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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 5:00:57 PM   
littlebitxxx


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Status: offline 		Thank you Celeste, for the link.  It is very informative.  I've awakened having an orgasm from erotic dreams.  I've orgasmed during flogging.  And I can't wait to learn how to cum on command!!  Since I am a gusher, I may regret that wish someday...lol...but for now it is an exciting prospect for the future. 

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 5:31:16 PM   
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believe me - it happens - in the supermarket, in the car, in a train, on a tram, even at the dinner table, anywhere He desires it to happen - its mind control and - in my case - impossible to stop or ignore - i have tried!


It is something that fascinates me. i want to ask you - if you didn't think it was possible to begin with, do you think it would have affected your success with it?  Like believing it could happen is half the struggle to get there?


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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/29/2007 6:36:33 PM   
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Sorry...i'm not in the camp of people that believe cumming is possible without stimulation. Just my opinion...and nothing more...


its hard work to get there, but its possible....and delightful

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/30/2007 12:38:44 PM   
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Interesting.. so, being in the camp that doesn't believe they are even possible, how do you explain wet dreams?

Celeste


i believe during sleep, when a man gets an erection if he moves around he is stimulating his cock by rubbing it against the bed/sheets/pillow.  i can remember when i was pregnant i started to have orgasms in my sleep, what a way to wake up .  i wondered how it was possible, then it occured to me, i was sleeping with a pillow between my legs because i had pelvic pain and this aleviated the pain. i believe the pillow was stimulating me during sleep.  It has happened since then, but i have continued to sleep with the pillow betwen my legs, it's just more comfortable that way... and i like the benefit



I've had orgasms in my dreams without any pillow or rubbing there at all.. I'd wake up and knew that I came.  I've also cum at times with stimulation of other parts- not the genitals.  So I think there's a lot about our bodies we don't understand.

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/30/2007 2:07:38 PM   
Tigrita


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Status: offline 		On 2 or 3 occasions in my life I've had a full-blown orgasm from pure daydreaming with no touching, rubbing, motion, or stimulation at all.  But, it wasn't out of the blue, it was with significant mental stimulation.  Cumming spontaneously on your own comand, wow, what a skill!  I don't know if I'd be able to do that (or want to, since the climb is half the fun).  In a very new relationship here, with the expectation and efforts already towards cumming on command, and feeling the sucess of steps in that direction, I firmly believe it is possible.  It is all between the ears, not between the legs, as Stephan says. 

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/30/2007 2:17:10 PM   
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I've also cum at times with stimulation of other parts- not the genitals.

Ok now this HAS happen to me...and I was FUCKIN FLOORED!!! I just couldn't believe it... it has just happened to me within the past 6 months, and its repeatable, so I know it wasn't a fluke


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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/30/2007 4:04:41 PM   
Decimus


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RE: cumming without stimulation - 9/30/2007 6:52:31 PM   
innerglow


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ORIGINAL: velvetears

..... i think those who cum on command probably don't have the kind of orgasms i, and maybe you breathsasone, are thinking of - those body trembling, breathless, muscle spasming, screaming and panting kind. i think they are probably pre tremors to the big quake if anything.  But i could be wrong, but i know if i came on command as a bank teller everyone in that bank would know and be looking at me real funny lol. 


this i agree with, i would call it more like a ripple before the wave, what i have with my little finger or with His voice are just ripples, and nothing like the way my body reacts to His touch - then it is mindblowing, breathless, etc....


These are real orgasms, complete, but not all that intense.  Pretty much the same as when i am having multiple orgasms.  When He aske me to wait and wait, then i have the panting, screaming kind. Sort of like ice cream or brownies, both yummy, but different in texture.

I really haven't spent much time on this, i wonder if i worked at it, what i could do.  Well, a girl must have goals, right?

Thank you to all for your input.
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RE: cumming without stimulation - 10/1/2007 12:42:40 AM   
Kellendra


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Status: offline 		Can have an orgasm without physical stimulation......yay for me...
It is a different kind of feeling.....can not quite describe it..but it is different.
And Noah would need his ark afterwards *cough cough*..so I know I am not completely insane.


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RE: cumming without stimulation - 10/1/2007 1:29:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: velvetears

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ORIGINAL: MJsgirl

believe me - it happens - in the supermarket, in the car, in a train, on a tram, even at the dinner table, anywhere He desires it to happen - its mind control and - in my case - impossible to stop or ignore - i have tried!


