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Lordandmaster -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 1:28:51 AM)

Well, it does sound a little bit better than "I've been fucked a lot."

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

I think that's what I'm going to call it from now on... "I have a vibrant sexual past." [:D]



mnottertail -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 4:37:16 AM)

I have known a cacophony of cunts, carnally.

(some situations may lead one to believe that may describe a single woman).

Ron



windchymes -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 4:54:22 AM)

Since it's Thanksgiving, I thought you'd go with cornucopia....



mnottertail -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 5:01:36 AM)

Truthfully, they weren't all that different that I would describe them with a term like that, but I horned them plenty, by god.

Miles Standish



childoftheshadow -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 5:01:56 AM)

Number of previous sexual partners has never been an issue in my current relationship. He's never asked me, and I've never come out and said "Oh, by the way, I've fucked xx men". The only slight problem we've ever had regarding sexual past is that when we got together MANY moons ago, he was a virgin. In the beginning, it was a bit like "oh, okay then", but then I got to currupt him, and that was great fun.



camille65 -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 5:03:27 AM)

It isn't so much a matter of how many for me, I was married for 20 years and was monogamus but before marriage my number was pretty darn high lol. So there is a huge time gap in my count.



topcat -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 5:11:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: daddyncherry

First let me say, that i am with slaveluci and Topcat on this one.


Dear Cherry-
 
 Now there's a happy thought<eg>.
 
 Actually, when I think about our numbers, it funny that we haven't been together. It's nice to know I still have something to aspire to<g>.
 
My respects to your M., and a happy T-day to all of yours.
 
Stay warm,
Lawrence



mnottertail -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 5:17:56 AM)

Where you been, Lorenzo?  Lotta boats to tuck up for the winter?  Good to see you out and about again.

Ron



Viridana -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 5:24:34 AM)

I don't advertise how many I've slept with, but if I'm asked, I do answer honestly.  I'm not ashamed of my sexual past since in all instances I've never cheated, participated in cheating, never lied to get into anybodies pants nor have engaged in any sexual accounter that had even remotely the danger of getting somebody physically or mentally hurt. When I answer honestly I've had a couple of times had a negative reaction from the questioner and once, a prospective partner straight out told me he couldn't be with a whore like me. I'm actually glad he said it upfront because I have no interest what so ever in somebody who is ready to disregard my personality and companionship over my sexual past. It saved me alot of time and possibly a heartache.

Today, my  current partner is totally ok with my sexual past and his sexual past has also been vibrant although mine has alot more  people in it.



topcat -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 5:49:47 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Where you been, Lorenzo?  Lotta boats to tuck up for the winter?  Good to see you out and about again.

Ron



OhmyBrother-
 
I have been ramrodding the refit of an 81 foot yacht for a billionaire client, who has bought my ass, so I'll be staying with the vessel, living aboard as fulltime Captain and sole crew. Nice work if you can get it.
 
It's good to see you, too.
 
Stay warm,
Lawrence



IrishMist -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 5:56:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

If you were becoming acquainted with someone, you both liked each other, things were moving along, you had been speaking for some time, yada, yada, yada... would their number of previous partners make a difference to you (if you suddenly became aware of that info because somehow it just never came up before)? 

Would you just chalk it up to "that's part of their past and that's what makes them who they are"? Or if you had known specifically in the beginning and it was outside your normal comfort zone, all things considered, would you have just moved on?

Cali


would the number of past partners matter to me?
No



mnottertail -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 5:56:21 AM)

I hope that as Captain of the vessel, in overseeing the re-fit, a small but serviceable salon of remission might be tucked athwart the beams.

I hope your Thanksgiving is by and large (in the nautical sense).

Good winds, and deep blue seas.

Ron

'of the' seemed to help this post greatly, quite euphonic now, in composition.




mistoferin -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 6:00:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: topcat
OhmyBrother-
 
I have been ramrodding the refit of an 81 foot yacht for a billionaire client, who has bought my ass, so I'll be staying with the vessel, living aboard as fulltime Captain and sole crew. Nice work if you can get it.


