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ORIGINAL: wankerforuse

and not for the love of it? As in my mind a proper domme does it for the love of it as it is in her blood something that is natural to her being dominant that is,cause it's in her genes her genetic makeup.A lady who does if for money is nothing more than an oscar nominated actress in my opinion,and not a dominant lady at all.She's just a money making machine.

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My work doesn't only happen in my Chambers either. I spend hours updating my site, yahoo group, advertising, answering emails, answering phone calls (mostly timewasters) and arranging my diary. So, when I get paid, it covers all the time I sit up late making this all work.

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ORIGINAL: MistressSaskiaUk
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH ..... something the "no pay submissive" fails to factor into the experience... Prior to my decision to go PRO-Domme, I was a lifestyle Domme. Talk about a thankless and personally unsatisfying role as a "DOMME"?!! Christ almighty - The submissives would damn near suck the life out of me and they gave back ZIPP!! Oh they ALL thought they were doing me some HUGE BIG SERVING and PLEASING Gesture of SUBBY GREATNESS by telling me HOW MUCH THEY COULD - WOULD - CAN - and WILL PLEASE ME to my highest pleasure points possible in their selfless act of submission and serving me by LICKING MY SO UNDERSERVED PUSSY with their very average and unappealing mouth til I was overcome with oral ecstasy. EVERY DAMN ONE... sang their praises of orally pleasing a woman and thats how they thought they should serve me..... uhhhhhh??? Who said a tongue lapping at my va jay jay was in any way the pilliar of serving and pleasing me?

NNNNOOOOOOTTTTT!!!

Charging changed everything... I made they pay to serve me properly my way ... and that was never orally EVER!!!

But sometimes the submissives who paid for my services would sometimes try to barter or talk-down my tribute fees, which were reasonable to begin with. When you pay for a hour session, you also get the hour prepping prior to your session and then the clean up after your session could take up too an hour or more depending on the activities. I don't count the hour personal time it takes to shower, shave, blowdry and style my hair, apply my make-up and get dressed in some wickedly overpriced fetish attire all for the submissives enjoyment and visual pleasure. The toys have been sterilized, and the furniture is sanitized, my lubes are top quality and my condoms aren't cheap either. I have 17 different spanking implements, 5 major pieces of bondage or fetish type furniture used in the sessions as the scene requires. I have invested in rope, cuffs, spreader bars, and chain to hang them from, rubber gloves and the medical supplies are the real deal, they are procured from the actual hospital... I care to ensure their experience is safe, clean, germ free, which is important when you are getting fucked like a bitch up your ass with a strap-on cock. You think you butt is the only butt my cock has been inside? I bet the thought of a condom covered sterilized cock that is made of a substance that can be pressure cooked at 140* degrees for 30 minutes is sounding pretty good huh? Costumes and thigh-highs shoes and etc... didn't come cheap from my local goodwill store. I invested over 6k setting up my play space before professionally dominating a submissive client, and the time I invested to my craft was INSANE.  I slept less than most my high powered high stressed exec's on a given day.  Also, most my clients wanted me to be available during the day .... which kinda makes it hard to dominate and hold a regular job at the same time.  1 in every 5 clients who booked a session would be a no call/no show until I laid the law down on that bad habit!! I would talk to 15 + guys before 1 would commit to a session and show up for it. 

Sounds like more work than it should be and when you average out my earnings after everything is said and done. I probably make a salary wage that averages out to the same as a 40 hour employee. I just make it in less days and in less hours... A NICE PERK BUT I EARN THAT PERK .... thank you !!!

If I didn't love what I do I would have never gone pro, it's not as simple as spank and tie for 1k pr hour. We charge because you don't bring the supplies - equipment - the toys - nor the costumes your fantasies require and you expect when experiencing a fetish fantasy for real.

Come on guys? SERIOUSLY.... you pay alot of money to sit courtside and be entertained by men bouncing a ball back and forth and think NOTHING OF IT.... IT QUALITY ENTERTAINMENT when you go watch professional basketball or something related type sporting event..... well...........?????????????

I come down from the soap box.... thanks for letting me vent!!

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