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Gwynvyd -> RE: "Extreme" turn ons... (11/24/2007 10:57:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone Yes i have to admit to being turned on by some pretty sick shit....but I won't say what![:)] Ditto! I have some of my most darkest deepest fantasies.... some I have done.. some I would like to expand on.. and most of wish I can not tell any one outside of a partner I truly trust. smiles But that is ok. I love being a kink ball. I like being soft and sensual too.. but there is something to be said about the pure animalistic rawness of some edge play that most people shy away from. Gwyn, It's not fun until someone bleeds... ( just kidding.. well kinda.. sorta.. maybe..)

beltainefaerie -> RE: "Extreme" turn ons... (11/25/2007 12:10:45 AM)
I am often turned on by torture on television or in movies, as long as it isn't gory. (which is funny, since I like blood play in reality when I am allowed to do it.) Rape scenes are also hot for me. I am also a role player (dice, GURPS, D and D) and in an evil campaign my Master and I dreamed up some sick, horrible stuff we would not ever do in reality, but we nearly needed to leave the room, we were getting so hot from it. (My husband was running that game and just rolled his eyes at us, since he could tell exactly what was going on)

girlygurl -> RE: "Extreme" turn ons... (11/25/2007 1:07:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shellzbythesea Oh, and it just dawned on me that what i said could be perceived in any number of ways. What i'm specifically referring to is "extreme" torture/pain or things that may be "unsafe." There is a short list of what I would call extreme things... and I'd have to venture that some are far too extreme to share here. I will say that I've had a portion of an extreme fantasy actually take place and this time reality was way better than the fantasy! My Sir and I hope to complete the fantasy in the future. "Unsafe" I'd have to say breath play. girly

Gwynvyd -> RE: "Extreme" turn ons... (11/25/2007 2:03:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: beltainefaerie I am often turned on by torture on television or in movies, as long as it isn't gory. (which is funny, since I like blood play in reality when I am allowed to do it.) Rape scenes are also hot for me. I am also a role player (dice, GURPS, D and D) and in an evil campaign my Master and I dreamed up some sick, horrible stuff we would not ever do in reality, but we nearly needed to leave the room, we were getting so hot from it. (My husband was running that game and just rolled his eyes at us, since he could tell exactly what was going on) chuckles not to get all gamer geek girl on ya here.. but the funny thing is I was LARPing in a White Wolf vampire game as a Ravnos masquerading as a Toreador. My Charictor was a huge sadist... and had two human servants. The "In weeks" I had to put in to claim my male human servant was so vividly written that the story tellers got together a special meeting to discuss if I was sane or not.. and if I had actualy commited any of the crimes described in horrific detail. chuckles thankfuly one of them was an not quite ex ( never started really he just had a huge crush that went no where ) He backed me up. I have to say my in weeks "did it" for me.. the writting was spot on.. and could have been a short story to serial killers stoke mag. LOL But.. of course I would never do any of that stuff. It was just hot thinking about it. About two weeks later the NPC's of severial of the ST's that I creeped out killed off my charictor. ( as usual ) I havent played since. But I am in a diff. town so those wankers arent about now. smiles Gwyn, who will hopefuly find her writing muse once again.

salilus -> RE: "Extreme" turn ons... (11/25/2007 6:36:07 AM)
In short, yes. However, I currently do all sorts of things I once said I would never do.

beltainefaerie -> RE: "Extreme" turn ons... (11/25/2007 10:15:55 AM)
Aw. Sorry they killed your character. The friends we play with already know that we are sick puppies, but have our limits in real life. Our characters may rape, main, torture and kill, but we are quite sane. We've never gotten into LARPing, (though we occasionally dress like our characters, or act out little bits, because it is fun) but I do like Masquerade. The books are written in such a fun way. Maybe you can find folks who aren't quite as skittish to play with.

masssub51 -> RE: "Extreme" turn ons... (11/25/2007 10:17:04 AM)
Yes, I have read things etc. and have been really turned on by it. However, there are some things better left as a fantasy. And then again there are somethings you just have to try. As far as extreme unsafe activities maybe they are the ones that stay the fantasy. Safety rules.

