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sophia37 -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 1:18:03 PM)

I like dressed in some way, not naked. 



camille65 -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 1:21:36 PM)

With him I am usually naked (yeah yeah not like in public lol) but I am not totally comfortable that way. I feel still like I need a barrier like at least a tshirt or something. I do hope to work past that though. I want to be okay and comfortable in just my skin with him.
At home alone I am most definitely naked [:D] including my yard.



Daddyskittin -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 1:26:00 PM)

The only time being nude bothers me is if it isn't warm enough... other than that I don't care if I'm dressed or naked, and don't care who's around or not around to see it... but I'm rarely completely nude... most often my Daddy wants me in panties because he finds me adorably sexy in them so he says... if my feet are cold.... panties and knee socks... but one of my favorite naked times at home is when it's icky cold outside, and Daddy lays me on my blankie infront of the fire.




dawntreader -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 1:30:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MissHarlet

I prefer " artful drapeing" and a package to unwrap .......


Not enough credit is given to this. It seems there is so much focus on the "naked" aspect of this lifestyle and not on what i think is my new favorite description "artful draping". i can understand a Dominant wanting his submissive to feel vulnerable in their nakedness and i can also understand the comfortable submissive/slave wearing her skin like a fine silk toga. But very little is said on minimal yet tasteful accentuation of ones attributes with the subsequent downplaying of less than stunning bodyparts. 



Pyrrsefanie -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 1:31:25 PM)

I love seeing my Master naked.  Especially shirtless.  He's got fantastic biceps and shoulders and pecs and aaaaahjgdjgkfgksdkd;;

'scuse me, need to wipe up the drool before I short out my keyboard... moving on...

I, on the other hand, am really insecure about my appearance, so I hate being naked in front of him.  Bleh.



szobras -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 1:38:18 PM)

I am terribly shy about it....NOT



agirl -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 1:46:10 PM)

Its not so much the *being naked* as the *getting naked*  that I don't like. Going from *clothes on* to *clothes off*, I feel vulnerable for a fleeting moment or two......lol. Once accomplished, I'm fine these days. I used to really DETEST being naked around him, but it was going to happen, like it or not, and over time I just gave up.

I'd still prefer to have a vest and bottoms on sometimes, and other times I LOVE being starkers. There's no rhyme or reason to it, often.

agirl






Oubliette746 -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 1:55:47 PM)

Hi, newbie here. [sm=hello.gif] 
I gotta agree with the "artful draping" comments. It's why I have a love for the old pin-up pictures. I think it has a lot more appeal than a naked woman trying to show her tonsils through the wrong end, but that's just my opinion. Looking at a pin-up, the attire and the environment of it can spark a fantasy. The pop of every button, the purr of the zipper; raise her skirt, what's underneath? You decide.



SaintAllie -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 2:14:58 PM)

The art of dressing  for pleasure is my preference.. I'm comfortable either way.

szobras :) great to see you, how's the sculpture coming along?

Allie



Aileen68 -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 2:18:02 PM)

I love being nude, but I think most bodies look better with clothes on.

on a side note...love the title to this thread.



gypsygrl -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 2:39:18 PM)

I'm probably too comfortable naked.  If it were up to me, I probably wouldn't bother with clothes at all  except to keep warm because they're inconvient, cost money and make dirty laundry but thats the practical side of me talking.  There's nothing sexy or uncomfortable about practicality.  There's some clothes that make me feel more naked than if I were totally nude.  



xoxi -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 2:40:52 PM)

Well first of all I love getting dressed up.  Even totally naked I like to wear jewelry.  Or a scarf around my waist to hide my tummy ;)

I'm also not 100% comfortable with my body - if I know the man I'm with loves me and finds me beautiful I will believe him, and I'll prance around naked at home all day long.  But as far as getting naked in public - nooooooo way.  It's hard enough for me to put on a swimsuit and go to a pool party - too many hot bitches in bikinis for me to feel like anything but a cow.  I could never go naked in front of anyone who wasn't already in love with my body for many reasons besides its physical appearance.

When I'm with someone new I usually feel uncomfortable at first...but once I trust them enough to know that they actually find me attractive I start to loosen up.  I'm at like a 'medium' weight right now - I've been a LOT thinner and also a LOT heavier.  So naturally I have stretch marks...and they suck.

I've actually found that when I talk to someone online who is somewhat long distance after awhile I actually want to show them pics of me in underwear and stuff....so they don't get delusions that I'm totally hot [;)]



Damocles809 -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 2:46:29 PM)

I don't mind naked. 

But I live in a pretty hot climate, so it's just usually swimming trunks or hiking shorts.



kyraofMists -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 2:53:22 PM)

I very much enjoy being naked around him whether it is in his house or at an event.  I really thought that I would have a hard time stripping at a play party, but it really wasn't a big deal.  He finds me attractive and that is what matters most.

Knight's Kyra



Tristan -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 3:02:20 PM)

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I love being nude, but I think most bodies look better with clothes on.


Having visited many natural hot springs around the country, I could not agree with this statement any more.  lol. 

Tristan



eyesopened -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 3:17:01 PM)

i have to say i'm self-conscious about being naked because of a recent weight gain.  if not for that i would be naked as often as possible.



breatheasone -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 3:23:44 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I love being nude, but I think most bodies look better with clothes on.

on a side note...love the title to this thread.

Thanks....[;)]



DesireDeeva -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 3:23:59 PM)

quote:

Do Y'all enjoy being naked around your mate? OR Do you tolerate being naked in front of them?

Though I'm currently single, I do enjoy "nakedness" whether I have a mate or not.[:D][;)]
 




SirEbonyPhoenix -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 3:39:36 PM)

See, this is one of the reasons why I keep my curtains and blinds closed! And as they say, if you dig it, do it! LMAO



lighthearted -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/28/2007 3:42:36 PM)

I wouldn't say I like it, but I've gone past the "tolerate" phase.  I'm 42 and have had two UMs, so there's some stuff to be self-conscious about.  it really took me some time to believe Sir when he told me he found my body beautiful, because I flat out didn't believe him.  when I *try* to see myself through his eyes, and not my own critical ones, it's easier to relax. 

am I comfortable being naked in general, around the house?  not really.  I prefer a tank top and boyshorts, or even just a robe, but I'm weird like that.


edited cuz I'm repetitive



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