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RE: Why are we really into BDSM? - 10/1/2007 4:44:44 AM

laurell3

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When you're at work or in social situations, you're always tremendously restrained by protocol. It's like a diplomatic mission where you can never say what it is you mean. You must maneuver coyly in every conversation. Compare that with a downright steamy BDSM session where you actually do what you really want to do and she always enjoys you being the animalistic male that you were born to be. That's what I like about BDSM.

I agree and on the submissive side of course there's the absolute freedom of letting go and not having to decide or do and just be.
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RE: Why are we really into BDSM? - 10/1/2007 5:01:57 AM

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I am into BDSM because I enjoy the activities involved. I don't enjoy them to the point that they run my life, and they don't control the relationship.

I am into D/s because I can't imagine being in any other type of relationship. It's natural for me to submit to my partner. It's a part of who I am.

I've stopped wondering why I'm into what I'm into. Now, I just go with the flow.

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RE: Why are we really into BDSM? - 10/1/2007 5:06:20 AM

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I'm here for the beer...... Yo, BARTENDER!!!!

You get beer? No fair!

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RE: Why are we really into BDSM? - 10/1/2007 10:35:31 PM

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It was just there.

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RE: Why are we really into BDSM? - 10/2/2007 9:13:12 AM

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Why am I in it? Because it's part of me, that's one. And it allows me to transcend my small self, my selfishness and my resistances and really, truly experience the love of my partner and my love for her. Tie down my body and my mind goes quiet as well, at least sometimes, and there is no bigger gift I could wish for (except world peace of course).

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