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KatyLied -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 7:23:25 AM)

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a hooker and an unloved whore.


Please, you know you like being called those.

[8D]




Aileen68 -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 7:24:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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a hooker and an unloved whore.


Please, you know you like being called those.

[8D]



Ssshhhh.  It's a secret. 




Aileen68 -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 7:25:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68
I don't understand why this thread became so judgemental and nasty.


Because this is CM?
 
the.dark.

 
You're right.  I actually forgot that for a second.




YesMistressIrish -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 7:26:26 AM)

Thanks for the laughs with my first cuppa coffee!
 
One-night stands: Back in the day we had little or nothing to worry about. Some of the best memories of my life were from one-nighters. Deep intimacy can and did occur in some for me.
 
First heard his laugh, 4 barstools away. We both leaned back at the same second and I saw one green sparkling eye, and I knew, instantly...that he would be mine. We danced and it turned out he put himself through college dancing for women. Sexy and sensual: check. Long hair, sexy body: check. Funny and smart: check.
Our first time: Four full rounds and the memory of him chasing me with yet another boner, completely naked and trying to outrace me on my out to my car: Absolutely Priceless!
 
Same guy a week later: I pulled up to the Hotel where he was working on the 4th floor balcony, dangled a pair of my cuffs up in air. He saw me, got his bosses attention and pointed to me holding the cuffs. A couple of his fellow workers cheered us on. His boss hurriedly waved his ok. I whisked him off (cuffed ) for a day of jacuzzi and sex at a local hotspring.
 
The next time I showed up at his workplace we kissed passionately and just made it to the huge linen closet in the Hotel. The door would not lock from the inside and I secretly wished a maid (in uniform) or a janitor would pop in, momentarily shocked; then join us!
 
Thanks Aileen for this great thread.
 
Memories.....




LaTigresse -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 7:45:41 AM)

Using fast reply........

Jesus fucking christ what a mess!

Over here (pointing to the right) we have the uptight old church ladies with the tighty whiteys shoved too far up their twats and obviously causing them no small amount of unenjoyable pain.

And over here (pointing to my left ) we have the beloved sluts, whores....and whatever else the assinine church ladies came up with.

For all you uptight old church ladies, your pathetic slips are showing. No one said you had to have a one night stand, no one said they were going to drug and drag your SO behind the football stadium bleachers for a one night stand, they just profess a love for having a one night stand. BIG FUCKING DEAL!!!

And no, I have never had a one night stand. It does not, nor has it ever, appealed to me. Just not my thing. Get it? I said MY THING! And yet, just because it is not MY THING, that does not mean it is wrong, or that I have any flipping right to look down my ever so uber dommely snotty stuck up in the air, ahhh nose, at anyone that wants to make it their thing.

I mean really, how DARE anyone sit on their self built pedestal of self created morality and judge someone for doing something that endangers no one but consenting adults........ESPECIALLY HERE!

pathetic.....




laurell3 -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 7:51:15 AM)

um...personally I might fuck the churchlady's hubby if she pissed me off enough [8D]
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GoddessMine -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 7:52:06 AM)

RABBGLE RABBLEE RARRRRR!...<cough>

Love,
GM




Gwynvyd -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 8:01:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Using fast reply........

Jesus fucking christ what a mess!

Over here (pointing to the right) we have the uptight old church ladies with the tighty whiteys shoved too far up their twats and obviously causing them no small amount of unenjoyable pain.

And over here (pointing to my left ) we have the beloved sluts, whores....and whatever else the assinine church ladies came up with.

For all you uptight old church ladies, your pathetic slips are showing. No one said you had to have a one night stand, no one said they were going to drug and drag your SO behind the football stadium bleachers for a one night stand, they just profess a love for having a one night stand. BIG FUCKING DEAL!!!

And no, I have never had a one night stand. It does not, nor has it ever, appealed to me. Just not my thing. Get it? I said MY THING! And yet, just because it is not MY THING, that does not mean it is wrong, or that I have any flipping right to look down my ever so uber dommely snotty stuck up in the air, ahhh nose, at anyone that wants to make it their thing.

I mean really, how DARE anyone sit on their self built pedestal of self created morality and judge someone for doing something that endangers no one but consenting adults........ESPECIALLY HERE!

pathetic.....



Ya know.. I was about to fire off something just like this.. but then my dear friend here did all the work for me. Thanks darlin'

Get the fuck over it people.

Every one has thier own level of comfort from temple virgin to full fledged slut. Personaly I think it is bad enough that folks on the outside of our community thinks and calls us sluts, and whores.. but when uppity self rightous lil bitches go about doing it.. it is simply sad. According to Bill Clinton I am almost damn near pure. I have had very little intercourse in my whole life.. and one night stands have never done it for me. It has happened when I was young. and if I found that certain chemistry I might concider it. But no one was forcing anyone else "you gotta do it" vibes. Refuckinglax people.

I think they are afraid of the so called sluts and whores because thier husbands and SO's find them more interesting. But maybe thats just my catty side comming out.

Act your age, not your shoe size.

Gwyn,
Happily commited in all of her realtionships.




