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What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 6:13:37 AM   
swtnsparkling


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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 6:21:52 AM   
RRafe


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They were painful, and not in good ways.

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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 6:22:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		Everything that has happened to me has been for a reason. Even the things that broke my heart, hurt me, made me yearn for something else... everything that has ever happened to me was for my further growth in this life, as such I have no regrets anymore. I would not have said the same thing only a couple of months ago, but I truly know that All is Well no matter what happens to me or those I love. There is no reason to feel guilt, recriminations, or regret for anything.

I am at peace for the first time in my life as a result.. and I live in the Now... and I have much more joy too.

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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 6:37:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		only thing i wish i hadnt experienced yet is the death of loved ones, specially mom and dad.....but living thru that made everything else so easy, i guess it did me good in a way too......

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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 6:40:31 AM   
batshalom


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Status: offline 		Being used in anger. It was difficult to twist my mind around that one, trying to equate sex (which I equate with love) with such rage and shame. It was a confusing and sad process. I cringed in fear and revulsion every subsequent time he touched me, and not surprisingly the relationship ended soon thereafter.

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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 6:40:31 AM   
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that you wish you hadn't? and why

Deceit

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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 6:47:38 AM   
everhope


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Status: offline 		surely, we all have a long list of i shouldn't have done this or that, but the fact remains that we did.
as long as i don't keep repeating over and over the  same shouldn't haves, then it is all good.

may we all find our bliss,
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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 8:03:28 AM   
Prinsexx


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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 8:08:45 AM   
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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 8:13:53 AM   
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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 8:15:15 AM   
TNstepsout


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Status: offline 		Well that's a pretty long list. Life's not easy sometimes. Although I can honestly say that almost everything that has happened to me has made me a stronger, better person, the one thing I would truly excise from my life, is trusting someone that hurt one of my children.  I don't know how I will ever find a silver lining to the experience nor if it is possible.

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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 8:17:16 AM   
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Not following my gut instincts and trusting too much


Not following my gut instincts and NOT trusting enough.....

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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 8:20:02 AM   
TotalState


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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 8:23:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ignoring instinct & pain until my gallbladder ruptured inside of me. I downplayed it to everyone including myself.Idjit.

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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 8:26:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		   I could think of a zillion things but---my life would have changed and I am content---so nothing.

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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 8:28:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		Same thing happened to me camille, how did your surgery go?  Mine started laproscopic and the surgeon almost had to stop and do the regular surgery - thank god that didn't happen.  i had gall bladder pain for 2 years - i just thought i was having an unusually bad attack until i got a fever.  

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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 8:29:26 AM   
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that you wish you hadn't? and why

In the two years that we have been together; I have experienced many things that brought tears and smiles; but I have yet to experience anything that I regret.

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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 1:43:56 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		It's all part of the learning experience, right?  Though I think I could have gone the rest of my life without learning what a dry drunk/addict is like up close and personal. 

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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 1:55:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

Everything that has happened to me has been for a reason. Even the things that broke my heart, hurt me, made me yearn for something else... everything that has ever happened to me was for my further growth in this life, as such I have no regrets anymore. I would not have said the same thing only a couple of months ago, but I truly know that All is Well no matter what happens to me or those I love. There is no reason to feel guilt, recriminations, or regret for anything.

I am at peace for the first time in my life as a result.. and I live in the Now... and I have much more joy too.


Can I ditto this a million times?

Having gone through hell and back, I'd do it all over again just to get to where I am today.

Ok but that oyster shot at Mikuni's really seemed to have served no purpose...I suppose I'll see its benefit some day...heh.

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RE: What have you experienced - 11/4/2007 2:01:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		I really wish I had not experienced my grandmothers death or my aunts death.  I know all that great stuff about "life is what you make it" and "it brings you to where you are now."  But frankly, my aunts unexpected death did nothing but leave a 17 yo daughter about to graduate high school without her mother, an 8 yo son without his mother and forced to live alone with their alcoholic father who was in the middle of moving out into his own apartment.

I really think the world would be a better place for everyone if she hadn't died.

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