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RCdc -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 3:39:30 PM)
No. The BDSM peeps are not more intelligent. I consider this to be a 'we are better than (insert section of any community here) thread'. Which is one of the most naive and stupid topics of all. the.dark.

Argentopal -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 3:41:26 PM)
lmao This made my tiny feeble brain go right to the line in the Steve Martin movie ... his "Father" is preparing him to leave home and go out into the big, wide world and he has 2 items in his hands. He says to Steve's character ... "This is shit, and this is shinola." I happen to know shit from shinola, but I am not sure it qualifies me to be smarter than my non-kinky down the road neighbor. opal quote: ORIGINAL: Prinsexx I was tempted to answer because I know my IQ and my EI and my SI and my arse from my elbow.....but I'll pass

gorgeous1 -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 3:54:58 PM)
AHA! You have all proven my suspicion! Each of you have responded in different ways...some snarky, some with a barrage of buck-seventy-five words, some with guilt-ridden responses due to your feelings of insecurity due to your knowledge that INDEED, you ARE smarter than the guy who thinks Playboy is as naughty as it gets! Just kidding, guys... really...I just wanted to throw this out there because I have been lurking on this site for a few months now, and just joined yesterday. I chose to join this forum rather than some of the others out there because most of you folks seem to be able to express yourselves quite well. I do think kink attracts more intelligent people. If I had to pick people for a debate team, I'd pick a random sampling of you guys over a Fraternity House in a heartbeat! [:)]

Missokyst -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 4:17:33 PM)
Heh.. well I am. LOL dang that felt good to type! But, honestly, having met more than a fair share of kinksters I can tell you intelligence is not a prerequisite. Nor is creativity. Sometimes horniness is a big driving force. And you don't need a lot of brain power to drive that animal. Kyst

subtee -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 4:18:51 PM)
Run over to the "Safe Words" thread; the answer is clear there: oh hell no!

laurell3 -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 4:32:26 PM)
Subtee, I'm seriously going to put that disclaimer on the bottom of my faxes (well part of it at least, it's pretty long) and see how long it takes for someone to notice it's not real. Thanks, that was hilarious!

MystressDream -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 4:43:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subtee Run over to the "Safe Words" thread; the answer is clear there: oh hell no! *LOLOL Oh.... I couldn't agree with you more!!*

chellekitty -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 5:45:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gorgeous1 AHA! You have all proven my suspicion! Each of you have responded in different ways...some snarky, some with a barrage of buck-seventy-five words, some with guilt-ridden responses due to your feelings of insecurity due to your knowledge that INDEED, you ARE smarter than the guy who thinks Playboy is as naughty as it gets! Just kidding, guys... really...I just wanted to throw this out there because I have been lurking on this site for a few months now, and just joined yesterday. I chose to join this forum rather than some of the others out there because most of you folks seem to be able to express yourselves quite well. I do think kink attracts more intelligent people. If I had to pick people for a debate team, I'd pick a random sampling of you guys over a Fraternity House in a heartbeat! [:)] due to the nature of this forum....both the fact that it is written communication on a computer and that we scare away the ummm not so smart ones that can't hack it....for lack of a better phrase....yes, if my only exposure to people who engage in BDSM were these boards, i would say we were more intelligent than your average group...but this is in no way a representative sample group...sorry... chelle

MissSCD -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 5:49:28 PM)
*Studies have shown that we are from the upper middle class and higher iq group. Many people fall into our kink. It is hard to say.* *It does help to be creative mentally and have a little extra change to purchase special clothing and toys that we use.* *I think we are different. I am not sure what the qualifying element would be. I just take it as it comes now. It is much more fun that way.* *Regards, MissSCD*

goodgirl08 -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 5:55:43 PM)
Smarter, with less common sense. [:D]

KatyLied -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 5:58:19 PM)
quote: No. The BDSM peeps are not more intelligent. I consider this to be a 'we are better than (insert section of any community here) thread'. Which is one of the most naive and stupid topics of all. [sm=applause.gif]

PrincessEllie -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 6:39:47 PM)
I don't think overall we are smarter. And honestly, anyone has thought that has never spent much time on collarme. There are some DUMB kinksters there. Personally, I am quite intelligent if not always driven. I'm not a genius by any standards, but I am far above average.

Estring -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 7:03:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gorgeous1 This may have been brought up before, but since I'm new to this site, I am curious if any of you agree. I consider kink to be, obviously, far more complex than vanilla. I think to be kinky, one must have an intellect and imagination that is in "overdrive", and therefore, I think people that tend to be aroused by things that are off the beaten path are smarter than the average bear. So, not to ask any of you to brag, but do you consider yourself to be above-average in the brain department? When you were a kid, were you the one always making up the games that everyone on the block would play? Were you often caught with a book and a flashlight under the covers well after bed time? By your logic, pedophiles and people who screw farm animals are geniuses. I don't see any correlation between kink or fetish and intelligence. I consider myself rather intelligent, but it's not because I enjoy having a slave.

Littlepita -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 7:03:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark No. The BDSM peeps are not more intelligent. I consider this to be a 'we are better than (insert section of any community here) thread'. Which is one of the most naive and stupid topics of all. the.dark. I agree

mistoferin -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 7:07:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PrincessEllie There are some DUMB kinksters there. Awww come on....you know all those "dominates" are really smart.

PrincessEllie -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 7:10:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin Awww come on....you know all those "dominates" are really smart. Good joke! If I had a dollar for every "Dom" who messaged me without reading my profile, I'd have my own dungeon.

mistoferin -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 7:15:08 PM)
The other day I got an email from a dominant critcizing my profile. The next day, I got another email from him...still criticizing my profile...but he actually went on to admit that when he sent me the original critique, he hadn't even read my profile. I'm sure he is probably a rocket scientist or something.

KnightofMists -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 7:17:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gorgeous1 So, not to ask any of you to brag, but do you consider yourself to be above-average in the brain department? When you were a kid, were you the one always making up the games that everyone on the block would play? Were you often caught with a book and a flashlight under the covers well after bed time? nay... I am a fucking idiot!!!!

KnightofMists -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 7:19:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin The other day I got an email from a dominant critcizing my profile. The next day, I got another email from him...still criticizing my profile...but he actually went on to admit that when he sent me the original critique, he hadn't even read my profile. ok... maybe I am not as much of a fucking Idiot as I thought!!! DAMN! I can't win for not trying!

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Are we more intelligent? (11/15/2007 7:21:11 PM)
Nope I do not believe being kinky makes one smarter than others. Yes I was always making up games, yes I was always out playing , yes I was always trying to read even when it was bedtime. However that's my nature, that's my charachter, it's who I am, not cause I am smarter than someone else, and not cause I am kinky. quote: ORIGINAL: gorgeous1 This may have been brought up before, but since I'm new to this site, I am curious if any of you agree. I consider kink to be, obviously, far more complex than vanilla. I think to be kinky, one must have an intellect and imagination that is in "overdrive", and therefore, I think people that tend to be aroused by things that are off the beaten path are smarter than the average bear. So, not to ask any of you to brag, but do you consider yourself to be above-average in the brain department? When you were a kid, were you the one always making up the games that everyone on the block would play? Were you often caught with a book and a flashlight under the covers well after bed time?

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