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Ok this is kind of a biggie. (It's not the One question you're looking for sweetie, sorry.) Need help, though. I imight have to have dinner with ex husband ("the creature") tonight because of a dealio with the UMs. So. Do i dress down, try to look as crappy as possible, maybe some oversized sweat pants, Birkenstocks with socks, messy ponytail, no make up and a horizontal-stripped red/orange hoodie, with coffee stains on the boobage arear so i won't risk any danger of attracting his attention again? (Ew. i just threw up a lil bit in my mouth.) Or, do i dress up: my Victoria Secret wrap-around blouse (which, frankly doesn't really keep much a Secret), form-fitting-but-swirly-at -the bottom black skirt, black platform pumps and head--hair and face-- all "done" so that he can eat his stone-cold, lying, cheating, worthless slab of flesh he calls a heart out? I'm not bitter. 'k thanks!

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Nothing deals a greater blow to a man's ego to see that "his woman" has totally gotten over him. So why even bother dressing to get a reaction? Why waste time thinking about how to look in front of him when you can think about how to look in front of the UMs?

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If you're worried about how he'll react to your presence, then bring someone with you. It'll distract you while at the same time show him that he's not the center of attention for you.

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But the main point I'm getting at is if you're over him then it's about how you act, not how you dress. You could wear any outfit you like and still exude an air of indifference.

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Any thing else is just, well, petty.
And petty can be fun don't get me wrong (I am all about petty)...but pettiness in front of other people is questionable.

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On a personal note? The way you wrote your question? It sounds like you still have feelings for him. Just sayin...

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Oh. Did i mention he's a lawyer?

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Hello Jinger how goes your day thus far?

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Jinger are you ever going to get over that fence?

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ORIGINAL: sappatoti

OK...

Why?

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OK... Why?

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ORIGINAL: Jinger

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Ok this is kind of a biggie. (It's not the One question you're looking for sweetie, sorry.) Need help, though. I imight have to have dinner with ex husband ("the creature") tonight because of a dealio with the UMs. So. Do i dress down, try to look as crappy as possible, maybe some oversized sweat pants, Birkenstocks with socks, messy ponytail, no make up and a horizontal-stripped red/orange hoodie, with coffee stains on the boobage arear so i won't risk any danger of attracting his attention again? (Ew. i just threw up a lil bit in my mouth.) Or, do i dress up: my Victoria Secret wrap-around blouse (which, frankly doesn't really keep much a Secret), form-fitting-but-swirly-at -the bottom black skirt, black platform pumps and head--hair and face-- all "done" so that he can eat his stone-cold, lying, cheating, worthless slab of flesh he calls a heart out? I'm not bitter. 'k thanks!

Nothing deals a greater blow to a man's ego to see that "his woman" has totally gotten over him. So why even bother dressing to get a reaction? Why waste time thinking about how to look in front of him when you can think about how to look in front of the UMs?

If you're worried about how he'll react to your presence, then bring someone with you. It'll distract you while at the same time show him that he's not the center of attention for you.

But the main point I'm getting at is if you're over him then it's about how you act, not how you dress. You could wear any outfit you like and still exude an air of indifference.

Any thing else is just, well, petty.
And petty can be fun don't get me wrong (I am all about petty)...but pettiness in front of other people is questionable.

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On a personal note? The way you wrote your question? It sounds like you still have feelings for him. Just sayin...

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So Jinger, which corporation would you decharter?

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What about people with disabilities that can't bike?

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What do you have planned for the weekend Jinger?