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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 5:51:37 PM   
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Stephann,

I hate to say this but you don't understand the intent or meaning of anything I have penned. It is the close minded people on CM that choose to flame me for having a grasped an consept and created writings to fully support what it is I feel. Since you don't know me, you cannot begin to tell me what I ment in any way shape or form. The rather long essay that I posted here, was posted after meeting aproval of a body of educated people living within the bounds of the BDSM lifestyle. These same people gave me the highest marks for the way I presented the subject matter.

If I were able to make a wager with you, I would say that you and the others who have blasted me with your rather lame comments are simply afraid of the smarter younger sect of kinksters that are filling the ranks of the BDSM world. Since I never said that my way was the only way, and if you actully read what I wrote word for word, you would find that I stated that each person or coupling of people live their lives to beat of their own drummer.

In closing, please think before you try to flame a person. You do not know how long I have been doing whatever I do, nor do you know my strenths and weaknesses...

Blessings,

Mike



psst Mike you should know that some of the people "flaming" you (in your own words) are some of the most open-minded, reasonable, intelligent, well-reasoned people here and since I am a submissive (primarily ) and have the power you should listen to me!!! 

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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 5:54:12 PM   
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Fortunately, like so many other proclaimed 'truths' such kind people offer the opportunity to share other perspectives.

Stephan



Such people don't provide an opportunity that doesn't already exists with open-minded individuals

Secondly, Open-minded individuals provide an opportunity to learned and grow for each other and a closed-minded "one-true wayer" provides stagnation at best.

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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 6:19:13 PM   
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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 6:51:11 PM   
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There are two kinds of Tops, there are the Dominants and the Dominates. I am going to try my best to discribe both of them for the masses.
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ORIGINAL: MasterMike04103

When did I ever say that anything in the post you are commenting on that would lead you to beleive that I said, this is law. I was giving prospective to others as it has been given to me by many different people. Go back and look for it, because for the life of me, I can't find it.


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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 7:03:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think I'm going to avoid getting into a pissing contest about manners, who has power, yadda yadda. Because it's all entirely situational. I'm usually pretty nice-but I call them as I see them.

As far as being rude to people?  Explain what that means.

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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 7:07:14 PM   
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Personally, I *love* the rude, annoying dominants.  It make me look so much better by comparison - so don't clue them in, okay?

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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 7:20:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

It is pointless to debate this issue with people like this. 


Is making fun of them still okay, sensei?

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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 7:20:56 PM   
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The rather long essay that I posted here, was posted after meeting aproval of a body of educated people living within the bounds of the BDSM lifestyle. These same people gave me the highest marks for the way I presented the subject matter.

that remarkable body of educated people must have been rweal twue experts which is why we don't understand it

/nods

I can live with that quite happily

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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 7:23:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

quote:

The rather long essay that I posted here, was posted after meeting aproval of a body of educated people living within the bounds of the BDSM lifestyle. These same people gave me the highest marks for the way I presented the subject matter.

that remarkable body of educated people must have been rweal twue experts which is why we don't understand it

/nods

I can live with that quite happily


The "approved body" must be a sub-comittee of the secert Old Guard which is why he can't actually reference them by name of the organization, lest the secert be revealed.


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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 7:23:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

quote:

The rather long essay that I posted here, was posted after meeting aproval of a body of educated people living within the bounds of the BDSM lifestyle. These same people gave me the highest marks for the way I presented the subject matter.

that remarkable body of educated people must have been rweal twue experts which is why we don't understand it

/nods

I can live with that quite happily


I guess that three sychophantic perverts thought it was cool-so everbody else should too?

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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 7:24:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'd just like to say thanks to Stephan and MR for taking the time to post intelligent and in-depth responses to the "essay"--I look forward to seeing if he's able to counter any of your points, though I fear he will just resort to accusing you of "flaming" him again.

Also, I'd like to echo that the "fantasy" part of the message boards here, are where I have found the most respectful and least "trollish" D-types.  But I suppose that's a debate for another thread.

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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 7:25:12 PM   
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The "approved body" must be a sub-comittee of the secert Old Guard which is why he can't actually reference them by name of the organization, lest the secert be revealed.

/nods

It's fortunate that many of us don't belong to the approved body; otherwise...we'd all be fucked ....I can't keep a secret to save my life



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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 7:26:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: phedre81

I'd just like to say thanks to Stephan and MR for taking the time to post intelligent and in-depth responses to the "essay"--I look forward to seeing if he's able to counter any of your points, though I fear he will just resort to accusing you of "flaming" him again.

Also, I'd like to echo that the "fantasy" part of the message boards here, are where I have found the most respectful and least "trollish" D-types.  But I suppose that's a debate for another thread.


That would tend to be the guys who never had slaves-but theorize about them?

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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 7:27:05 PM   
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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 7:27:20 PM   
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dayum, that made me giggle

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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 7:29:31 PM   
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That would tend to be the guys who never had slaves-but theorize about them?


LOL, well, not EXACTLY what I had in mind... 

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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 7:33:12 PM   
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Is making fun of them still okay, sensei?


Of course.... An asshole would do nothing less... but debating with them would give them a place of respect and power... an absolute no-no for an aspiring Asshole.

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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 7:33:19 PM   
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That would tend to be the guys who never had slaves-but theorize about them?


And how is Rule doing?

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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 7:33:49 PM   
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LMAO RRafe

dayum, that made me giggle


They have lots of rules and structures and expectations for thier imaginary slaves too.  And the slave is always just around the corner-waiting for it all to be prefected-just so..all they have to do is pontificate, and they will come.

And so......and so.......wait.........

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RE: Dominant because you say so? - 11/20/2007 7:34:28 PM   
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Is making fun of them still okay, sensei?


Of course.... An asshole would do nothing less... but debating with them would give them a place of respect and power... an absolute no-no for an aspiring Asshole.


I was trying to hit that magic balance between logic and kewl sarcasm.

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