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BBWnNC72 -> RE: The female shape... (10/29/2007 2:54:16 PM)

Hello all,
i know i am large, to be honest i am 5' 8" and 290.  i met a Master who usually likes smaller women, He loves shibari and suspension, i know that i am not right for either, lets face it, laws of physics, the ropes would cut into me too badly. 
But He likes me for me, He has seen me in all my glory, but loves my personality and williness to learn. He also loves a thinker, one who thinks outside the box, so one day i asked Him if He would use a slave for His love of ropes, He liked it, i got a reward, yay.  of course i jokingly said she had to be ugly, LOL.  He laughed, He also has a sence of humor.
Now, as for losing weight for Him.  He never asked me too, He likes me for me. But i did ask Him to help me lose weight, He is very smart when it comes to exercise and proper diets.  He doesnt believe in starving, but eating well, 6 small portions. 
He will be making me a diet plan, menus and exercise plan. all keeping in mind my lower back problems and my love of meat.  He is very observant that way.
So, i am not losing it for Him, i want to lose for me, but i do know that it would make Him happy, mostly because He would be helping me improve myself for me.

huggs and purrs
kat




curiouspet55 -> RE: The female shape... (10/29/2007 7:37:21 PM)

I would want my Dom to be attracted to who I am and how I look when we first meet - he should love me for that. However, if I expressed a desire to lose weight to him, I would enjoy working out a regiman and having him help me stick to it. The point is, though, that I must initiate it and that it must be my desire.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: The female shape... (10/29/2007 8:13:31 PM)

Curious you do know that your statements come across a lot as "I want to be dominated like I tell him to dominate me"?




slave4urneeds -> RE: The female shape... (10/29/2007 11:07:28 PM)

There are some really amazing posts here and it looks like we have touched upon something that hits home with many here.  i am one that is really glad to be here and read and feel like i am not alone.  i have been able to find strength and comfort at many parties by women who were even larger than i am that are very proud of their bodies and not afraid to show it.  Oh to have their confidence!! 

Of course many of us are not happy with how we look and how many of us even if we were perfect would still be able to find fault.  i have been in relationships with a couple of Doms that suggested helping me loose weight knowing that it was an issue for me by providing a guideline and strict regimen for me to follow.  Of course this is where i get to say, the relatioship didnt last and neither did the diet...LOL 

As for now, i am who i am, if they don't like it they need to move on.  If they feel they need to change my looks to suit their needs then i wasnt the one for them anyway. 




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