Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: The Concept of Fate?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> RE: The Concept of Fate? Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/8/2005 4:27:09 PM   
stormsfate


Posts: 849
Joined: 2/1/2005
Status: offline
Oh yes...I am a strong believer in "fate"


best regards,
fate

(in reply to mistoferin)
Profile   Post #: 21
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/8/2005 4:37:20 PM   
imtempting


Posts: 1280
Joined: 2/11/2005
Status: offline
There is no Fate but what we make............

(in reply to mistoferin)
Profile   Post #: 22
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/8/2005 4:49:53 PM   
dominmd


Posts: 474
Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline
A we quoting from T2 imtempting?

(in reply to imtempting)
Profile   Post #: 23
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/8/2005 5:20:58 PM   
imtempting


Posts: 1280
Joined: 2/11/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: dominmd

A we quoting from T2 imtempting?


It seems fitting.

Oh look a storms coming.

(in reply to dominmd)
Profile   Post #: 24
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/8/2005 5:50:19 PM   
dominmd


Posts: 474
Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline
Cool I love storms, I videotape them whenever I get a chance.

(in reply to imtempting)
Profile   Post #: 25
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/8/2005 6:01:23 PM   
SirKenin


Posts: 2994
Joined: 10/31/2004
From: Barrie, ON Canada
Status: offline
Y/you have an ultimate destination in life that is preordained. How and when Y/you get there is up to Y/you.

_____________________________

Hi. I don't care. Thanks.

Wicca: Pretending to be an ancient religion since 1956

Catholic Church: Serving up guilt since 107 AD.

(in reply to Lordandmaster)
Profile   Post #: 26
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/8/2005 6:06:46 PM   
anthrosub


Posts: 843
Joined: 6/2/2004
Status: offline
My first encounter with fate came through watching a movie of all things as a teenager. I had heard the term but really didn't understand what it was all about. I know it seems trivial to think a movie could give someone a perspective but in retrospect, I'm glad it happened that way. The movie was made in 1964 and starred Glenn Ford, Susanne Pleshette, Rod Taylor, and Wally Cox (with a few cameo appearances thrown in). The movie was titled, "Fate is the Hunter" based on the book by Ernest K. Gann, which I found years later and still have on my bookshelf.

The story is about a plane crash and the investigation that ensues. Everyone dies but the flight attendant (Pleshette). Rod Taylor was the pilot and is accused of being seen leaving a bar shortly before the plane took off. Glenn Ford is the investigator and a friend of the pilot, who he wants to clear of the drinking charge. The whole movie takes place in flashbacks documenting some of the most interesting series of events and their outcome in the pilot's life through interviews with his friends. The crash is recreated and almost happens again because they copy everything so accurately.

Here's what happened...the pilot asks for a cup of coffee, which is brought to him and he places it on a console next to his seat. A few minutes later, some turbulance from taking off spills the coffee and causes a short to make one of the engine warning lights start flashing. The crew doesn't realize it's only a short circuit and shuts down the engine. Next, a bird gets sucked into the number two engine and causes a fire so they shut down this engine, too. With only two engines left, they start losing altitude and decide to make a belly landing on a nearby beach that's clear (it's late at night). The landing goes OK but they end up running into a condemned fishing pier and the plane blows up on impact.

The end of the movie takes place in a courtroom where Glenn Ford gives a great speech about how he believes it was fate that brought the plane down. There were a string of coincidences that together, caused the crash. The first engine was actually OK. The bird was usually gone from the area as it's a migratory species but the summer weather lasted longer than usual so it was still around. The pier was scheduled to be torn down a week earlier but the contractor was on vacation and decided to take an extra week off at the last minute.

Earnest Gann was a an airline pilot before WW2, a military cargo pilot during the war, and again returned to civil aviation until he was retired when jets took over the industry. His book is about his own experiences with fate and the movie has nothing to do with its contents, just the nature of fate as a concept. I highly recommend the book and the movie.

As far as my own view today, I think fate is yet another structure we superimpose on events to understand what's going on. I think it originates in the structure of how we think as human beings. Some people subscribe to the billiard ball theory of cause and effect in linear events. Others subscribe to a web-based perception (including myself) where everything affects everything else.

I had a great debate once with the vice-president of a company I used to work for. She insisted that all accidents can be avoided if one pays close enough attention. She was a big believer in cause and effect. I told her this was impossible because accidents, by their very nature, will slip past your diligence and the more diligent you are, the smaller or less noticeable will be the things that get by (I later learned that she lost her only daughter to a car accident where she lost control in a snowstorm and hit a tree).

I also told her people learn from making mistakes. If nothing is amiss, nobody pays it any attention and accidents happen when that's how things look (nothing amiss). Only when you see something out of place does it stand out. This is also the basis for the old saying, "Show me someone who's never made a mistake and I'll show you someone who hasn't learned much."

Edit to add:
I wanted to elaborate on the previous paragraph a bit. When someone makes a mistake, they learn what they did wrong because something didn't work, they noticed this fact and had to do something different to correct it. Think about this. If you went through life without anything going wrong you wouldn't give it a second thought and move on. In other words, there would be no contrast or comparison. This is why mistakes are valuable lessons.

