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ORIGINAL: Vanatru

Well, no one brought it up, so I'll add to the fray. I can't really take female dominants seriously because of the way they talk and act. What I've seen is that dominance to them is all about play, sex, and postering.

In reality, a lot of what I've seen personally and close-up is really some kinda RP stuff. It's rather ironic, as women are typically seen as the nurturers, but unlike many male dom/masters talk about guide and protect etc, the women talk about use/abuse. In fact, some of the most extreme sadism I've seen have been perpetrated by these female dominants.

I've personally known, and been friends, with a limited selection of female dominants, but they never made the mistake of thinking I would be someone to dominate or that I was expected to respect them as dominants. It was always a sorta oddly mundane type friendship.

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"To learn the art of submission a slave must first give up the desires that drew him to submission in the first place." Mistress Jasmyn Jan 2005.