RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly

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adoracat -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (10/1/2007 5:45:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddysprop247 but it's true females in general tend to view themselves harshly and often have a low opinion of their bodies. Men otoh, for the most part seem rather confident and secure with their appearance, even when they may not exactly be a "hunk"...i always wondered why that was. men dont deal with the pervasive images that women do, that you must look like the models and actresses shown in ads, television, and movies to be attractive. only big breasted, small waisted, rounded buttocked women with long necks, long legs, and white teeth need apply at the "attractive" window. i'm short, rounded, no longer in my 20's, i have long legs but no ass to speak of...i dont see myself as attractive at all. however, i'm being actively pursued in IM by someone who's been pursuing for some 7 years now...Sir loves me as i am...my hubby of 15 years thinks i'm still good to look at... so its not so much how i see myself as much as the ones who look at me see me. kitten, who still hears "ugly fat stupid pissant ignorant" when she looks in the mirror

LaMistressa -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (10/1/2007 5:52:08 AM)
Me, I like wearing clothes even when I'm relaxing around the house (usually yoga pants and a tank top or something similarly casual.) I prefer my submissives to be naked, (or to have on panties and stockings if they are male) -- the person wearing clothes is clearly the person with the power in a household....and there's someone to answer the door when the takeout arrives! [;)]

DocRudy -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (10/1/2007 7:41:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone quote: But it makes it no less frustrating to see the person you love not swayed in the slightest in their self-loathing no matter how much positive attention and love you shower them with. [:****] DocRudy....wow, I had never looked at it this way...It makes sense though....On the RARE occasion Master says something less then flattering about His Self I know I cringe...It actually hurts my heart to hear Him say those kinds of things about the man I love...so, ok..I get it...because I love Him I have decided to love His property as well...now old habits die hard so I won't be perfect, but I'm going to make a concerted effort to REALLY not say or have a negative attitude about myself....Seriously DocRudy...thanks for the eye opener! You know what they say, attitude is everything! I really am a firm believer in that, expecially when it comes to sex appeal. And praise the LAWD, 1 female down, 3 billion to go! Thanks bao, you allow me hold out hope that more women can realize what you just did. :) -DR

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (10/1/2007 7:57:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone I can dig it LA...and OMG LMAO you made me think of the time I went out side to get the mail(mail box was at the end of the drive way at the road) when I was about sixteenish. I had forgotten to put pants on, so all I had on was a tee-shirt and unders LOL...I was MORTIFIED!!! See I'd just be annoyed- why the fuck should I have to put on a layer of fabric? It's still in the 90s here dangit.

dcnovice -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (10/1/2007 8:32:06 PM)
As a public service, I keep my clothes on.

subboi3382 -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (10/3/2007 1:47:27 AM)
I love to. I am kept naked at home usually

favesclava -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (10/3/2007 2:20:04 AM)
i have to wear pretty thongs only. breast must always be exposed when in the bedroom. there's a short slave dress for when i have to go outside . i feel sexy when He looks at me. feels so naughty to be used as decoration.LOL. at my age , imagine that!

patwi -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (10/3/2007 6:32:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddysprop247 i loathe being naked...even getting naked to bathe and prepare myself i avoid looking at myself in the mirror as much as possible. i'm extremely self-conscious about my body, skin, etc., and on most days don't think i'm anything worth looking at. that others, including my Master, disagree is irrelevant, i still dislike the way i look. but when i'm actively serving...whether it's sexual service or something else, my focus is 100% on whatever i'm doing and doing the best possible job, and it serves as a merciful distraction from the fact that i'm nude. I find that most days I feel the same, and avoid nudity, even when alone. I even refuse to go to the "female" doctor because dammit, I don't want anyone else seeing those parts of me aside from my shuband!

artistbrandi -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (10/3/2007 7:01:36 AM)
I'm generally pretty comfortable with my nakedness- I've never had any complaints! I am a little shy about my thighs- I've had tiny veins on them since I was a child that seem to be getting worse as I get older- but women are always more judgemental of their bodies than their men are- I doubt anyone really notices them or cares. I tend to radiate heat instead of keep it in, so often I'm too chilly to have them all off. A bra is more comfortable to walk around in, esp with our stairs...but the pants generally come off when I come home from work- both my husband and I. My male friends (I don't really have female friends..) know to call before coming over so we can put our pants on, lol.

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