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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 12:51:37 PM   
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nocturnal_emission
So apparently a "wet dream" isnt the same as cumming on command or cumming without sexual stimulation.  So I'm not sure how the two connect...but the research was fun...


No offense to Wiki, but I don't consider them a valid source of, well, anything. However, these are the words of the source you quoted and I've bolded what I believe to be pertinent.

"They may or may not be accompanied by erotic dreams, and the emission may happen without erection. It is possible to wake up during, or to simply sleep through, the ejaculation in what is sometimes called a "sex dream". Women can also experience orgasms in their sleep."

Your own source says that women can experience orgasms (cumming) in their sleep and that such may or may not be accompanied by erotic dreams. If you're asleep, what's stimulating you to orgasm?

Celeste

LOL..ok Uncle!....FOR ME PERSONALLY...i don't see cumming without physical stimulation. If others claim that, I admit to being skeptical, so shoot me....


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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 12:52:05 PM   
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Sorry...i'm not in the camp of people that believe cumming is possible without stimulation. Just my opinion...and nothing more...


Interesting.. so, being in the camp that doesn't believe they are even possible, how do you explain wet dreams?

Celeste


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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 12:54:06 PM   
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Interesting.. so, being in the camp that doesn't believe they are even possible, how do you explain wet dreams?

Celeste


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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 12:59:13 PM   
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Sorry...i'm not in the camp of people that believe cumming is possible without stimulation. Just my opinion...and nothing more...


i'm with you on this one but pleaseeeeee someone prove me wrong



I'm not sure what sort of 'proof' you guys will accept, but maybe this will do it. If not, then all I can say is that my hope is that you'll one day experience what's being spoken of here and that will do the trick. That's the only thing that worked for me, so I accept your skepticism since I used to share it.

http://www.sexualhealth.com/article/read/women-sexual-health/orgasm/429/

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 1:02:49 PM   
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LOL..ok Uncle!....FOR ME PERSONALLY...i don't see cumming without physical stimulation. If others claim that, I admit to being skeptical, so shoot me....



lol Okay, I had already linked another article before I read this. Fair enough. I won't try to convince you anymore.

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 1:04:39 PM   
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LOL..ok Uncle!....FOR ME PERSONALLY...i don't see cumming without physical stimulation. If others claim that, I admit to being skeptical, so shoot me....



lol Okay, I had already linked another article before I read this. Fair enough. I won't try to convince you anymore.

Celeste

BTW...You are a very nice to "chat" with on the boards!


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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 1:06:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've found that I can cum from anal penetration/stimulation without touching my cock.  I'm sure that has a lot to do with the prostate being stimulated.  But outside of that, I really haven't been able to have an orgasm without some kind of penis stimulation.  I've come close - but I've always needed a little manipulation to get over the edge.

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 1:09:39 PM   
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BTW...You are a very nice to "chat" with on the boards!



Aw, that was sweet. Thank you!

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 1:54:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		i mean without any stimulation. i was so wowed by this that i tested it a bit.  i had not been touched, spoken to, or even been thinking about sex.  i played with this a bit trying to  find a situation where i couldn't do it.The big bugaboo for me was the squirting, i was tempted to try it in my car, etc, but was afraid of soaking my clothes.--the squirting also reassured me that i actually had cum, since the pad was wet.

Some research on the web brought me to "Persistent Sexual Arousal Syndrome (PSAS)" My wonderful Dom, who happens to be an MD, opines that this is not me, since orgasm is  completely under my control.

BTW i am 51, not a young girl, and most of my life orgasm was fairly difficult to obtain.

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 2:15:23 PM   
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Sorry...i'm not in the camp of people that believe cumming is possible without stimulation. Just my opinion...and nothing more...


i'm with you on this one but pleaseeeeee someone prove me wrong



i'm with you on this one but pleaseeeeee someone prove me wrong

laughing...
 
well then...  c'mere!   < HAD to add that...just had to! 
 
bad....going to my corner now...but I will be gigglin while I'm standing there.
 
 
 
 

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 2:32:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		i would like to add my own experiences - i am almost 50 and have been with my Master for just over 3 years now.
Before that i was in the vanilla world though constantly dreaming and fantasising about D/s and BDSM.
i had only once experienced an orgasm from another person's hand, and never from sexual penetration.
Master has changed that - not only am i now multi orgasmic, but just one word from Him and i cum.
He started by training my mind to react that way when He touched my little finger of my left hand - it has become one of those things He likes to do at any opportunity - supermarket, in the car, out at dinner - where ever it takes His fancy. Then He began to count down from 10 and i found myself having an orgasm when He got to 1.... so now all He has to say is 1!
It amazes me that it is the mental connection between U/us which causes this - W/we have tried with other people touching my finger ( i was blindfolded) and it had no effect on me until it was His hand.

i believe this is mind control and the mind is a wonderful thing...

