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RE: cumming without stimulation - 10/1/2007 2:31:08 PM

hejira92

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I can understand that if you haven't experienced it, that it is hard to believe. I would be shocked that so many woman all lied just to make a Dom feel good, but hey it could happen.
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See...I personally am not, or would not be shocked that its so widely "faked" for the pleasure of ones Dom....not at all. The desire to please ones Dom is very strong...which maybe why the myth is perpetuated

But if it's not real, not honest...What good is it?
I have My little girl trained to cum without physical stimulation, but the mental stimulation has to be there. It's not instantaneous. It requires the right words, tone, and amount of time. Sometimes they come in big waves, sometimes in smaller ripples. But it does happen. I'd be very disappointed to find out that she was faking it. Not to find out that I couldn't accomplish something, but that she wasn't honest with Me. I'd rather her tell Me that it didn't work than mislead Me. Even if to make Me feel good.

Oh no, Sir. I can assure you I have never faked it. And that one time in the middle of the restaurant I was actually pretty embarrassed at the intensity of the orgasm you gave me from across the table. It was actually a screaming one that time- keeping my mouth shut was a challenge!

But often, the orgasms by mental stimulation are of the smaller variety- those little ones that warm my body up and leave me craving the big, wracking, panting ones you so like to see. They put me in a good frame of mind to beg for your touch- another pleasant pastime of yours, Sir.

There have been times when it took me longer to reach the place you desired, but I have never prevaricated or placated. That would be dishonest- and a violation of your trust.

So, to the posters who doubt- with training and trust- it does happen.

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RE: cumming without stimulation - 10/3/2007 7:42:05 AM

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He dips His lid;

I love sceptics and p'raps describe myself as one! I realise from D/s that the ability to sub-space is definitely mind connected and in the mind dynamic of Dom to sub can definitely unlock it.   The tone of voice over a telephone can induce early spacing, to even re-triggering deep spacing (during aftercare say the following day).   I have evidenced this.

People have categorically argued to me that anal sex cannot produce a female orgasm yet females have 'sworn' it does with one being able to explain clearly that the orgasm is deeply interlinked to the D/s 'mind dynamic' where her One's voice 'rolls' it on.   Normally this occurs after she has previously had a heavy orgasm and is still on her plateau or not far down from it.

Now both these examples clearly demonstrate the power of the involuntary bodily response to the Dominant's behaviour/voice/actions. The same results that Ivan Pavlov made famous with his testing of dogs. (Sub's are dogs??? Umm some like furring up to a doggy bowl) However the 'classical conditioning' as it became known is relevant here in this thread and with the aforementioned responses- even if it was unintentional with the Dominant.

I have no reason to doubt the veracity of subs that I know personally that claim to have attained this ability. (Yes, I also have no doubt it can be faked)   I suggest that sceptics could read this link http://www.as.wvu.edu/~sbb/comm221/chapters/pavlov.htm which shows the many everyday occurences that can be used as a link to substantiate those who state they can 'cum on demand'.

Ripley. "Believe it or not!" but I believe it and BDSM continually expands my beliefs to be more open to those things I have not or am unable to experience.

On a definite but relevant side note- What man really believes a woman can experience an orgasm (as they claim) when it is so different from a man's perspective?   I think women just romanticise the effects so they can provoke a man when He just wants to turn over and sleep peacefully after His orgasm. (Most women just want to spoil the man's post-cum state!)

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