RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly

RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion

Message

breatheasone -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 10:05:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sublizzie quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone Holy shit....I can imagine...naked in front of others?... yeah...i'm not seeing it.... I do nekkid in front of others because it is required AND because it shows my submission. I don't like it but I do it as an act of obedience. I hear you loud and clear...and so would I. I just would be WAY unhappy about it...HOWEVER...not only would I obey...I would do it with a smile on my face...because to ME obeying isnt enough...To me obeying with a GOOD attitude is the thing.

DocRudy -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 10:08:31 AM)
I suppose for most, the degree to which they enjoy being naked is directly proportional to their self-confidence in their physical appearance. Not all, but most I would say. I just love being naked. Barring that, wearing something that shows off my positive attributes is a great thing. Am I a bit of an exhibitionist? Yes, I suppose you could say that, hehe. [:D] -DR

sublizzie -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 10:15:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone I hear you loud and clear...and so would I. I just would be WAY unhappy about it...HOWEVER...not only would I obey...I would do it with a smile on my face...because to ME obeying isnt enough...To me obeying with a GOOD attitude is the thing. I do it with a good attitude, I think. At least I know I try to. But I've also learned to go into the Emperor's New Clothes mind set once I've experienced the submission/ humiliation/ whatever that's part of being nekkid. I always give the initial feelings to the Dominants but to be able to continue nekkid I have to do the mind game otherwise I'd try to crawl under the furniture to hide.

Daddysgirl19 -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 11:43:11 AM)
Im chubby. I dont like being naked. I am to self concious. Even though I am losing weight its going to take a lot more to get me to be comfy being naked... I know that the one I am with wants to be with me even if I am chubby but its still ....tramatizing![&:]

InkedMaster -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 11:50:29 AM)
Ever since Mom would tie a porkchop around my neck to get the family dog to play with me. Ohh how I wanted to be adopted by a family of opposums and raised free as....well. as well as a kid with a porkchop around his neck could be!

RaynaSub -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 11:56:05 AM)
I have learned to love my body, because my Master loves my body. My body is far from perfect, but we both love everything about it.

breatheasone -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 2:01:24 PM)
Sublizzie, I hear ya about the crawl under furniture thing! I can also see were "mind set" would be key to helping yourself relax into your environment. Dadysgirl19, good for you and I hope you keep losing...I also lost quite abit of weight(80 pounds) but unfortunately at my age I just look like someone popped me with a pin LOL (lots of skin YUCK!) so even though I'm thinner than I was, I still don't like the way this body looks. Ain't that a bitch? InkedMaster, LMAO...you are too funny! Rayna, How wonderful it is you like everything about your body...I hope to get to at least the heavy like stage! [;)]

breatheasone -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 2:05:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DocRudy I suppose for most, the degree to which they enjoy being naked is directly proportional to their self-confidence in their physical appearance. Not all, but most I would say. I just love being naked. Barring that, wearing something that shows off my positive attributes is a great thing. Am I a bit of an exhibitionist? Yes, I suppose you could say that, hehe. [:D] -DR Well right on....my Master is also an exhibitionist, just with MY body not His...LMAO(oh the pain)

daddysprop247 -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 4:39:26 PM)
i loathe being naked...even getting naked to bathe and prepare myself i avoid looking at myself in the mirror as much as possible. i'm extremely self-conscious about my body, skin, etc., and on most days don't think i'm anything worth looking at. that others, including my Master, disagree is irrelevant, i still dislike the way i look. but when i'm actively serving...whether it's sexual service or something else, my focus is 100% on whatever i'm doing and doing the best possible job, and it serves as a merciful distraction from the fact that i'm nude.

DocRudy -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 5:37:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddysprop247 i'm extremely self-conscious about my body, skin, etc., and on most days don't think i'm anything worth looking at. that others, including my Master, disagree is irrelevant, i still dislike the way i look. This is a sentiment I see echoed time and time again by females in particular. I know it's so common that it must be damned ol' human nature! But it makes it no less frustrating to see the person you love not swayed in the slightest in their self-loathing no matter how much positive attention and love you shower them with. [:@] Some do it, undoubtedly, merely to "fish" for compliments. I don't believe that this is the majority, however. -DR

AquaticSub -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 5:45:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone Do Y'all enjoy being naked around your mate? OR Do you tolerate being naked in front of them? Edited to add: and before You say anything Master, I'm not saying i'm ugly...I'm just asking a question.[;)] I just like being naked. I don't really view it as sexual.