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 2:53:14 PM   
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all in the mind baby, all in the mind


I agree...mental stimulation is key...and hawt...I can easily cum without physical stimulation...

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 2:57:13 PM   
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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 3:28:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		*takes a deep breath*.....I seriously wonder if some women act as though they are having this "non-stimulus" orgasm for their doms benefit...you know to make the dom feel all good and powerful about themselves. Ok be gentle when Y'all flame me for my "thinking out loud."

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 3:34:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		i thought the same thing, but i did see a demo once where a sub came from a hard paddling. Now i could not tell she came, her dom said she did and she claimed she did. She said she used to have a problem spontaneously cumming with no control over it, which made it hard to go anywhere. Once she found bdsm and pain she can now control it through the use of pain. i think those who cum on command probably don't have the kind of orgasms i, and maybe you breathsasone, are thinking of - those body trembling, breathless, muscle spasming, screaming and panting kind. i think they are probably pre tremors to the big quake if anything.  But i could be wrong, but i know if i came on command as a bank teller everyone in that bank would know and be looking at me real funny lol. 

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 3:40:48 PM   
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i thought the same thing, but i did see a demo once where a sub came from a hard paddling. Now i could not tell she came, her dom said she did and she claimed she did. She said she used to have a problem spontaneously cumming with no control over it, which made it hard to go anywhere. Once she found bdsm and pain she can now control it through the use of pain. i think those who cum on command probably don't have the kind of orgasms i, and maybe you breathsasone, are thinking of - those body trembling, breathless, muscle spasming, screaming and panting kind. i think they are probably pre tremors to the big quake if anything.  But i could be wrong, but i know if i came on command as a bank teller everyone in that bank would know and be looking at me real funny lol. 

LOL..I'm with you on that...I was on the phone with my Master yesterday, and He asked me to masturbate, so of course I did. Well I apparently am NOT very quite (even though i swear i thought i was being) cause my husband called out, and asked if I was "ok" Then my husband saw that I was on the phone, and figured out that I was talking to my Master. He said geez...never mind...LMAO how embarrassing!


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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 3:47:59 PM   
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..... i think those who cum on command probably don't have the kind of orgasms i, and maybe you breathsasone, are thinking of - those body trembling, breathless, muscle spasming, screaming and panting kind. i think they are probably pre tremors to the big quake if anything.  But i could be wrong, but i know if i came on command as a bank teller everyone in that bank would know and be looking at me real funny lol. 


this i agree with, i would call it more like a ripple before the wave, what i have with my little finger or with His voice are just ripples, and nothing like the way my body reacts to His touch - then it is mindblowing, breathless, etc....

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 3:51:18 PM   
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..... i think those who cum on command probably don't have the kind of orgasms i, and maybe you breathsasone, are thinking of - those body trembling, breathless, muscle spasming, screaming and panting kind. i think they are probably pre tremors to the big quake if anything.  But i could be wrong, but i know if i came on command as a bank teller everyone in that bank would know and be looking at me real funny lol. 


this i agree with, i would call it more like a ripple before the wave, what i have with my little finger or with His voice are just ripples, and nothing like the way my body reacts to His touch - then it is mindblowing, breathless, etc....


Well if this is what everyone means than i agree i might (big might) be able to do that, with the right dom, training, and state of arousal.  Lucky you


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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 4:00:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		I definitely believe in the ability to cum without direct physical stimulation, and as already mentioned by others, "nocturnal emissions" are a pretty good proof of this.

On the other hand, I'm extremely skeptical about "orgasm on command", if this means an immediate response, regardless of the sub's state of arousal prior to the command. Yes, I think the command to cum can result in orgasm if the sub is already in a state of arousal, and it doesn't matter how that state was reached. But do I believe such a command will force an immediate orgasm from a sub who's not pretty close to the brink already? No.

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 4:33:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		believe me - it happens - in the supermarket, in the car, in a train, on a tram, even at the dinner table, anywhere He desires it to happen - its mind control and - in my case - impossible to stop or ignore - i have tried!

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