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MsBearlee -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 10:59:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

"Oh please".. you should have mentioned it.  (or do you forget that too in the heat of hot monkey sex?)  Careless, child.. very careless.  Try again.


Do you always refer to 40 year olds as children?  If grown adults don't know about safe sex then that's not my problem.  I'll take hot monkey sex any day.  You sound bitter and angry. 


Bitter and angry?  Not at all not at all.  I didn't even look at your profile to see your age before I replied to your post.  I've been married for 34 years plus I have had a slave for  past 11.  I guess I believe in commitment.  People are not disposable toys.
 
Sorry, but you come across as like a hooker looking for business.  I would have never guessed you were a whole 40! 


DANG... so people who enjoy one night stands are whores?  Ok... but I'd like to add that married women who keep a little on the side are nothing more than sluts!
 
We all have our opinions...mine was just given with tongue firmly planted in cheek.
 
What is the deal here?  I thought we were all adults!  Some like one-nighters, some think one nighters can be had several times over (with the same person), some have had 'em and think they're okay, some have had 'em and think they leave much to be desired...and some would never, ever, even consider such a thing. 
 
Aren't we interesting creatures?  But how it is a woman with a husband and a little action on the side, too can call another woman a whore cuz she has enjoyed the occasional one-night-stand is really NOT what it is all about here...now is it?
Beverly




MsBearlee -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 11:09:46 AM)

oh...it occured to me I'd not actually offered my opinions on ONS.  Well, the thread has kinda lost it's flavor for me.  Aileen offers a lot of fun stuff to consider...why it is some people have to rain on her parade is beyond me.
 
Personally, I think Aileen offers a lot to this community...which I think is generally regarded as a place to share thoughts and ideas; not to play oneupsmanship. 
 
Thanks Aileen...
Beverly




camille65 -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 11:36:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: spankmepink11



if you're offering - no thanks

i would rather be a stuck up woman that someone cares about than a fucked up whore that someone could care less




I so sincerely hope that you are not implying that those of us who have indulged in one night stands are fucked up whores?  
 Wow. This is as far as I've gotten so far on this thread.Such nastiness!! Seriously what the heck is wrong with some of you? Saying someone is a whore for having casual sex? *blinks* Saying that someone having a one night stand is promoting STDs? Mind boggling and almost funnily absurd. I hope those of you up on your soapbox don't slip off and break something important. Such as your delusions of grandeur.




NorthernGent -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 11:54:19 AM)

Let's swerve the labels of sluts and whores; as far as I can tell, people having been fucking since the year dot, and it hasn't always been tea and croissants in the mornin'.




LaTigresse -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 11:56:53 AM)

tea and croissants??? for my one night stands I keep a supply of styrofoam cups and some freeze dried coffee....

seeeyaaaaaaaaa byeeee




YourhandMyAss -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 12:06:39 PM)

Used to, didn't really find them all that thrilling,plus my partner would frown on it.

Now one night bdsm stands, yup. Come over beat  me do bdsm with me, we both have fun hugs and good bye's and I may never see you again, but if I do great!

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I'm a big advocate for one night stands.  I think everyone should have at least one in their lifetime.  There's just something about getting primal with a stranger.  I find it to be fucking hot.  Soooo....have you ever and did you enjoy it?




LotusSong -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 12:08:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: FatDomDaddy

Ya know what... some people ARE disposable toys by CHOICE.

Did you ever think of that?



And those that ARE are those that feel people are disposable also.   Those I avoid.  I refuse to be used. I leave them to themselves to seek their own level and find happiness.




LotusSong -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 12:09:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: GoddessMine

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

Bitter and angry?  Not at all not at all.  I didn't even look at your profile to see your age before I replied to your post.  I've been married for 34 years plus I have had a slave for  past 11.  I guess I believe in commitment.  People are not disposable toys.
 
Sorry, but you come across as like a hooker looking for business.  I would have never guessed you were a whole 40!


Dayum. Bitch got claws!

Love,
GM


Feel free to take notes :) 




LotusSong -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 12:15:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: susie

You believe in commitment, well good for you. Perhaps there are others around here that live their lives differently. I can't imagine being married and having a slave on the side. Marriage to me means monogamous and commited to one person but hey if it works for you then that is your choice. Just like it is the choice of others to live the way they want.
  He's not "one the side".    He's 1/2 mile away around the corner :)
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The hooker comment is nothing but bitchy and totally uncalled for.