breatheasone -> RE: "Extreme" turn ons... (11/25/2007 10:21:13 AM)
You know whats cool?...I have "lost" SEVERAL limits I thought I had...and only picked up one I didn't know I had LOL...thats not too bad is it? BTW....should I worry that some of my "extreme" turn-ons are pretty out there?.....I mean after all they are just in my head....for now anyway [;)]

kittyinpink -> RE: "Extreme" turn ons... (11/25/2007 10:26:25 AM)
I'm a big fan of erotic fiction and have found myself getting turned on by some really strange things. Sometimes I save the stories and rewrite them, seeing how I could turn them into my own fantasies. Other times I delete my internet history and go cower in a corner, disgusted that I could possibly get wet over such strange things. I'd like to think that there are some things that JUST turn me on when reading about them, but wouldn't in real time. Maybe some things are not meant to explore?

breatheasone -> RE: "Extreme" turn ons... (11/25/2007 12:36:26 PM)
quote: Other times I delete my internet history and go cower in a corner, disgusted that I could possibly get wet over such strange things. I understand....[:(]

YourhandMyAss -> RE: "Extreme" turn ons... (11/25/2007 12:41:04 PM)
Nope I don't wonder why I just enjoy the arousal and the following explosive orgasm. quote: Has anyone else here ever watched a video clip or read a story and become turned on by something they consider so "extreme" that they are fairly *certain* they'd never really want to have the experience happen to *themselves* in real time...yet after viewing and/or reading it are left totally turned on (and wondering *why*)???

Aswad -> RE: "Extreme" turn ons... (11/26/2007 11:11:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kittyinpink Other times I delete my internet history and go cower in a corner, disgusted that I could possibly get wet over such strange things. Actually, that's not uncommon before one internalizes acceptance of who and what one is. I'm a sadist, so I find a lot of things arousing that are way over the line(s). But, more importantly, I'm also in control of my faculties. And I embrace who and what I am, fully. I don't see a problem with that. But I used to, as you do. Look for the people who anthropomorphize their "dark" side, their "shadow" ... ... it's darker than they think, but it's not the least bit scary with the lights on. Health, al-Aswad.

StarlightSoul -> RE: "Extreme" turn ons... (11/27/2007 12:04:07 AM)
quote: I figured out my brain was masochistic and body was definitely not! My fantasies are far more 'extreme' than I would probably ever be willing to go. I learned that I like a little pain... no blood. quote: Other times I delete my internet history and go cower in a corner, disgusted that I could possibly get wet over such strange things. I read and write about things that really excite me but I currently believe I couldn't never do.

SeraphinaKrow -> RE: "Extreme" turn ons... (11/27/2007 12:23:22 AM)
quote: llzbyth quote: ORIGINAL: topIrishsubm Yes, but when i really thought about it, they were usually, if even abstractly, linked to things that already turned me on [:)] I agree, Some of the things that turn me on have a lot to do with gender ,sexuality and extreme edge play... sometimes they come out so abstract that sometimes in my head it seems like art. I can also say that I've found turn on's in the weirdest places, I went to go see Saw IV and got turned on by the torcher devices that were used in the movie... I mean I would never want to use them, but the idea turned me on...

artistbrandi -> RE: "Extreme" turn ons... (11/27/2007 8:56:09 AM)
Wow... I feel so much better to know there are other people who feel the same way.... I've only recently allowed myself to accept the fact that I'm interested in things other than plain ol vanilla sex...and as I started to explore, I found that I was really turned on by some sick stuff...but would I actually do it? Some of it I wanna try eventually, and I find that my limits are expanding fast, but some of it is just fantasy, and I know that I'd never want to try some of it...but it feels good to know that it's okay to imagine :) Watching the reactions of some people involved in these things always has me wonder, "wow, that looks so painful...but she's enjoying it..." and it's intriguing to think about it and wonder how I'd react to it...and I get off on it. I finally got the guts to be honest with my husband and tell him what I want to try, bracing myself for the possibility that I would completely freak him out and he says, "it's really hot to hear you talk like this." [:D] I didn't even think he'd go for the pain play, as he's always afraid he's hurting me...but I was wrong. I'm looking forward to when he comes home from his deployment! [sm=crop.gif]

frm14slv -> RE: "Extreme" turn ons... (11/27/2007 11:02:34 AM)
I'm in a similar discussion with some else. She was wondering why when she feels scared that she has very strong orgasms. One word: Adrenaline! When we get scared, adrenaline begins pumping through our bodies. It causes all our senses to heighten. Our hearts beat faster. Our lungs breathe more rapidly. In the case she described, she was tied up and being played with while not knowing who the others were. In the end her boy friend went all the way with her while the others watched. All that adrenaline and other stimulation helped her have a very good orgasm. As to extreme turn-ons, it is similar. Imagining being bound and then hanged by your neck can get you thinking about what it would be like to be that way struggling against the inevitable and how you would react to that.

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