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RE: punishments - 11/15/2007 12:20:54 PM

serenitee

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I’ve received a few punishments that I haven’t been very fond of (I guess technically you’re not supposed to be fond of punishments but these are at least worth mentioning because they worked for me): writing lines, incredibly early bedtimes, taking away privileges (but generally those are earned and not expected anyway) and the worst to date, not being able to speak with my Dom for a set amount of time. Although I believe major punishments are warranted sometimes, correcting behavior is better done with minor punishments (I find corner time works) but I prefer a more ‘reward method’ of training. But then again, it’s not up to me! I just try to be a good girl.

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RE: punishments - 11/15/2007 1:54:21 PM

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My Sir told me I need to make a list of 15 punishments. They need to be creative. I know a lot of people will say that the punishment should fit the crime and that I shouldn't have to be punished often. I agree. But this is an assignment to get me thinking about something I did wrong last weekend. He already has something in mind for that, but enjoys my aphrehension and anticipation, so he's having me make a list for him to use if I have future indescretions. For every one which is not good enough, he will choose one on the list he feels is and administer it, so I can't put down weak, lame things that would be easy for me. Thanks for any of your thoughts.

I heard a new one yesterday... tickle torture with a rotary electric toothbrush

Beware of coming up with impossible things. I know someone that found out that being buried up to the neck in fuzzy caterpillars IS possible. Especially possible if you have a relative that owns a fishbait supply company. There are uses around halloween for worms by the gallon.

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RE: punishments - 1/26/2008 7:13:16 AM

Kennyisherenow

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It seems to Me like this Dom probably has no ideas of His Own. As far as Im concerned, if I have to punish My slave then I didnt train her right and I do something that neither O/one of U/us enjoys because I believe if I have to punish My slave then I failed somewhere as a Dominant. I know I have a weird perception on punishment but I dont punish unless My slave does something fairly major. Otherwise I discipline her for the minor infractions. I suppose what I call discipline may be considered as punishment to some but I also have one of the most obedient and eager to please slaves ever. she has a strong desire to serve Me. anyways, I will name some disciplining I have done on her.
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I will post more if I think of more I am so tirred I cant see anymore

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RE: punishments - 1/26/2008 7:46:00 AM

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I think you're cheating - if he wanted us to provide the list, he'd be here asking us himself. You need to be creative, right? It is part of your assignment that you do the thinking...

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RE: punishments - 7/8/2008 4:48:55 AM

CountrySong

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OP thanks for posting. I love all of the creative ideas that this gave me. I'm also planning on having my sub candidates write out punishments and adding the task of telling me why they think it is appropriate and would be effective.

As for all the people who are dissing you and your Dom. I guess they must be psychic or all knowing. I guess I missed the how to be a psychic Dom class and have had to work by talking with subs and trial and error.

I do feel that the good subs I have worked with do create harsher punishments than I do as they are more critical of their actions than I am. I understand that because I’m more self-critical of my own actions than most others are and used to beat myself up for messing up. Now I’m a kinder gentler Dom. (Yeh Right - lol)

Here’s one – naked all day in a cold house having to do everything they normally would. Have you ever tried typing with ice cold fingers?

Good luck!

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RE: punishments - 7/8/2008 5:44:14 AM

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Tell him respectfully to quit being lazy and use his Uber-domly powers to think for himself and tailor the punishments for the various "crimes" as well as for your particular dislikes. Not said to insult , but said with a wry sarcastic smile.

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RE: punishments - 7/8/2008 9:01:25 AM

Maxwell67

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CountrySong

OP thanks for posting. I love all of the creative ideas that this gave me. I'm also planning on having my sub candidates write out punishments and adding the task of telling me why they think it is appropriate and would be effective.

As for all the people who are dissing you and your Dom. I guess they must be psychic or all knowing. I guess I missed the how to be a psychic Dom class and have had to work by talking with subs and trial and error.

I do feel that the good subs I have worked with do create harsher punishments than I do as they are more critical of their actions than I am. I understand that because I’m more self-critical of my own actions than most others are and used to beat myself up for messing up. Now I’m a kinder gentler Dom. (Yeh Right - lol)

Here’s one – naked all day in a cold house having to do everything they normally would. Have you ever tried typing with ice cold fingers?

Good luck!

I must agree here, the insight such a list will provide about what she considers a punishment could be very valuable to a newer relationship, of course that begs the questions how long has the relationship has been going and how well does he know her needs at this point, and if he does not know them well enough to come up with a suitable punishment on his own, then perhaps they need to get to know each other better before getting into power exchange at this level. One thing it does do, though, is to heighten her anticipation for it, and from a purely psychological perspective that can be a very powerful tool. I would suggest that others on this thread stop judging the OP's dominant without knowing what it is he is really up to here. As for the OP coming here to get suggestions, well, I do not recall reading that he put any restrictions on her methodology for coming up with the list.

She is asking for suggestions, not your opinion of her assignment, so be helpful or back off.

Here is one: Write a post to this forum which, while true, might be misconstrued and let people pick at you like pirhanas...

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RE: punishments - 7/8/2008 9:14:43 AM

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The OP was from 2007 and from reading her profile it looks like they got the punishment issue sorted as her task now is to find a third for casual fun.

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ORIGINAL: Maxwell67
<snip>.... then perhaps they need to get to know each other better before getting into power exchange at this level.....<snip>

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RE: punishments - 7/8/2008 1:06:58 PM

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I think the punsishment should always be a bit worse then the crime.

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