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RE: sub/slaves - 11/14/2007 7:02:14 PM   
pinksugarsub


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ORIGINAL: fit2pleaseu


a question.....one i would like to hear your opinions on please.
HOW MANY SUBS BECOME SLAVES.....?
AND WHY.....?


O Gawd, the difference between a submissive and a slave; what new to say.  i personally think the line is blurred; while i cannot imagine ever being a 'no limits' kinda gal, i do think even hard limits may soften with the right Man over time.
 
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RE: sub/slaves - 11/15/2007 4:28:29 AM   
MRandme


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mmmkay. my two pfennings on this...

just as there is a spectrum of orientation from straight to bisexual to gay (and one's placement on that spectrum can change over time and with the right person) i see a spectrum of submission from bottom to sub to slave and that one can move up and down that spectrum depending again, on the circumstances and the people.

i don't see my placement on the scale as a slave as different from that of sub... the difference was a deepening of commitment that was already there.  With a different Dominant, i do not think i would have moved that far on the scale and with the wrong one would have gone the other way.

Nor is placement on the scale static. i expect it will change over time. i don't spend a lot of time worrying about it. It is far more fun and satisfying to just be where i am, content and secure.

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