sweetNsmartBBW -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 12:25:16 PM)
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Nope, never had a one night stand....and doubt I ever will, just not my thing. I, too, need intimacy that I don't think I could cultivate in a single night; and if I did, I'd hate that it was so temporary and that I could never have it again. Would be like being introduced to a wonderful brand of chocolate that I knew from the outset I'd never get to taste again. For me, I'd prefer never to have nibbled. That said, for the people that enjoy it and are not hurting anyone- I'm envious! *L* Why is it that to have a one night stand suggests anybody is being used, or disposable? If both parties go into it knowing that's what it is- and both get what they came for in a mutually consenting night together; where's the problem? There's a huge difference between knowing something is not right for ~me~, and judging another's preference for it.
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