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ORIGINAL: Focus50

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

If the op isn't intelligent enough to realize that KoM was pointing out the obvious fact that no one on a message board is as important as the person you are in a relationship with without flaming him, then yes, she is foolish and a white knight isn't going to fix that.

I'm just guessing her Dom/me isn't blind and can actually SEE bruises and welts as well.  However, obviously whether it is complaining or not, again as KoM stated, is really up to the Dom/me now isn't it?

The more apt question maybe would be something along the lines of he's not listening and Im concerned about my injuries, or I don't think my Dom/me is allowing me to communicate openly about an important issue etc., which is what you are assuming she is saying Focus.  However, she did not in fact say any such thing.

The OP flamed KoM - as opposed to return what was served? 
 
And you think the OP asked the wrong questions about her own relationship? 
I'm wiv ya.... ;-)
 
Focus.