  I also love wrestling and takedowns but a knife to the throat or a gun to the head is just oh my god sex.


Ya. Or take downs with bondage-the struggle to get free-but you cannot. And he is going to take what he wants.

_____________________________

I seem to be some wierd combination of Ren and Stimpy

(in reply to xoxi)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/27/2007 9:42:23 PM   
xoxi


Posts: 1066
Status: offline 		purrrrrrr

But back to the topic.  When I 'played' with a gun it was held against various parts of my skin for a total of like an hour.  Including a very warm and moist part of my anatomy.  And yet the entire time the gun was still cold as...well metal.  It was such a mind trip, just feeling that cold metal touch me.

And the guy I was with was 'vanilla' go figure

(in reply to RRafe)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/27/2007 9:45:46 PM   
RRafe


Posts: 2060
Joined: 8/29/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: xoxi

purrrrrrr

But back to the topic.  When I 'played' with a gun it was held against various parts of my skin for a total of like an hour.  Including a very warm and moist part of my anatomy.  And yet the entire time the gun was still cold as...well metal.  It was such a mind trip, just feeling that cold metal touch me.

And the guy I was with was 'vanilla' go figure



The legend of the gun is what makes it so edgy. It represents power-destruction. It's a cold,dead thing that can come to violent life-and we all feel this in our bones.

I understand why it's so erotic-it's flirting with the reaper.

_____________________________

I seem to be some wierd combination of Ren and Stimpy

(in reply to xoxi)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/27/2007 9:48:33 PM   
xoxi


Posts: 1066
Status: offline 		omg yes.

That explains it perfectly.

I am going to have delightfully violent dreams tonight

(in reply to RRafe)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/28/2007 6:39:34 AM   
Lashra


Posts: 4900
Joined: 2/9/2006
Status: offline 		  I own guns and I really like them but I've never used one for play. I have used a knife before when playing with my malesub and even "raped" him once at knifepoint it was very hot for him, but I kept worrying about safety issues so it wasn't as hot for me. I'm something of a safety worry wort.

~Lashra

_____________________________

“We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.”






(in reply to xoxi)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/28/2007 6:51:42 AM   
LATEXBABY64


Posts: 2107
Joined: 4/8/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: xoxi

purrrrrrr

But back to the topic.  When I 'played' with a gun it was held against various parts of my skin for a total of like an hour.  Including a very warm and moist part of my anatomy.  And yet the entire time the gun was still cold as...well metal.  It was such a mind trip, just feeling that cold metal touch me.

And the guy I was with was 'vanilla' go figure




ok this is edge play lol guns are bad make big noise go BOOM

(in reply to xoxi)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/28/2007 7:20:09 AM   
chellekitty


Posts: 3923
Joined: 3/27/2005
Status: offline 		oh darn...i was thinking guns in the sense of "this is my rifle, this is my gun, this is for fighting, this is for fun"

_____________________________

One thing I know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who will have sought and found how to serve. ~Albert Schweitzer

(in reply to LATEXBABY64)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/28/2007 7:24:35 AM   
DocRudy


Posts: 153
Joined: 9/19/2007
Status: offline 		I've learned a valuable lesson on this matter from personal experience. No matter how many safety precautions you yourself take in the scene, it's likely not worth doing unless your partner has enough experience with firearms to be 110% comfortable around them.

The controlled fear from edgeplay is one thing, but uncontrolled hysteria caused by the recipient's total fear of the unknown usually results in a lot more aftercare needed than normal.

I'm former military, farm-raised and a firm supporter of the 2nd Amendment, but my vote on this matter is no.

-DR

(in reply to LATEXBABY64)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/28/2007 7:30:04 AM   
junecleaver


Posts: 1145
Joined: 4/6/2005
Status: offline 		I think the idea is super hot.  I don't know if I'll ever have an opportunity to experiment with it.  I think I'd probably have to attend a lot of classes with my partner and get really comfortable and confident in handling them.  It's not one of my biggest fantasies so I doubt I'll ever put enough time into developing the skills I would need to play it out.

Still hot though. ;)


_____________________________


"No one will ever win the battle of the sexes; there's too much fraternizing with the enemy. "
--Henry A. Kissinger

(in reply to xoxi)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/28/2007 8:46:49 AM   
kshearsecouple


Posts: 171
Joined: 3/7/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: DocRudy

I've learned a valuable lesson on this matter from personal experience. No matter how many safety precautions you yourself take in the scene, it's likely not worth doing unless your partner has enough experience with firearms to be 110% comfortable around them.

The controlled fear from edgeplay is one thing, but uncontrolled hysteria caused by the recipient's total fear of the unknown usually results in a lot more aftercare needed than normal.

