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LadyPact -> RE: pro domme websites (10/16/2007 7:16:18 PM)
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ORIGINAL: YesMistressIrish
I've been lurking on this thread and want to add my thoughts and feeling on this subject.
DiannaVesta and LadyPact are 2 women I noticed right away when I had my 'coming out party' on cm. I also happened to email them pronto expressing my respect. Lady Pact: Remember when you got the purple floggers? Diana: remember when I told you I wanted to pack a bag and hang out with you for a few weeks in the summer?
I like and respect you both.
Now that I have gone through the first rites of fire here on cm and had many experiences with subs both users and genuine submissives the fire of Domination burns brighter in me than ever before. The more I do...the more I crave. The more I learn, the more I want to learn. Because of my vanilla life up till now I have had to be Myself quietly, if you know what I mean.
I have thought of going pro then backed off because the energy and fire that burns in me feels so pure and I am a compassionate yet very nasty biatch. I do not want anything to change that for me. I want to become stronger, not harder, capice? It has been on ongoing tug-of-war in my head. I do know this: I never want to feel used again, not even for 1 little second, for as long as I live!!
I have decided to go pro, to make them pay for the huge amounts of energy I exert for every scene. The sub is slave, however it is what Dianna said above that rings so true for me:
"They might as well get use to doing things for me right up front because I will damn sure make them work their ass off. Let’s get it straight right up front. In return I offer an unsurpassed journey of a lifetime… one that few women can emulate due to years of experiences both professionally and personally. No my energy and passion is not for sale but for everything I am I expect total devotion and adoration. That comes in many forms including, but not limited to, dollars and cents. "
That's just beautiful!
My sub friends are on one side of that line. Because I know they are already there in sub-space for me. They give to me in every way they can without my ever having to ask. Rare birds indeed. True worship of a hot Goddess: in action. For the other's who aren't there yet, need to be trained, molded, broken, and have their needs met, get their kink on and need it right now...these are the ones that will have to pay for the privilege of being at my feet.
Boijen has been so spot-on in so many of her posts on this subject I will quote her in a separate window.
Irish
Hi there.
Of course I remember, Dear. I appreciate the comment. Actually, even though We don't agree on this particular subject, I happen to respect and like Dianna, too. It just doesn't seem to be very coming through very clearly in this thread somehow.
I did notice that one comment that was made in the different colored font. I do hope that everything is all right.
If you are going pro (congrats on the decision), maybe you can help Moki out and send her a link when you get your site up. Actually, Dianna's is pretty good, too. I saw it a few months back.
And, yep, I'm a member of the boijen fan club, too.
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