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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 4:49:55 AM

chellekitty

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it takes all the way to 10?

*grumbles about ex's who got it down to a fucking look across the room with absolutely no stimulation or provocation just for his own fun....while we were still together of course*

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 7:43:25 AM

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It's always more fun to control orgasms on a girl with a high sex drive. Also not underrated is working with them to teach them to have orgasms without any genital stimulation, perhaps while wearing a chastity belt. I look at cbs not so much to stop someone from cheating but more for stopping them from masturbating so that they have to depend on me to access their naughty bits. I like the idea of only letting them out while their wrists are secured so that they don't ever get to actually touch their own genitals, and they have to depend on me to wash them.

A concept - a oral/anal only slave, who is only allowed non-genital touch orgasms. Problem is, those genitals are so much fun to play with ! But you could do quality mindfucks, and limited duration scenes like this.

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 7:50:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: AlwaysDripping

I know there's a lot of control that people like to have over guy's orgasms, but how many people are into controlling a girl's? I have a really high sex drive and I feel like someone controlling my orgasms would be just as effective as someone controlling a guy's. I would go just as insane from teasing and controlling and forced orgasms as a guy would, and probably just as submissive about it. Anyone into controlling a girl's orgasms?

Absolutely, it's one of my most favourite yummy things to do. They are no longer her orgasms, but mine.

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 8:58:13 AM

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I've done this with a previous sub. Teased the hell out of her. Brought her up to a very high state and then commanded her to not cum. Brought her back down and started all over again. Very enjoyable experience especially when I allowd her to cum after an hour of a roller coaster ride effect.

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 9:14:39 AM

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Personally I love to controll my sub.slave's orgasm's to the point of training them to cum by verbal command. The teasing is fun but when I can call them up and make them cum no mater where they are or when they are in the store when we are shopping it is even more fun.

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 9:16:33 AM

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if i am denied permission to orgasm, i will not orgasm....that night...no matter what you do...its not a roller coaster for me...its jumping out of an airplane..i am trusting that you will pull my rip cord....

edited to add:...the umm results aren't quite as permanent though....just really long lasting...

< Message edited by chellekitty -- 10/9/2007 9:17:24 AM >

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 9:55:35 AM

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Next to suspention.... definatly my favorite. I dont think words can really describe.

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 11:12:11 AM

AlwaysDripping

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I have a really high sex drive Aubre. The oral or anal only thing sounds like a really hot idea.

Also, LaTigresse brought up the point that makes it so hot. They would no longer be my orgasms but my Master or Mistress's.

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 11:20:24 AM

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Yes, that is a huge part of what makes it so hot for ME. Regardless of how badly she wants one, where she is, how quickly I demand it, how I demand she obtain it, how long it's been OR how recent, they are mine.

I have a slave friend that is in 24/7 servitude, though is in almost a constant state of arousal it is very difficult for her to orgasm. There are times her mistress will allow her to masterbate BUT will only allow it in front of her and only give her a specific time frame to accomplish it. If she does not do so in that amount of time then she is denied the orgasm. I love that!

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 11:24:19 AM

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Wow that's really hot! Need another girl to control? lol j/k. What your friend does is really hot too, but I'll admit I climax pretty quickly and I'm very multiple lol, so the time frame would have to be in like seconds.

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 11:27:49 AM

LaTigresse

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For that you would have to move to Iowa......I don't do long distance or internet. I like to see, feel and hear, this exquisite torture.

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 11:34:19 AM

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Well I'm definitely looking to relocate, but I was mostly kidding lol. 0:-)

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 11:37:43 AM

LaTigresse

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Mostly eh............ya big wuss

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 11:37:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave
LOL... I've heard that before. Oh come on, I can't be only one who's twisted and sadistic in this way?

Daddy loves to work me up for several days at a time, and deny me an orgasm. He'll still use me during that time, I'm just not allowed to let go and orgasm. I focus on his pleasure, soley, and get none of my own... though, there is pleasure in being simply a vessel for his desire; sometimes more so than a climax itself.

So you are, of course, not the only twisted, sadistic pervert out there - I promise!

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 11:45:13 AM

AlwaysDripping

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Lol well how would you want to work towards relocation then? ;-)

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 3:47:07 PM

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quote:

There are times her mistress will allow her to masterbate BUT will only allow it in front of her and only give her a specific time frame to accomplish it. If she does not do so in that amount of time then she is denied the orgasm. I love that!

I had a former submissive that I taught to cum on command in a very similar way. She would ask permission to cum only when she was on the very edge of release. I would give her a specific amount of time to actually orgasm. I would start at the count of ten and count to one. She had until the count of one to orgasm or she would be denied permission to orgasm that evening. I eventually shortened the time to the count of three and then one. She never knew when I would give her permission or how many times I would have her cum when permission was granted. Yeah, it was really fun!

Tristan

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 3:51:23 PM

LaTigresse

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There are many times I have talked to helena when she was almost in tears from the frustration. Several times her Mistress has come on the line and asked me if I would like to give her an extra few minutes as she had been very good, detailed the behaviour and then left it up to me. Very hot stuff.

Then there is my sarah, I kept sending her messages, just little things "touch here" "imagine this" for several days. Then one day during lunch I called her and told her to give it to me NOW. It took seconds. Delightful.

Just a small thing really, a facet of the whole, but fun none the less.

< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 10/9/2007 3:54:49 PM >

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 4:06:04 PM

mistressaries

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Is there a Label for this form of "Reverse Chasity"? If not there should be, cause I Love doing this immensely.

quote:

Have to agree with you Owner4SexSlave , it is alot of fun...even if it's only for an evening with the right girl. LOL...have done this and totally enjoyed the reactions when you finally give permission.
AlwaysDripping....good luck in your search .

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 5:07:50 PM

chellekitty

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

For that you would have to move to Iowa......I don't do long distance or internet. I like to see, feel and hear, this exquisite torture.

if the offer were for almost any other state...

i don't do corn fields and pig farms...

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 7:19:56 PM

LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

For that you would have to move to Iowa......I don't do long distance or internet. I like to see, feel and hear, this exquisite torture.

if the offer were for almost any other state... i don't do corn fields and pig farms...

Silly girl, there is alot more to Iowa than pigs and corn. I live on a small farm on a hill overlooking a beautiful valley. Not a pig or corn field in sight. Of course you have to get past me, and the evil rooster....

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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