It is something that fascinates me. i want to ask you - if you didn't think it was possible to begin with, do you think it would have affected your success with it?  Like believing it could happen is half the struggle to get there?



i didn't even realise that He was training me for it, i had no idea that He was rubbing my finger when He was playing with me and making the connection from finger to mind to clit..... and the voice - it was the same, i don't think i ever had any thought that it was impossible, i only ever knew that i had problems in having orgasm with anyone else ever, but by the time He began this training He had already shown me what my body could do, given the right person who knew which buttons to press so to speak!

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 10/1/2007 10:06:13 AM   
LordVelvet


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Status: offline 		I have made a woman, who was driving, cum while I was on the phone with her. No touch, it was her first time and it amazed her. Now since no one else has volunteered, velvettears, I will make the sacrifice and teach you
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RE: cumming without stimulation - 10/1/2007 12:04:48 PM   
breatheasone


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Status: offline 		I don't know guys...unfortunately I REALLY feel like, for whatever reason a very large majority of the "cum on command" "successes" are well, to be blunt false...that it was "faked", and the D types buy it hook line and sinker. Now I don't think its a vicious lie or anything..I just think that the women are genuinely just trying to make there men feel good, and like "it worked"
This is just my opinion!!!...I can't back it up with research or anything...AGAIN its just my opinion...and I could be totally wrong, I just somehow doubt I am.

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 10/1/2007 12:11:16 PM   
LordVelvet


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Status: offline 		I can understand that if you haven't experienced it, that it is hard to believe. I would be shocked that so many woman all lied just to make a Dom feel good, but hey it could happen.
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RE: cumming without stimulation - 10/1/2007 12:12:02 PM   
TotalState


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Status: offline 		It is my unscientific and unresearched notion that it is much, much harder to train some subs to do this than others.  Perhaps even impossible.

Still, can't forget the words of Picasso:

"He can who thinks he can, and he can't who thinks he can't. This is an inexorable, indisputable law."

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 10/1/2007 12:24:10 PM   
breatheasone


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ORIGINAL: LordVelvet

I can understand that if you haven't experienced it, that it is hard to believe. I would be shocked that so many woman all lied just to make a Dom feel good, but hey it could happen.
LordVelvet

See...I personally am not, or would not be shocked that its so widely "faked" for the pleasure of ones Dom....not at all. The desire to please ones Dom is very strong...which maybe why the myth is perpetuated


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RE: cumming without stimulation - 10/1/2007 12:58:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		I want to learn!!!!!!!!! Weeeeee what fun I would have.  Well, I may have too much fun... I'd be a cumming fool!

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 10/1/2007 1:17:34 PM   
LordVelvet


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ORIGINAL: LordVelvet

I can understand that if you haven't experienced it, that it is hard to believe. I would be shocked that so many woman all lied just to make a Dom feel good, but hey it could happen.
LordVelvet

See...I personally am not, or would not be shocked that its so widely "faked" for the pleasure of ones Dom....not at all. The desire to please ones Dom is very strong...which maybe why the myth is perpetuated




I understand where you are coming from, no pun intended. I guess for Me, if I found out that I had been lied to about it would have been very wrong in My book. At the time it happened, that was not the goal or even what was being talked about. It was the tone of My voice. I had mentioned that we could work on it, but weren't at the time. I guess I will have to go back to testing more often .
LordVelvet

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 10/1/2007 1:39:58 PM   
Aubre


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Status: offline 		I've always thought it would be a lot of fun to lock up a woman in a chastity belt and explore all the ways I could make her cum without any genital stimulation.

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 10/1/2007 1:49:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LordVelvet

I can understand that if you haven't experienced it, that it is hard to believe. I would be shocked that so many woman all lied just to make a Dom feel good, but hey it could happen.
LordVelvet

See...I personally am not, or would not be shocked that its so widely "faked" for the pleasure of ones Dom....not at all. The desire to please ones Dom is very strong...which maybe why the myth is perpetuated



But if it's not real, not honest...What good is it?
I have My little girl trained to cum without physical stimulation, but the mental stimulation has to be there. It's not instantaneous. It requires the right words, tone, and amount of time. Sometimes they come in big waves, sometimes in smaller ripples. But it does happen. I'd be very disappointed to find out that she was faking it. Not to find out that I couldn't accomplish something, but that she wasn't honest with Me. I'd rather her tell Me that it didn't work than mislead Me. Even if to make Me feel good.

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 10/1/2007 2:11:41 PM   
breatheasone


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But if it's not real, not honest...What good is it?

Perhaps its just the feeling of knowing you pleased your dom by "cumming on command"
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I'd rather her tell Me that it didn't work than mislead Me. Even if to make Me feel good.

Yes...exactly...but the NEED and desire to please is so strong that it may well trump honesty to some, and also this may seem like a falsehood that isnt really verifiable so no danger of any hurt feelings.


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