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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/14/2007 7:35:25 AM   
CrazyC


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Status: offline 		Golden showers....actually anything to do with pee. I just can't take it, and puts me in a place that will eat away on me. Sort of like what the OP mentioned. Shakes, turning of stomach, and a want to crawl into a ball.

I don't know exactly why, but pee does that to me. I can't even stand hearing about others who pee in the shower. Trust me...my close friends have fun with that.

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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/14/2007 10:21:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		Feet.  I've had quite a bit of trauma in my life and have some odd reactions to things like needles because of it.  Things I can identify.  Feet is not one of them.  However, they completely gross me out, period.  It's not logicial or even attributable to anything that I'm aware of, however feet are a hard limit for me.  We all have weird things, it's part of being unique.  Yours is yours, I wouldn't worry about it.

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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/14/2007 11:44:25 AM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		I was told to post on here and clarify something... the reason why my Daddy wants to chain me up at night is because I cuddle too much and push him off the bed. He said that my thoughts about why he wants to do so would make it about "me" and it is not about me, it is about him

He also said that it does not matter that he takes all the blankets, that is still no excuse to cuddle him off the bed, I should either get my own blanket or stay cold....

So I guess I better get used to freezing my ass off when I stay at his place

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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/14/2007 12:03:48 PM   
sexyred1


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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/14/2007 2:39:19 PM   
PrincessEllie


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Status: offline 		Choking isn't my thing, normally I can handle it if I can still breathe, but if I ever can't breathe at all I flip out. I'm fine with bondage when I'm awake, but I agree that it can't happen when I sleep. It makes me feel too constricted and clausterphobic. 

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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/14/2007 2:49:33 PM   
Android


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Status: offline 		Blindfolds;

If I can't see...I go CRAZY!!!

Semen;

The boy ick makes me gag, my skin crawl...I can't have it on me or in me...

Unprotected sex;

The thought of it makes me go cold.

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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/14/2007 3:23:06 PM   
slaveluci


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
Being so constrained I can not move an inch makes me frantic.  It's illogical - I mean, what's going to happen??  But my heart jumps into my throat and I go insane

I absolutely have a phobia about this.  I cannot bear being flat on my back and having my arms bound at my sides.  Just thinking about it as I type makes my breathing accelerate and my chest tighten a bit.  I can handle it if they are up over my head or if I'm face down or if I'm standing and they are at my sides, etc. but to be flat on my back and them tied at my sides, I freak out. 

I am convinced it's from some childhood sexual abuse committed upon me by a family friend.  I have some memories and some I've blanked out, I suppose, but that is the only explanation I can arrive at after a lifetime of wondering at my seemingly illogical (as you say) fear of this situation.

I enjoy bondage and don't have even this position/situation mentioned above as a hard limit but Master is fully aware of my phobia.  He has worked with me to try to overcome it but we haven't yet progressed to cellophane.  I start almost hyperventilating just thinking about that, especially if my arms were to be wrapped tightly at my sides.  It seems illogical and I'm working on it.  Maybe some day I'l get over it...............luci




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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/14/2007 5:07:23 PM   
Solinear


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Status: offline 		As a dom, I have a huge issue with chaining anyone down when I'm not going to be there all the time.

Similarly, I won't tie anyone down to a bed and leave them laying there all night.  I have four kids and if something happens where there is an emergency (house catches on fire), then it's four kids with at least one of their parents in prison for a long time.  Not to mention that this is my property... if my HDTV could walk out the door when a fire starts, I would want it to, why wouldn't I expect my slave to do that?

Yes, I'm talking about extreme situations, but they're called 'accidents' and not 'on purposes' for a darn good reason.

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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/14/2007 5:27:48 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		AS a domme my aversion to being tied up isnt really an issue. I cant be restrained, but aside from in a hospital once, its never been much of an issue.
I cannot be involved in any sort of toilet play. I cant kiss a boy after Ive peed on him, it just doesnt work for me, squick factor is WAY too high.
And I cannot beat someone who is crying. Maternal insticnt kicks in way too hard on that one, if my pet cries, they are being untied and held until they stop.  They have said it was not what they wanted, afterwards, that they wanted to be pushed more. I cant do it, though, I cant necessarily see the difference between good crying and wanting more and bad crying and something actualy being wrong.

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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/14/2007 8:32:15 PM   
Tannie


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Status: offline 		I have a very VERY strong aversion to anything that is pink.  If someone is wearing something that is pink, I make every excuse I can to not look at them unless it is absolutely necessary.  The only time I can handle something pink is if it is a food item and I can destroy it through digesting it.