I just calls 'em like I see 'em.  Now if I were a male, you'd call me assertive. LOL  (my block button is down and to the lower right of my post should you feel the need)




LotusSong -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 12:18:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

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Bitter and angry?  Not at all not at all.  I didn't even look at your profile to see your age before I replied to your post.  I've been married for 34 years plus I have had a slave for  past 11.  I guess I believe in commitment.  People are not disposable toys.
 
Sorry, but you come across as like a hooker looking for business.  I would have never guessed you were a whole 40!

GEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEZE

someone sure sounds like they need to get LAID BADLY


Oh sweety.. I've NEVER been "laid badly" -  you?




SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 12:18:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TankII7871

For the record im not offering to you and ill just leave it at that

Eric


how about me?

snort

im such a grouch that i assume the venom is due to aileens new hot pics.......i took this thread as being a fun one.  shows what i know.

but i wanna be a cheap whore, for a few days at least dang it.

before getting married i had several one night stands....they were what they were, and were perfect at the time.....nowadays, i doubt id do it-but never say never!




came4U -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 12:20:59 PM)

There is a time when ya just need the itch scratched.  One night stands are perfect for that.  




sweetNsmartBBW -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 12:25:16 PM)

Nope, never had a one night stand....and doubt I ever will, just not my thing.  I, too, need intimacy that I don't think I could cultivate in a single night; and if I did, I'd hate that it was so temporary and that I could never have it again.  Would be like being introduced to a wonderful brand of chocolate that I knew from the outset I'd never get to taste again.  For me, I'd prefer never to have nibbled.   That said, for the people that enjoy it and are not hurting anyone- I'm envious!  *L*

Why is it that to have a one night stand suggests anybody is being used, or disposable?  If both parties go into it knowing that's what it is- and both get what they came for in a mutually consenting night together; where's the problem?  There's a huge difference between knowing something is not right for ~me~, and judging another's preference for it. 




thompsonx -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 12:53:53 PM)

Dang! Aileen...you didn't tell me your candy store was open.  Too bad  its 4 days till payday and I am flat assed broke[:(] ...(wonders if his credit is any good)...[;)]
thompson




FullCircle -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 1:02:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SugarMyChurro
I would never think twice about anything. I would be honest in all of my sexual relationships. When you lie about or conceal your truths like that you fail primarily in regards to yourself.


I didn’t mention anything about lying to myself or other people. I merely pointed out that when not in a relationship a one nightstand could include elements that you’d normally be weighed down with discussion with, if in a relationship. An example of this would be the inclusion of a third sexual partner; in a relationship you’d have to discuss it but with a one nightstand it could just freely happen without discussion.

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ORIGINAL: SugarMyChurro
Your statement has "failure with intimacy" written all over it...


I don’t even know what that means sorry. All it means to me is some people read far too many books on social interaction and have given up on their natural instincts long ago.







Lumus -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 3:01:57 PM)

*edited to stabilize the code*

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*scratches his head*

So am I one of the churchgoers or whores?  Wait.  My dad was a minister, so I did attend church.  I'm a man, which some define by their nature as whores [:D]

Well.  That inductive logic didn't help.  Meh.  *shrugs*  All I know is that it's not for me, and only because I have not met a woman I found appealing who was equally depraved as myself in a one-night stand situation.  Which, admittedly, I only let happen once because the once was so godawful. [;)]  And again *shrugs* that's just me.

Where was I...?  Shit.  Right.

So am I a churchgoer or a whore?

*ponders making that a thread in Random Stupidity*

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Raechard -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 3:29:20 PM)

That hijack won't work because you forgot the opening [hijack] code.




marieToo -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 5:11:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

I'm taking a stand for the whores now. The loved and the unloved whores!!!!![:D]




I wanna be a whore too dammit! 

Where do I sign up??




Aileen68 -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 5:17:22 PM)

You guys are all whores.  I'm lucky cause I'm a hooker.
Actually...I find that whole idea to be a bit hot.  I may have to go out soon and pick someone up and fuck em.




BossyShoeBitch -> RE: One Night Stands (10/15/2007 5:37:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Also...a bad one-night stand is a whole lot better than a bad long-term relationship!


Hahaha.  Understatement.

what if u experienced both with the same person, marrying them and found out they were having unprotected one nighters all throuth the years...

never mind..don't say it!!
at least I'm free of it now!! lol




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