LaTigresse -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 8:05:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

um...personally I might fuck the churchlady's hubby if she pissed me off enough [8D]
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Would probably make his day, week, month....oh hell, would probably be the best he ever had! And THAT my friends, is probably what the church ladies are afraid of.




astarri -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 8:05:51 AM)

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And over here (pointing to my left ) we have the beloved sluts, whores


Count me in!!
I used to have them frequently when i was younger and i learned so much bout men, myself and sex. Although i abstain from them now, sometimes i really want to go out and have sex with random people just for fun.
Sex in a committed relationship is great too. It opens up my imagination more and allows me to experiement with the sexuality of my brain.
it is a busy place up there!!
Aileen you are great and i appreciate your posts  [:D]

oh and i have found many men love sluts!!




laurell3 -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 8:07:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

um...personally I might fuck the churchlady's hubby if she pissed me off enough [8D]
l


Would probably make his day, week, month....oh hell, would probably be the best he ever had! And THAT my friends, is probably what the church ladies are afraid of.



hmm I don't know it riled up some sexy Dommes in response, which was kind of hawt [8D]

ok yeah...I'm going to work before I get in trouble here.
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Aileen68 -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 9:44:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

um...personally I might fuck the churchlady's hubby if she pissed me off enough [8D]
l


Would probably make his day, week, month....oh hell, would probably be the best he ever had! And THAT my friends, is probably what the church ladies are afraid of.



It's funny because the first thing I thought of when I saw that some seemed to take all of this a little too personally was that their significant other had fucked around on them.




slaveluci -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 9:52:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68
Anyone who enjoys fantastic committed relationship sex...more power to you.  I think it's fantastic.  I've had that in my life and I loved it.  I've also had and enjoyed casual sex.  Both have emotional and physical benefits

I totally agree, Aileen.  In my relationship with Master - which is a fantasic committed relationship - sex is the best it's ever been.  The connection is unlike anything I've ever found.  Does this mean that the casual sex I had as a college kid was not hot, fun, or the stuff cool memories are made of?  Not at all.  There has been good sex and bad, fun and not so fun, casual and committed, with men and women (sometimes both).  I don't have to compare and contrast all those experiences and say one is "better" than the rest.  Most were very positive and I'm glad they happened. 

This is no way means that casual sex was "better" than what I have now.  It's like comparing apples and oranges for me really.  Or a better example would be this:  I love chocolate.  Fine.  I can go to the finest restaurant in the country and have the most expensive, luscious, handmade chocolate dessert there is.  That's one form of "chocolate."  Or, I could go into town to the Dollar General Store and buy 4 chocolate bars for a buck and have those.  I happen to like both.  One isn't necessarily "better" than the other.  It just depends on what my need is at the time.  Sure, I love those fancy desserts but they aren't always available.  Sometimes (when PMS strikes) I just need that dirt-cheap stuff.  It all satisfies just on a different level if that makes any sense.  I wouldn't turn any of it down[8D].
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I don't understand why this thread became so judgemental and nasty

Because some people simply can't tolerate others enjoying something they don't like or understand.  How dare any of us enjoy hot monkey sex with virtual strangers if they don't?[:'(]  I pity that type of mentality................luci




susie -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 9:55:58 AM)

FR

Wow I went to work and look what happens. Really I thought they did not let non adult type people on here but I guess I was mistaken.

Really are we supposed to add all the necessary safety advice every time we post, can you imagine.....

How amazing that someone can happily post here about beating someone, sticking needles in them, gagging them and all sorts of other nasty hot stuff, but mention sex with a stranger and it all goes to hell in a handbasket. Some people need to do a whole lot of growing up.






slaveluci -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 9:56:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68
It's funny because the first thing I thought of when I saw that some seemed to take all of this a little too personally was that their significant other had fucked around on them.

Very true.  That's what I always think when people go batshit about "cheaters."  Oops, they musta got fucked around on[;)].............luci




MadameMarque -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 10:02:59 AM)

How did this become a thread on cheating and breaking trust?
 
Now, that really is sleazy.




freyjasdottir -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 10:07:07 AM)

Does it count as a one night stand when you know each other already?  In college I ended up in bed with a classmate, actually it happened twice.  Technically it was a one night stand but not with a stranger.




LaTigresse -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 10:13:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

um...personally I might fuck the churchlady's hubby if she pissed me off enough [8D]
l


Would probably make his day, week, month....oh hell, would probably be the best he ever had! And THAT my friends, is probably what the church ladies are afraid of.



It's funny because the first thing I thought of when I saw that some seemed to take all of this a little too personally was that their significant other had fucked around on them.


Me also.




Mercnbeth -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 10:23:19 AM)

Never had a "one night stand". I always knew the person, albeit casually, at minimum.

I only met and slept with a person on the same day once in my entire life! I can appreciate what some have said - I too felt cheapened by the whole experience. All my scruples and personal integrity went out the window that day. My record of following my "no play" and "no sex" first meeting rule that I followed for over 20 years ended that day. I felt like Cal Ripkin did the day his consecutive games played streak ended.

I can't even say, or use the excuse, that I was "under the influence" of alcohol or drugs. It was just her! That woman was a slut who allowed me to take her to a hotel within an hour of meeting her. To make it worse, she striped naked and placed her hands on her head for me to "inspect" almost before I was able to lock the hotel room door.

Afterward, I felt so cheapened. I knew the only way it could be worse would be to make it a "one night stand". So I kept in touch. Soon afterward she became my slave, and eventually, last year - my wife.

she's still a slut, but she's MY slut!




subtee -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 10:44:11 AM)

Oh that's just cool. 




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