I'm former military, farm-raised and a firm supporter of the 2nd Amendment, but my vote on this matter is no.

-DR


I tend to agree.  My husband is former military the whole nine yards and we have the same view on those things.  We have guns for specific reasons and scening really isn't one of them.
But to each there own to the orginal OP

(in reply to DocRudy)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/28/2007 9:59:25 AM   
lanie38


Posts: 120
Joined: 9/14/2007
Status: offline 		I get off on fear...it doesn't really matter whether there's a *prop* utilized or not.

The idea of having a gun to my head while performing sounds hot, although knowing it's not loaded makes it no more scary than him holding a hairbrush to my head.

Now, being fucked by the gun, loaded or not, has it's own appeal 

~lanie

< Message edited by lanie38 -- 9/28/2007 10:00:38 AM >

_____________________________

Don't be so humble...you're not that great. ~ Golda Meir

(in reply to kshearsecouple)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/28/2007 11:15:58 AM   
xoxi


Posts: 1066
Status: offline 		True, that definitely makes sense.  I guess to make it truly intense I would need a partner who was able to convince me it was loaded (even with one bullet russian roulette style if it was one of those kinds of guns) but who was also responsible enough not to load the damn thing.  And that takes a LOT of trust.

But even though it wasn't loaded it was still incredibly hot and intense.  Besides he could have just pistol whipped me with it. That hurts quite a bit but is less deadly than a bullet ;)

Knives are hot too but its easier to slip and cut someone.  I would never ever ever play with a loaded gun.  That is just stupid - and Darwinism at its finest.  So even if you slip and pull the trigger...nothing happens.  But a slip in knife play can kill someone...thats why I've always lay verrrrrry still when I had a knife against my skin.  In a way thats even more intense because the capacity for being hurt is far more present.

(in reply to lanie38)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/28/2007 11:20:24 AM   
camille65


Posts: 5746
Joined: 7/11/2007
From: Austin Texas
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: xoxi

purrrrrrr

But back to the topic.  When I 'played' with a gun it was held against various parts of my skin for a total of like an hour.  Including a very warm and moist part of my anatomy.  And yet the entire time the gun was still cold as...well metal.  It was such a mind trip, just feeling that cold metal touch me.

And the guy I was with was 'vanilla' go figure



I've got a real question here about this kind of play/scene.

Okies so you do it once and it's great. Don't you learn by the once.. that the gun isn't loaded the second time? Argh it's hard to formulate my question.

\xoxi you said right above me that it has to be someone you trust to not load the gun but to be able to convince you it was loaded. Would this work more than just the one time?

This seems very one time play for me. How can it be done more than once without losing that which made it so good the first time? That primal fear.

< Message edited by camille65 -- 9/28/2007 11:28:02 AM >

_____________________________


~Love your life! (It is the only one you'll get).




(in reply to xoxi)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/28/2007 11:25:52 AM   
Elegant


Posts: 1024
Joined: 3/15/2005
Status: offline 		A gun is always loaded unless I personally inspect it to see that it is empty. So, there is no fear...and no game.

Guns are not toys, IMO.


_____________________________

Elegant
~Slave To Master Archer

http://www.FantasiesInLeather.com

(in reply to camille65)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/28/2007 11:27:27 AM   
xoxi


Posts: 1066
Status: offline 		You know here's the thing.  I knew the gun wasn't loaded.  I also knew that the gun had been used for various things in the past - it was quite literally a deadly weapon.  And feeling the tip of that deadly weapon on various parts of my body was just indescribable.

I guess though to answer your question - something about endorphins lead to a suspension of belief.  You know how like...when you're in the middle of a hot passionate scene and your man has a hand around your throat and tells you to stay still or he will choke you to death...and your body just instantly freezes?  You *know* he's not going to kill you but something in your brain just says "don't move or you will be hurt" and you listen.

When I had a gun to my head and a man breathing threats in my ear I literally forgot that it wasn't loaded.  I was too caught up in the moment.  Besides even if I said 'yeah right that isn't loaded' he still could have smacked me across the face with it and choked me to death.  Or beat me to death.  But for some reason I didn't even think that...I guess I'm one of those people who gets totally lost in whatever I'm doing though.  And if it hadn't been so passionate and intense I might not have even been ablet o do so.

So yeah I'm sorry I can't really answer your question except to say that sometimes sex is more powerful than logic

(in reply to camille65)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: Gun Fetish - 9/28/2007 11:29:45 AM   
camille65


Posts: 5746
Joined: 7/11/2007
From: Austin Texas
Status: offline 		Okay. I do understand that you need to be able to shift it in your head.
Thanks.

_____________________________


~Love your life! (It is the only one you'll get).




(in reply to xoxi)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> Gun Fetish Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.078