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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/14/2007 9:35:05 PM   
Kana


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Status: offline 		From the dominant side, The one I hear most often is hoods.
People freak when you get at them with that sometimes.

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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/14/2007 10:57:20 PM   
laurell3


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tannie

I have a very VERY strong aversion to anything that is pink.  If someone is wearing something that is pink, I make every excuse I can to not look at them unless it is absolutely necessary.  The only time I can handle something pink is if it is a food item and I can destroy it through digesting it.


Seriously?  Any idea why?

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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/14/2007 11:04:02 PM   
BiteGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: bipolarber

Knife play.... or gun play.... I just freak out. Don't care if it's a butter knife, or if the gun is obviously a theatre prop (with only a patially drilled barrel) or missing several parts. (This is if we're in a scene, and I'm bound, helpless.)


I would have that issue too. I hate guns and knives.
Drawing blood, scat, anyone who has not or CAN'T consent (dead people, animals, children)

Altho, having said all that, a lot of ppl tend to have those limits, so I suppose they are not all that strange.





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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/15/2007 12:00:36 AM   
alivingdoll


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Status: offline 		Mine is stomach contents and heavy drinking roman showers either accidently or on purpose more phobia than a hard limit(I don't even like to see it on movies or tv ewwww)

mummifcation 

(no cramming me into small places like suitcases gymbags or foot lockers )

lowering the body's temp with ice inside and outside the body  and playing dead (mock necro) super hard limit

No metal restraints or cuffs

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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/15/2007 12:37:55 AM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		The hard limits I have are for saftey, so I can't say a ny of them are crazy. Like food being inserted in the vagina, is a huge no, because it can cause horrid infections. Or like high heels for me are dangerous cause I have very weak ankles and they roll easily and I broke both my ankles so they're farther damaged. Adding high points to balance on that require grace and cordination would be a disaster.

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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/15/2007 1:21:03 AM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

So I guess I better get used to freezing my ass off when I stay at his place


Have blanket will travel.  I bring my own now.

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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/15/2007 5:44:40 AM   
rubberpet


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Status: offline 		I am not adverse to Mistress controling my diet, but I will not, under ANY circumstances, eat a veggie!  No green, leafy thing, no carrots, no celery, no onions...nada!  The only veggie I will eat is a potato and it has to be a french fry.  I can eat my weight in steak, rice and gravy, cheese, and pasta.  Wanna watch me projectile vomit...feed me corn!  I can launch chunks distances that would impress NASA!

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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/15/2007 6:29:01 AM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

So I guess I better get used to freezing my ass off when I stay at his place


Have blanket will travel.  I bring my own now.


smart girl!

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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/15/2007 7:26:51 AM   
SweetSarijane


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Status: offline 		For me hoods, blindfolds, anal sex, and breathplay are biggies on the no no train. I have asthma and fighting to breathe just isn't fun or a turn on at all when I have to deal with it unexpectedly on a regular basis already. Hoods and blindfolds will bring on the feeling of not being able to breathe, panicking, fighting and just all out freaking. Not a good place for me to go. As for the other, having had a nasty introduction to it, I don't know that I'd ever be able to do it, or try it without totally freaking. I haven't managed it yet after all these years.

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RE: Crazy Hard Limits? - 11/15/2007 10:55:31 AM   
worththeeffort


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Status: offline 		Most of my hard limits are pretty reasonable......animals, UMs, corpses, anything that could result in death or permanant damage and the like. The only one that's odd, is my anti-foot-ness. i don't mind other people's feet, they're not sexy, but they don't bother me. But do NOT touch my feet, ever, under any circumstances. i wear shoes or socks 90% of the time to avoid this even potentially happening. i had to have stitches put in my toe when i was in my late teens.... holy shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit. Took several nurses, and my mom, to hold me down so they could do it. i kept telling them to leave it the hell alone and just put a band-aid on it. Was one of those horrifying traumatic life experiences in my book.... and then taking the stitches out? i bit my hand so hard i bled, in attempt to distract myself so i wouldn't move, then they wanted to put stitches in that! lol. Just one of those things people in my life have to deal with. i had a former dom try to "break" me of my aversion/phobia/squickyness, whatever you want to call it, by grabbing my feet every time i was about to have an orgasm, one swift (semi-accidental) kick to the nose (resulting to a trip to the ER suspecting a broken nose) and he learned, i wasn't fucking kidding! That relationship didn't continue very long after that.... lol. Lucky for me, He has no desire to touch my feet, and even encourages my socks (including during sex lol) so that he doesn't accidentally forget and touch them by accident. Awwwwww lol.

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