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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 7:24:31 PM

chellekitty

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to get to the farm with you and the evil rooster i will have to pass pig farms and corn feilds....maybe if i traveled durring the day....hmmm

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 7:28:15 PM

adoracat

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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

you need a steel chastisty belt to control a female's orgasms?

if i am in a M/s relationship and they turn that key on, i can't have an orgasm for the life of me without permission, damn him for programming my brain to do that....

argghhhh you too????

it can get quite frustrating when i'm with the otherlove, and not with Sir.... of course the otherlove thinks its amusing, and is good about saying "yes"

kitten, who rolls her eyes at herself

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 7:35:46 PM

DocRudy

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This is one of my favorite "semi-vanilla" things to do, no doubt about it. I'm a sadist by nature, so I'm all for bringing a girl to screaming profanities, and tears of frustration and/or fury due to her being denied far longer than she expected to have to be denied.

Oh yes... as I've heard mentioned, her orgasms are no longer her own, but mine.

-DR

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/9/2007 8:12:25 PM

slavegirljoy

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This is very much how my Master is with me, although i don't shout profanities but, i do cry many tears of frustration and i beg, beg, beg, BEG for permission to orgasm. He controls my orgasms. He loves to order me to "Cum, Now", as He has me in His grip and is pulling and twisting my nipples and biting me. He has trained me so that i am no longer the masturbation addict, with a daily habit, that i was for my entire adult life before becoming His slave and now, i am constantly horny but, unable to orgasm without His permission. His control over my ability to cum gives me a very wonderful feeling of powerlessness that makes my orgasms so much more intense than i ever had before.

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ORIGINAL: DocRudy

This is one of my favorite "semi-vanilla" things to do, no doubt about it. I'm a sadist by nature, so I'm all for bringing a girl to screaming profanities, and tears of frustration and/or fury due to her being denied far longer than she expected to have to be denied.

Oh yes... as I've heard mentioned, her orgasms are no longer her own, but mine.

-DR

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/10/2007 2:40:00 AM

TheChastiser

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one should try iku romicon, a method for mentally controlling and invoking orgasms. its i guess a mixture of dendrite linking, mesmerism and hypnotism. not only can you invoke orgasms by voice or other given triggers, but of course one can remove the ability to have them too.

Mike

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/10/2007 8:14:11 PM

SexyBlackMan2

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Yes...and when I do allow my slave to cum it is usually so intense she starts shaking

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/11/2007 4:40:43 AM

RapierFugue

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ORIGINAL: AlwaysDripping

I know there's a lot of control that people like to have over guy's orgasms, but how many people are into controlling a girl's? I have a really high sex drive and I feel like someone controlling my orgasms would be just as effective as someone controlling a guy's. I would go just as insane from teasing and controlling and forced orgasms as a guy would, and probably just as submissive about it. Anyone into controlling a girl's orgasms?

It’s one of my fave things, both on a macro scale, ie allowing or not on a daily basis, and also in a micro scale, in terms of keeping a chained girl on the edge, but not letting her cum, for ages, sometimes hours. The resultant orgasm is always huge, and often gives me a gateway into driving her into multiples.

Once I’ve imprinted on a girl that I control her orgasms it’s a relatively short trip to be able to trigger them on demand (my demand, of course, not hers), and I’ve managed with several girls to be able to imprint a word or phrase that causes them to cum, whether they want to or not, some with minimal touching (and I mean very minimal, such as pinching a nipple or stroking a thigh) and in 3 cases with no contact at all … very amusing for shopping trips to the supermarket, that one.

Longer term denial is something I don’t tend to use too often (because I enjoy the power that comes from being able to make a girl orgasm hugely, so it would be denying myself pleasure, something I try to avoid whenever possible), but I’ve used as a punishment before now, and also sometimes as a way of building a girl to a semi-crazed state, where I force her to cum many times one day, then deny her for a few days before we meet, but have her touch herself each evening without being allowed to cum, so that at the point she gets to see me again she’s literally desperate to cum … and then of course it’s merely a matter of how she will earn that privilege, and what she will have to do for me to please me enough to allow her.

The longest I’ve ever denied a girl was 6 weeks … but that was a very special case, and something she’d wanted to try, so it was a case of having to put up with her pleading (this after she asked, in a roundabout way, to be denied for a prolonged period of time), and getting her to believe the period was actually going to be a lot longer even than that … the resultant orgasm after 6 weeks was strong enough to cause her to black out briefly, and she’s said that she’s yet to have a stronger one, as apparently most Doms give in to the pleading after only a short time.

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/11/2007 6:56:56 AM

subtee

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I like to see, feel and hear, this exquisite torture.

*gets out the phone book, frantically flipping pages looking for the heading, "Lesbian Submissive Conversion Immersion Training"*

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/11/2007 6:59:54 AM

LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: subtee

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I like to see, feel and hear, this exquisite torture.

*gets out the phone book, frantically flipping pages looking for the heading, "Lesbian Submissive Conversion Immersion Training"*

See me for the class schedule and curriculum.

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/11/2007 7:14:06 AM

CreativeDominant

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ORIGINAL: breatheasone
HOLY SHIT.....

