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RE: Why Are so many Doms Untruthful - 10/8/2007 1:14:41 PM   
laurell3


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: IamJustMe2C

Married men and women can and do seek and D's relationship all thie time and when they do find it there dosent have to any sex involved. do people forget this. This lifestyle does not revolve arround sex. Sex was incoriperated into it. how many times have you gone to a public play party where there was no sex?????????  I know plenty of married people that there spouce has full knowlege of what they are doing and meet's the other person. It is a shame when you think that the S in BDSM stands for SEX.

No there is no Cloud over your head there is however idiots out there that like to play and fake it. Keep up your serch and you shall find what you look for.


Moast peeeple doen't ferget that sex has to be a part of bdsm....But moast peeple lyk thie fact that theare bdsm duz fokus arround sex.....This lifestyle duz revolve around sex....If you ain't getting any then you are of of the few...Dig?  Most incoriperate it in there...Cuz they like sex. 

Also the op .....appears to dig sex as well.

Now I can understand how someone like yourself who was "trained" at the age of 13....Might reach a different conclusion.  Wow!!!!....You are an "expert' at just about every single fucking thing...Except "spellin"....How's that working for you?



lol

wait...WHAT?  The S doesn't stand for sex??????????????? (sob)

He's right, for many people it is very very sexual, I would suggest implying to new people that it's not isn't really all that appropriate.
l

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RE: Why Are so many Doms Untruthful - 10/9/2007 12:25:01 PM   
arayofsunshine55


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Status: offline 		This is life.  People lie in person.  People lie on the internet.  People don't share values.  Slow down enough to find out if the other person is really someone you like.  Really someone with whom you are compatible, not just from bdsm but rather life.  IMO this has little to do with WIITWD and more to do with human beings.   

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RE: Why Are so many Doms Untruthful - 10/15/2007 1:22:09 AM   
obis


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ORIGINAL: Aileen68
Well us Italians tend to generally be a hairy lot so domi was fairly safe in his assumptions. I happen to be tempered with a bit of non-hairy Germans so I even out much to domi's dismay.


Yes, but hair growth is caused by testosterone, which is linked directly to sex drive. In my personal, purely anecdotal experience you dark, thick-haired Italian ladies have nothing to ashamed of

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RE: Why Are so many Doms Untruthful - 10/15/2007 1:26:52 AM   
obis


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Status: offline 		And yeah, to the OP, this is the Internet, 97% of the people on the personals side of collarme are lying and just want to get their rocks off. Upgrade your bullshit detector, look for the signs of married, 13 year old canine FBI agents. If something sounds too good to be true, it probably is. The harder someone is trying to sell you something, the less likely is to be what you want. The good people aren't going to be chasing you down like a lawyer behind an ambulance.

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RE: Why Are so many Dom's Untruthful - 10/15/2007 4:44:56 AM   
mons


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Status: offline 		my dear they are just men, and who know what they want they may not even understand they own selves.

i am sorry your heart had been broken, it is so tough why not work slowly do not jump for the first Dom sorry guys in this group i seen selfish word written by some of you and wow egos so big i could and i am not strong enough to trust a Dom or master just could not do it

please take care of you first, then go and look for a real man and he may not be here i wish you luck

mons

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RE: Why Are so many Doms Untruthful - 10/15/2007 6:25:02 AM   
swtnsparkling


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Status: offline 		Why Are so many Doms Untruthful

probably the same reason so many subs are it goes both ways
it's just easier to play the game

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RE: Why Are so many Doms Untruthful - 10/20/2007 4:01:52 AM   
SoulPiercer


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Status: offline 		Can't resist this one:

1) Your profile says you're married. It also says you're "very loyal". Interesting. Unless your husband is going to drive you to your meetings with "master", you're going to have to tell an untruth or two in order to get out of the house. Therefore: People who live in glass houses shouldn't complain when the neighbors don't use Windex.

