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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 8:38:57 AM   
Jinger


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When was the last time you cried and for what reason?


The last time I cried was on August 20th from 8 pm to 10:30ish. My kitten was run over by a car.
Oh Marble, how I miss you. What a lovely cat you were.

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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 8:41:28 AM   
Pernicious


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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 9:09:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		As a service-oriented sub, my greatest pleasure comes from - aHA! - being of service. So ... when my best way of being of service is to not be of service, how can I wrap my greedy little mind around that and still feel all warm and fuzzy about being of non-service?

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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 10:03:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Pernicious

Riiight.


...the fuck? Is the truth not good enough?

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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 10:06:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: batshalom

As a service-oriented sub, my greatest pleasure comes from - aHA! - being of service. So ... when my best way of being of service is to not be of service, how can I wrap my greedy little mind around that and still feel all warm and fuzzy about being of non-service?


Here is what I think you are asking:

You love to serve, but your Dominant partner doesn't want/need your service. And you're asking "How can I accept that, and obey and still feel like you're serving?"

Right? I daresay I need a touch more clarity to answer this one.

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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 10:09:30 AM   
Pernicious


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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 10:22:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Jinger
Here is what I think you are asking:

You love to serve, but your Dominant partner doesn't want/need your service. And you're asking "How can I accept that, and obey and still feel like you're serving?"

Right? I daresay I need a touch more clarity to answer this one.



Clarity is not my strong suit. Neither is logic. Go with your gut on this one.

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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 10:43:43 AM   
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Shoudn't you be at school or something now?





I'm in college. Only one class today.
I'm a BFA majoring in printmaking with a minor in Black Studies. I'm the PR representative/illustrator/cartoonist for the Fahari-Libertad magazine.
I work as a tourguide, and meet three times a week with international students as a tutor.
Currently I'm writing an essay.

I figured all that other information fulfills that "or something" question, aye?

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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 10:46:25 AM   
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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 10:53:42 AM   
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Clarity is not my strong suit. Neither is logic. Go with your gut on this one.


Well then I'm going to assume you meant what I said: You love to serve, but your Dominant partner doesn't want/need your service. And you're asking "How can I accept that, and obey and still feel like you're serving?"


I've had to deal with this situtation once or twice. There I would be, ready to do absolutely whatever I was told and all I'd hear was "Just be quiet or something." In other words, my service was not needed.

Now first off...that relationship was bad. If they ALWAYS say "just be quiet or something" then you very well may have a neglectful Dominant. Which is what I had. Not serving is one thing, but to have someone not need or want your service at all is quite another. If that's the case then move on, because they're not worth the honor of your ability.

However, if for the moment they just don't need you? Then occupy yourself with personal tasks. I would sit and work on my posture while at the same time looking pretty. I also opening read books on BDSM and service so that I might better understand in general my role as a submissive. But these are just two examples, there are a number of things you might do that don't directly serve the Dominant while at the same time giving you a sense of purpose.

And while you do these things, the Dominant may very well take notice and become aroused. Arousal is good.

Use your imagination! Even stuff like yoga is a way to improve yourself.

If all else fails and you feel you need to be of service, anything at all, then communicate! Tell Her/Him how you feel, and if they honestly can't think of a single use for you? Well then...ummm...why are you serving them in the first place?

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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 11:41:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		what would happen if the earth started to spin the othe way?

would we go back in time?

would the seasons become mixed up?

would the tide change?

would it fix global warming?


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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 12:42:44 PM   
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what would happen if the earth started to spin the othe way? would we go back in time? would the seasons become mixed up? would the tide change? would it fix global warming?



If the world began to spin the other way then:

No, we would not go back in time. If time travel could be accomplished by spinning very slowly then we'd know about it by now.

Yes. Seasons would become mixed up depending on where you lived. Daytime would become night for some people and vise versa. This would affect plant and animal life dramatically as energy from the sun would be made available in times when it normally wouldn't. Though this likely wouldn't be true for the poles or areas around the equator.

Yes They would change. But I'm not sure how.

No.

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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 12:49:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Jinger, you rock.

Haven't been able to come up with a question just yet, and I know how much that sucks, seeing as I have my own version of this thread.  Just remember: they will see you rollin', and they cannot help but be hatin' sometimes.  Don't let it slow you down, though.  You have answers, and they're just as valid as anyone else's.  Keep up the good work, man.

Peace.

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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 12:53:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jinger

Well then I'm going to assume you meant what I said: You love to serve, but your Dominant partner doesn't want/need your service. And you're asking "How can I accept that, and obey and still feel like you're serving?"

<extremely long (abeit quite helpful, no really! really! no, I mean it) snip>

If all else fails and you feel you need to be of service, anything at all, then communicate! Tell Her/Him how you feel, and if they honestly can't think of a single use for you? Well then...ummm...why are you serving them in the first place?



All i was looking for was "go masturbate"

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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 12:57:20 PM   
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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 12:57:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VandalHeart

Jinger, you rock.

Haven't been able to come up with a question just yet, and I know how much that sucks, seeing as I have my own version of this thread.  Just remember: they will see you rollin', and they cannot help but be hatin' sometimes.  Don't let it slow you down, though.  You have answers, and they're just as valid as anyone else's.  Keep up the good work, man.

Peace.


Zactly

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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 1:34:49 PM   
Jinger


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Status: offline 		Sorry I couldn't read your mind and come to the conclusion that you came to yourself, batshalom. Huff!

Wow. Compliments from the Demon! Nurishment from he who inspired me!
How satisfying.

I am flattered by your words Vandal, thank you.

Almost done with my essay. It is a good essay. Oh yes. Oh yes.

Can I just tell you how good my essay writing skills are?
My essay writing skills are really, really, good.

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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 1:59:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		So, uh...are you any good at writing essays?

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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 2:07:38 PM   
subtee


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Status: offline 		Well let me ask you both then, the inspired and the inspirer...is it wrong to be eating double stuff oreos and drinking Merlot at the office? 'Cause that's what i'm doing now.

(Yay essay writer! i'm an English major and there is some major hatin' going on on another thread about "grammar natzi's and whatnot. ~shiver~)

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RE: Ask me anything - 10/23/2007 2:12:01 PM   
Jinger


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So, uh...are you any good at writing essays?





I'm basically a god. Basically.

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