LOL... I've heard that before. Oh come on, I can't be only one who's twisted and sadistic in this way?   I've even pulled this with my vanilla girl friends in the past. A little more subtle but still the same thing. You know having crazy non-stop sex and getting them to masterbate for me for a couple of weeks. Then without warning shut them off from having sex for 3 days, and ask them not to masterbate for a few days. That I have a special night I'm planning and it will be intense sex if they wait, amazing all one has to do is just sell somebody on the idea. Don't need no steel chastity belts save for all the Bad Girls out there that can't control themselves. hahaha.. Seriously though done with with Vanillas and BDSMer Girls.   I'm evil when it comes to this, I've been called evil.   I've heard HOLY SHIT after three days before... Even have heard other words such as "Asshole" slip out while prolonging an orgasm. Hehehe.. I'm loving every minute of it.

Feel a bit like a sexual drug dealer.. getting them all hooked on a lot of frequent sex and sexual stimulation, then shut 'em down... watch 'em go with cold turkey withdrawls.   A Vanilla girl you just gotta sell them on the idea of doing it, with a sub/slave in the lifestyle.. just gotta tell them not to do it.   Ask or Tell, either way it turns out with the same results.

Somehow controling an un elevated Sex Drive is not the same, as controlling an elevated one for awhile.  I'd rather have a Sex Addict on my hands and shut them down from time to time... instead of making somebody go for weeks and weeks on end without it.   Just ain't the same.   So I'm a bit like the anti-christ when it comes to Chastity.   I'll make one do it over and over again.   Then shut them off.   Just think in terms of how people practice Chasity and do everthing completely opposite. Down to instead of having somebody Beg me to cum, they find themselves begging me to stop.

Is there a Label for this form of "Reverse Chasity"?   If not there should be, cause I Love doing this immensely.

No....you are not the only one...~wicked smile~.

My first submissive had a very high sex drive. That was actually one of the reasons given to me for her seeking out a dominant. In her marriage, everything was very much equal with things based more on her control than her husband's. Through the years, she had become almost addicted to daily, multiple orgasms and since she did not want to submit to her husband but wanted this brought under control, it became a very fun part of our work together.

I too am a sadistic bastard and there was just so much fun to be had when I would not allow her to cum for a few days before we saw each other and then, sometimes, on the day she got here, just keep using her and using her and getting her aroused but never allowing her to orgasm. Other times, I would spend all day satisfying some of that pent-up sexual energy but make sure that there was some left over and then make her spend the rest of her time with me wondering if she was going to get to cum again, no matter how hard she begged.

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/11/2007 7:17:27 AM

ddthrill

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they called you asshole sir?

wonder ?

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/11/2007 7:20:16 AM

MissSCD

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Darke:

How did you get by with that one. I cannot say anything about a vague email on here without it getting deleted.
You went all out, and it is still there. I am jealous.

Regards, MissSCD

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/11/2007 8:14:49 AM

subtee

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she’s literally desperate to cum

Well, if as in "desperate" you mean "jaysus this thread is making me so hot with the panting and the squirming and the heart-flippy thing not to mention the rest of the, uh, reactions," then I'd have to say I think this is a quite apt and accurate word and I feel her pain. Yep.

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/11/2007 9:02:40 AM

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See me for the class schedule and curriculum.

*Registering...looking for the syllabus...wondering what "supplies" I will need*

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/11/2007 9:12:10 AM

seangrey

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I love orgasm control... One of my favorite things is to withhold until the need becomes to great and they slip, then get out the Hitachi and not let them stop coming until long after they start begging to stop coming. I have a slave that I have well enough trained that she comes on command and doesn't slip no matter what I do so with her I just take her right to the edge and hold her there for while then stop the stimulation and command her to cum until I tell her to stop. She can have rolling orgasms for 3-4 minutes without further stimulation, then if she stops cumming before I command her to. I use the Hitachi to push her beyond, this is usually all combined with pretty hard ties btw...

Here is to soaked sheets...

Sean

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/11/2007 9:26:53 AM

RapierFugue

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ORIGINAL: subtee

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she’s literally desperate to cum

Well, if as in "desperate" you mean "jaysus this thread is making me so hot with the panting and the squirming and the heart-flippy thing not to mention the rest of the, uh, reactions," then I'd have to say I think this is a quite apt and accurate word and I feel her pain. Yep.

Pain? But I didn’t mention pain!

I can do though, if you’d like … times of denial/delay are great times to use pain to push her over the edge into a huge orgasm. Done correctly, it imprints an association of the pain with the act of cumming, and again, over time, leads to her sometimes being able to cum through skilful use of pain alone, which is highly entertaining, as it affords one the pleasure of watching her internal struggles between the discomfort at the pain, and the impending orgasm as it builds.

Such fun

But then you knew that

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/11/2007 12:44:40 PM

CreativeDominant

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Here is to soaked sheets...

Sean
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And a soaked submissive...here, here.

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/11/2007 1:50:16 PM

subtee

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*Slides off her chair...*

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/11/2007 1:52:05 PM

LaTigresse

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Careful how far you slide, you may end up in Iowa City and we know what kind of trouble that means for you........

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RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? - 10/11/2007 1:57:50 PM

subtee

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Well, "Tee" stands for "Trouble"...right there in Iowa City

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