All this talk of ramrodding on a boat....

........how am I supposed to cook this turkey with my mind wandering to thoughts of pirates and gang planks?....lol.



MstrDennynSlave -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 9:06:41 AM)

the number of past partners is of no concern to me. master asked me one time how many partners i'd had, not because he was worried, but to guage how experienced i was in bdsm.



everhope -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 12:29:43 PM)

at this phase of my life, how many sexual encounters another has had is not important to me. however, i do like to know relationship histories. are they still friends, is there civil communication, and is there ongoing drama to any past relationships. 
at 51, i have had years of monogomy and years of having freedom to fuck and suck when and who i wanted.
now if i am expected to know the exact count that won't happen. i will say in all honesty that it is more than twenty and less than fifty, if that bothers any potential partners then they won't be a potential for long.     



MrSpectacular -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 12:42:07 PM)

It would not generally bother me -but if it was up in the high hundreds I think I may need to remove my sunglasses and consider whether I just hooked up with a nymphomaniac.



domiguy -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 2:11:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: marieToo

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

If you were becoming acquainted with someone, you both liked each other, things were moving along, you had been speaking for some time, yada, yada, yada... would their number of previous partners make a difference to you (if you suddenly became aware of that info because somehow it just never came up before)? 

Would you just chalk it up to "that's part of their past and that's what makes them who they are"? Or if you had known specifically in the beginning and it was outside your normal comfort zone, all things considered, would you have just moved on?

Cali



I've had sex with a whole 3 men in my entire life.  That said,  I don't really care how many partners someone else has had, at least not from a moral standpoint, but my concern would be catching an std.  Current blood tests or condoms are neccesary. Other than that, I take no issue with someone who has had numerous partners.


3 whole men?  So what? ...Does that include the hundreds of amputees that have banged yo ass?  Enquiring minds, baby!!! Enquiring minds!!!



daddyncherry -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/22/2007 9:44:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: topcat

Dear Cherry-
 
 Now there's a happy thought<eg>.
 
 Actually, when I think about our numbers, it funny that we haven't been together. It's nice to know I still have something to aspire to<g>.
 
My respects to your M., and a happy T-day to all of yours.
 
Stay warm,
Lawrence


LOL...well if you go by that old rule of who you've been with and who i've been with and how that means that we've...ya know...LOL.. but then that would "up" your number and you don't wanna do that anyway [;)]

Hope you are doing well and that my home state is treating you well :)



fsub4use -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/23/2007 12:41:48 AM)

there are a couple of answers about "a clean bill of health" - wonder what that means?  i have worked with so many women who have gotten HPV, chlamydia, AIDS, whatever from their husband or one partner.... just a happy reminder - it isnt who you fuck, it's how you fuck... so would you eliminate these women because they didnt have a clean bill of health?  wow.... i worked with a 9 year old girl who had been raped and gotten herpes.... i guess in 10 years, she wont be ok too? i hope that "a clean bill of health" actually means that they are MANAGING whatever is going on in their bodies... *thinks of a guy i dated who had diabetes and couldnt get an erection.... he was a great lover and an even better boyfriend.  hmmmm....  



xoxi -> RE: Number of previous partners (11/23/2007 3:30:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: liminalRapture

It depends what your meaning of the word "is" is, but less than my age (in terms of number of men).


Less than your age? You're 36!  I think that there's definitely a skewed average here as I wouldn't consider a 36 year old who has had 36 sexual partners to be the national average. 

I'm 24 and my number is less than my age too...less than half my age actually.  It's not terribly high but...it is higher than my Master's.  That does make me feel a bit weird when I stop to think about it, just the whole "am I a slut" aspect of it (no I don't think I am one; no I don't want to be one) but the past is the past and I can't go back and change it. As long as he doesn't mind it too terribly much I guess we're fine.



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