Sabella
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Hi,
I was just curious as to whether any of us sub/slaves are/have dieted and exercised under instruction for a Master/Sir.
Whether it was forced? or a mutual commitment? as in your Master/Sir told you to do it, or that Master/Sir knew it was something that you were thinking also, and just tried to encourage it. No, but I would love this, LOL. He wisely doesn't stand between me and my chocolate once a month. When I grit my teeth and refuse myself it's punishment enough and something *I* must do. He will tell me no (and does on a regular basis) on things he knows I have issues with like pasta & breads. This is more health related than having anything to do with weight issues tho. Processed grains make me sleepy and lethargic and my stomach swells.
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Are there any subs/slaves here that refuse to change their body shape to please a Master/Sir? Is your body shape a part of you that your not willing to change, for whatever reason known to yourself. Surgical alterations are a hard limit for me. So is cutting my hair short. But he loves my hair so we're safe there.
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Do any of us subs/slaves have a negative body image? (I know I'm asking a stupid question, we all have our hang ups. But is this known to your Master/Sir and do they use it against you?)
Just be interested in hearing some views and opinions of others, thanks.
Fi x
There are probably more women who HAVE negative body image issues than those that don't because of the bombardment we get from birth to be smoother, thinner, yet have bigger boobs! ect ect. Little girls not even wearing training bras hate how they look. It's beyond senseless. But no, he's never used an insecurity against me EVER. I think anyone that would is being unnecessarily cruel and I hope you aren't experiencing that no matter what your shape or size.
If you are in a "normal" weight range (and from looking at your pictures you look terrific to me) but you want to tone up then do it. But work harder on your perceived self image harder. That's the mirror in your mind that gets distorted and will often stay distorted no matter what you do. I know women who are damn near "perfect" visually to me and they hate themselves. They hate their hair, their eyes, their weight, their ass, their boobs, their stomach, everything. They are so hung up on that inner mirror they they won't even look in mirrors and when they do they hate themselves all day long. It doesn't matter what others say (always compliments) they think their friends & SO's are lying to them.
Keep in mind too that time marches on. Things change, they always will. The best thing you CAN change is being happy with yourself NOW. If you have things you want to do physically (say horseback riding, or skiiing, or mountain climbing or picking up your kids without hurting yourself or whatever) that you can't do because you are too weak then this is an excellent incentive to do something positive physically. Don't do it just because you think you need to or someone else says you should. The motivation has to come from within. If it's from solely someone else's wishes you'll have no joy in it, and it will be much harder to do.
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“The giant Grof was hit in one eye by a stone,
and that eye turned inward so that it looked into his mind and he died of what he saw there.”
From The Forgotten Beasts of Eld, by Patricia A. McKillip
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