2) Granted any dominant (not "dominate" for god's sakes) who knows you're married should have no problem being honest about the fact that he's married too. Of course he could be practicing his lies on you .. to be sure they will work with his wife. Who knows.

People lie, be they dominant or submissive, politician or priest.

To Guest123: Most of us American men have been conditioned to lie, in order to spare the fragile feelings of the supposedly fairer sex. Just as American women have been conditioned to vacuum during the ball game and not during Desperate Housewives.

For me, when my special someone asks if the new dress makes her ass look fat, I reply with "Yes it does make your ass look fat, just the way I like it. Now come give Daddy some head."


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RE: Why Are so many Doms Untruthful - 10/20/2007 4:11:03 AM   
came4U


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wife: honey do these pants make me look fat

husband: baby, it ain't the pants.

WHAAAAK ^$%# LOL, a sound similar to Eddy Murphy's rendition of Aunt Bunny fallin down the stairs.

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RE: Why Are so many Doms Untruthful - 10/20/2007 4:18:30 AM   
RapierFugue


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ORIGINAL: came4U

or my old time favorite:

wife: honey do these pants make me look fat

husband: baby, it ain't the pants.

WHAAAAK ^$%# LOL, a sound similar to Eddy Murphy's rendition of Aunt Bunny fallin down the stairs.


heh.
 
My all-time fave for that sort of quote is Billy Connolly’s;
 
“I don’t mind fat girls, fat girls can be very sexy, but for Christ’s sake don’t be giving me any of those bloody excuses … “I’m retaining water” … No, YOU’RE RETAINING CHIPS! … “I’m big boned” … Aye, YER ARSE BONE’S A HELL OF A SIZE! … I’ve got a slow metabolism … Aye, AND A FUCKING FAST GOB!”

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RE: Why Are so many Doms Untruthful - 10/20/2007 4:23:01 AM   
came4U


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honestly, unless you are the Bionic Woman, how heavy can bones be? 65-95 more pounds than others of the same height??

gods. ya ya

or my other fave (and I do it myself):

girl: "Yes Master, you da man, Master mmmm"

dom: oh you such a good girl for obeying me by kneeling (over the net)

girl: thank you Master. *she grabs another handful of cheetoz.  I would do anything for you, you r speshul.



< Message edited by came4U -- 10/20/2007 4:26:01 AM >

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RE: Why Are so many Doms Untruthful - 10/20/2007 4:33:27 AM   
TPESOSWanted


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Status: offline 		Hilarious!  I hadn't heard Billy Connolly do that bit :-)  I respect a person a whole lot more if s/he is being honest (to me and to him/herself).  I don't make any excuses for the extra 20# on my ass -- I eat more calories than I burn.  (I don't have a 6-pack, I have the whole keg.)  I sit too much & need to exercise.  I'm still in the research & planning stages on that.  The environmental impact statement is taking a long time! :-) 

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ORIGINAL: RapierFugue
My all-time fave for that sort of quote is Billy Connolly’s;
 
“I don’t mind fat girls, fat girls can be very sexy, but for Christ’s sake don’t be giving me any of those bloody excuses … “I’m retaining water” … No, YOU’RE RETAINING CHIPS! … “I’m big boned” … Aye, YER ARSE BONE’S A HELL OF A SIZE! … I’ve got a slow metabolism … Aye, AND A FUCKING FAST GOB!”

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RE: Why Are so many Doms Untruthful - 10/20/2007 6:41:36 AM   
wisteriaV


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Status: offline 		Hmm interesting the person "wantoplease" states shes married. Does hubby know of her behavior? Does he care shes looking for someone to be loyal to? How can she be loyal and honest if she can't do the same for her hubby? Sorry there chicklet dont go bitching about someone else doing stuff you are....

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RE: Why Are so many Doms Untruthful - 10/20/2007 6:46:37 AM   
Vanatru


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Status: offline 		well, I have to say this thread has been a laugh-riot. thanks for getting my day going on a positive note!

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