This is how we learn just about everything. We notice the differences between objects, events, people, and so on. Not everything has to be a mistake to learn from it but the most important lessons always seem to be made up of some level of trial and error.

quote:

In buddism, they believe not in the past or the future, but in the now. And being open to what is happening at this precise moment. It is focusing on all what is happening around you and being able to hear. If you can hear, you will be able to centre yourself on what is happening in the now. So, unlike fate, its just about being open to the realisty that surrounds you.


Dark~angel...I had to laugh when I read this. These words of yours are synonymous with my description of intelligence...exactly the same definition using different words.

anthrosub


< Message edited by anthrosub -- 8/8/2005 9:03:13 PM >


_____________________________

"It is easier to fool people than it is to convince them they have been fooled." - Mark Twain

"I am not young enough to know everything." - Oscar Wilde

(in reply to imtempting)
Profile   Post #: 27
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/8/2005 6:41:30 PM   
onceburned


Posts: 2117
Joined: 1/4/2005
From: Iowa
Status: offline
Erin, you can call it fate or I would wonder if it wasn't the hand of God which led to your last minute change of roads. Perhaps it was not meant for you to hit the motorcyclist.

Of course, there is no way to tell. But its the sort of experience that certainly would make me pause and wonder.

(in reply to mistoferin)
Profile   Post #: 28
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/8/2005 7:51:30 PM   
kisshou


Posts: 2425
Joined: 2/11/2005
Status: offline
erin

I have experienced the same type of thing many times. I have always heard it referred to as intuition, psychic ability, foreboding. I have never heard what you described referred to as the concept of fate.

Thinking of someone then the phone rings and it is them. Getting a bad feeling about someone or something then making a decision based on that feeling. Whenever I don't pay attention to these feelings it has always ended badly for me.

(in reply to mistoferin)
Profile   Post #: 29
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/8/2005 8:17:07 PM   
Kindred2Evil


Posts: 227
Joined: 4/16/2005
Status: offline
I would call it Karma instead of fate. Personally, I believe that everything you do has a consequence or reaction for it. You had good Karma that night, you were "rewarded" so to speak for something you had done earlier...either earlier in the day or earlier in your life. It was this man's Karma that got him hit, and the girls Karma that decided she was going to be the one who did it.
One of the creeds in Wicca is "Ever mind the rule of three, what you send out comes back to thee". In other words, do good things, good comes back to you, do bad things, bad comes back to you. It makes everyone responsible for Their actions, they are unable to blame them on anyone else.
Call if fate, or destiny, or Karma or whatever you will...It was not meant for you to be responsible for this man's physical pain. It's terrible for the young lady that hit him, I can only imagine her pain as well.
Pay attention to that gut feeling, it's a mechanism that everyone has been given, I think if more people listened to it, there would be a whole lot less pain and anger in this world.

Just my two cents :)

_____________________________

Her touch is on the breeze that brushes your cheek, Her voice rides the thunder as the storm breaks, Her tears will clean your heartache when the rains come, Her sun will light the darkest times when you feel alone...She is the Goddess.

(in reply to kisshou)
Profile   Post #: 30
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/8/2005 10:20:07 PM   
CalliopePurple


Posts: 2539
Joined: 11/29/2004
From: SeaTac area
Status: offline
Kindred, love the Buffy quote in your sig!

_____________________________

Kimi ni aitakute dare yori mo aitakute
hajimete kimi ni atta hoshizora no shita de.
Kimi ni tsutaetai todokanai omoi demo
boku no kokoro wa mada kimi o sagashiteiru.

Gackt - Kimi ni Aitakute

(in reply to Kindred2Evil)
Profile   Post #: 31
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/9/2005 2:52:05 AM   
FangsNfeet


Posts: 3758
Joined: 12/3/2004
Status: offline
One more story to tell...

So there I am driving off I 45 in Houston TX on a very wet and rainy day. I'm about to take the appropriat exit when a moron go 90 plus cutts me off and causes me to stay on the Free Way. His dicission to cut me off caused his corvette to end up in 5ft plus foot of water my car to take an exit that would put me in an area where I could sit the flood out and keep a dry and working car.

We can always think of the odds how something happend and the coincidence of meeting people saying it's a small world.
Instead of trying to figure out the Powers that Be or calculate the ionic chages of our electrical impulses calculated with the earths gravity and alignment with the solar system, if you are in a happy situation, Just be FUCKING HAPPY! If you're in the unhappy situation, then move on and learn from the mistake.

As for my last example of fate,

Think of all of us as pool balls. No matter how we all get knocked around and bumped into each other, all of us will end up in the hole.

If anyone would like to hear more from me on on this topic, just send me a private message on my profile.

