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jezzabelle -> RE: Dom to release a sub.........(your thoughts) (10/26/2007 5:25:01 AM)
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ORIGINAL: dc0785
First off...I don't answer all the questions because I have other responsibilities. My 2 boys take my priority. I will say, I want to date her. However, with work travel and other obligations, maybe I am feeling like I can't provide her with what she needs.
Well, I guess that indirectly answered the question I asked back on page 4 somewhere. So, correct if I'm wrong then. The reason she wishes to start dating is because you are not now, nor never will be, her primary relationship because you have other "obligations". You can only be there for her part of the time, my guess is because you do have a primary relationship with someone else, so now she wants to date to fill the void that is left because she wants a primary partner also, someone to be with when you're not there. You were okay with not being her primary when she was married, but now that she is going to be divorced, you don't want to share her with anyone else. I'm sorry, but if you can't fulfill all of her needs, then either learn to continue to share her with someone else, or let the poor girl go. She deserves more than that.
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