daddysprop247 -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 8:27:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DocRudy [This is a sentiment I see echoed time and time again by females in particular. I know it's so common that it must be damned ol' human nature! But it makes it no less frustrating to see the person you love not swayed in the slightest in their self-loathing no matter how much positive attention and love you shower them with. [:@] Some do it, undoubtedly, merely to "fish" for compliments. I don't believe that this is the majority, however. -DR ugh...someone giving compliments after hearing me criticize my appearance is the worst. my pessimistic mind is positive that they're only saying positive things in an attempt to make me feel better, they pity me, etc., and that is just humiliating. but it's true females in general tend to view themselves harshly and often have a low opinion of their bodies. Men otoh, for the most part seem rather confident and secure with their appearance, even when they may not exactly be a "hunk"...i always wondered why that was.

breatheasone -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 8:36:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddysprop247 quote: ORIGINAL: DocRudy [This is a sentiment I see echoed time and time again by females in particular. I know it's so common that it must be damned ol' human nature! But it makes it no less frustrating to see the person you love not swayed in the slightest in their self-loathing no matter how much positive attention and love you shower them with. [:@] Some do it, undoubtedly, merely to "fish" for compliments. I don't believe that this is the majority, however. -DR ugh...someone giving compliments after hearing me criticize my appearance is the worst. my pessimistic mind is positive that they're only saying positive things in an attempt to make me feel better, they pity me, etc., and that is just humiliating. but it's true females in general tend to view themselves harshly and often have a low opinion of their bodies. Men otoh, for the most part seem rather confident and secure with their appearance, even when they may not exactly be a "hunk"...i always wondered why that was. If you ever find out let me know so I can implement it! [;)]

breatheasone -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 8:42:42 PM)
quote: But it makes it no less frustrating to see the person you love not swayed in the slightest in their self-loathing no matter how much positive attention and love you shower them with. [:****] DocRudy....wow, I had never looked at it this way...It makes sense though....On the RARE occasion Master says something less then flattering about His Self I know I cringe...It actually hurts my heart to hear Him say those kinds of things about the man I love...so, ok..I get it...because I love Him I have decided to love His property as well...now old habits die hard so I won't be perfect, but I'm going to make a concerted effort to REALLY not say or have a negative attitude about myself....Seriously DocRudy...thanks for the eye opener!

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 9:29:48 PM)
My partner continues to believe I have a force field around me that propels clothing- I've had to be reminded to put them on before leaving the house before (or been a few steps out the door before being called back) That being said, I love fashion and all its glory and I love using clothes for decoration and certainly protection from the weather. But it's not a sexual thing or a "ooo naughty" thing, it's just how I am.

BDsbabygirl -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 10:02:51 PM)
Doesn't say anything, but is very* grateful to have UMs that do not allow for constant nakedness, and is just as grateful that plastic surgery [to correct the post-child-having flaws] will be had by the time they leave home*

breatheasone -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 10:10:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross My partner continues to believe I have a force field around me that propels clothing- I've had to be reminded to put them on before leaving the house before (or been a few steps out the door before being called back) That being said, I love fashion and all its glory and I love using clothes for decoration and certainly protection from the weather. But it's not a sexual thing or a "ooo naughty" thing, it's just how I am. I can dig it LA...and OMG LMAO you made me think of the time I went out side to get the mail(mail box was at the end of the drive way at the road) when I was about sixteenish. I had forgotten to put pants on, so all I had on was a tee-shirt and unders LOL...I was MORTIFIED!!!

breatheasone -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 10:12:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BDsbabygirl Doesn't say anything, but is very* grateful to have UMs that do not allow for constant nakedness, and is just as grateful that plastic surgery [to correct the post-child-having flaws] will be had by the time they leave home* HEY!!!! I want plastic surgery DAMN IT!!! [:D] Can having grandchildren be blamed for a saggy belly by chance? LOL

rmanrr -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 10:14:52 PM)
Greetings I like My body just fine...although lighter might be ok. I like My woman's body just fine the way she is too...although she wants to "improve" it....her choice as she lives in there.

Vendaval -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/30/2007 10:16:30 PM)
My home is clothing optional and we do keep the curtains on the windows and doors where the neighbors could see us.

Page: << < prev 3 4 5 [6] 7 next > >>

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.046875