< Message edited by FangsNfeet -- 8/9/2005 2:53:28 AM >


_____________________________

I'm Godzilla and you're Japan

(in reply to mistoferin)
Profile   Post #: 32
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/9/2005 6:44:08 AM   
BlkTallFullfig


Posts: 5585
Joined: 6/25/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin
No my question is...was it common sense reasoning that made me make that turn?....or was it fate? The road I turned onto was one that I was unfamiliar with and had no real idea where it would come out, the only thing I knew is that it travelled along side the freeway. I am certain that had I gone straight I would have most likely been the one to hit that man. My truck had been parked under a tree that had fairly covered me with sap and had an impact on my visibility. I don't think I would have seen him in time.
Yes Erin, I believe in Fate... I believe we sometimes make choices that have no common sense reasoning to explain prefferring this over that, and it turns out to have been the correct choice.
I have an unfortunate habit of second guessing my instinct, and sometimes something happens or almost happens to indicate I should have gone with what I felt initially, so am trying to pay attention and trust more, because I feel sometimes it may be some energy in the universe giving me a sign. M

_____________________________

a.k.a. SexyBossyBBW
""Touching was, and still is, and will always be, the true revolution" Nikki Giovanni

(in reply to mistoferin)
Profile   Post #: 33
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/9/2005 9:54:16 AM   
MsIncognito


Posts: 742
Joined: 5/24/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: SirKenin

Y/you have an ultimate destination in life that is preordained. How and when Y/you get there is up to Y/you.


You mean, like, death?

(in reply to SirKenin)
Profile   Post #: 34
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/9/2005 9:57:16 AM   
MsIncognito


Posts: 742
Joined: 5/24/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Kindred2Evil

Call if fate, or destiny, or Karma or whatever you will



I don't think Karma and fate are at all the same thing. Karma is based on choices, therefore we can control what happens to a degree by the choices we make. Fate implies that things are preordained and there is nothing we can do to change them. Big difference, IMO. Karma I believe in. Fate, not so much.

(in reply to Kindred2Evil)
Profile   Post #: 35
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/9/2005 10:10:38 AM   
darkinshadows


Posts: 4145
Joined: 6/2/2004
From: UK
Status: offline
quote:


Think of all of us as pool balls. No matter how we all get knocked around and bumped into each other, all of us will end up in the hole.


I do not think this analagy holds up. Because sometimes, those poolballs, just end up on the floor.

Peace and love


_____________________________


.dark.




...i surrender to gravity and the unknown...

(in reply to FangsNfeet)
Profile   Post #: 36
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/9/2005 10:13:33 AM   
darkinshadows


Posts: 4145
Joined: 6/2/2004
From: UK
Status: offline
quote:

I think people really really really wanna believe in fate (in the same way that they really really really wanna believe in God), because the alternative is too scary, but they realize that it's hard to believe that ALL things are fated, so they come to compromise-theories that assuage their fears and don't seem utterly unrealistic.


My question would be, what is the alternative?

Peace and Love


_____________________________


.dark.




...i surrender to gravity and the unknown...

(in reply to Lordandmaster)
Profile   Post #: 37
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/9/2005 11:32:44 AM   
Lordandmaster


Posts: 10943
Joined: 6/22/2004
Status: offline
The alternative is acknowledging that the truth can be nasty, instead of constructing some kind of half-assed theory that will comfort you as long as you don't ask too many probing questions. I'd RATHER believe that there is an intelligent being governing the universe and making sure everything turns out all right in the end, but I CAN'T believe it because I see no evidence for it, and plenty of evidence against it.

As I've said, unlike most of the fate-debunkers on this thread, I believe that all things are fated, because I don't see how any other conception of the universe is possible. But I don't believe they are fated by an intelligent power, and I don't believe you can get away with saying that some things are fated and other things aren't.

(in reply to darkinshadows)
Profile   Post #: 38
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/9/2005 11:34:44 AM   
Kindred2Evil


Posts: 227
Joined: 4/16/2005
Status: offline
Buffy?? Which one comes from Buffy? The grapes quote I found on a board I'm frequently on, they had a list of fun quotes, I loved it and added it, unfortunately I don't know who to put as the author of it. The Gift quote came from an email my aunt sent to me and it didn't have an author either.
Either way, they both spoke to me so thanks!

_____________________________

Her touch is on the breeze that brushes your cheek, Her voice rides the thunder as the storm breaks, Her tears will clean your heartache when the rains come, Her sun will light the darkest times when you feel alone...She is the Goddess.

(in reply to CalliopePurple)
Profile   Post #: 39
RE: The Concept of Fate? - 8/9/2005 12:32:26 PM   
CalliopePurple


Posts: 2539
Joined: 11/29/2004
From: SeaTac area
Status: offline
The second one is from Buffy. "The Gift" is the name of the season 5 finale, where Buffy tells Dawn that right before sacrificing herself to save the world. </geek moment>

_____________________________

Kimi ni aitakute dare yori mo aitakute
hajimete kimi ni atta hoshizora no shita de.
Kimi ni tsutaetai todokanai omoi demo
boku no kokoro wa mada kimi o sagashiteiru.

Gackt - Kimi ni Aitakute

(in reply to Kindred2Evil)
Profile   Post #: 40
Page:   <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> RE: The Concept of Fate? Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.105