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ORIGINAL: sexyone4you

I apologize in advance to anyone this may offend, but I feel I must get something off my ample chest.  I have chatted with other slaves & subs who have similar experiences, so I know I am not alone, but lately the types of responses I get to my profile vary from friendly & polite to raunchy & disrespectful.  It's the latter that I devote this rant to.

I consider myself a slave.  Do not confuse this with being a doormat.  I am kind and respectful in my responses to anyone who emails me - even assholes who like to start out with things like, "On your knees, bitch." 

I think men are confused that I am on here just to get laid.  While there are plenty of sexual things I enjoy in the BDSM lifestyle, I can get laid anywhere.  DO NOT be confused that since I am not a barbie doll that I am sex-deprived.  Emailing me with things like, "Come visit me so I can cover you with my cum" isn't a turn-on.  I just think you are tired of jacking off to internet porn & somehow stumbled upon my profile & thought I would be a good choice for whatever reason. 

While I have chatted with plenty of men from here who are wonderful, respectful, strict, and dirty as hell, lately the flakes have been crawling from under their rocks to share their shallow lives with me.  Thank you, but I am not interested. 

Again, sorry for the rant. 

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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

Oh hun.. every holiday season it is the same.. the slime oozes out from under thier respective rocks.. and slimes thier way up onto every ones profiles. Sad really. They hate being alone durring this time, and are so lacking in social skills that they can not be bothered with typing out even the most rudementiary letter of introduction.

It is not just you... they do it to all of us... *sighs* Just iggy and move on.

You will see many more ranting posts like this in the comming month or so. ( there has been many already from both sides )

When folks realize there are some out there interested in more then hot monkey sex they might chillax a bit about all of the " on your knees bitch " and " You'd look purdy in my cum " bs.

Good luck!

Gwyn

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ORIGINAL: windchymes

I never thought of it as a seasonal thing before, but I guess it makes sense.  People take time off work around the holidays, so they have more free time on their hands.  Some people have a lot of vacation time accrued by the end of the year, and some employers have a "use it or lose it" policy so they're home with free time, too.

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ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain

Sometimes women getting into BDSM are actually flattered by the amount of hard core offers they get and love to talk about it. I'm not saying you are such a woman, but anyone with a name, sexyone4u, is going to attract those looking for quick sex especially with a profile that says, "I am 1/2 pain slut, 1/2 cum slut, and 100% nympho."

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

I get these kind of mails every day, it doesn't go up or down with the seasons. It got to a point with me where i don't really even register them, as soon as the on your knees bitch etc comes into play i delete them.
No point in getting wound up, annoyed or upset about them, its a few words in my box is all. My mail box that is

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ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain

Sometimes women getting into BDSM are actually flattered by the amount of hard core offers they get and love to talk about it. I'm not saying you are such a woman, but anyone with a name, sexyone4u, is going to attract those looking for quick sex especially with a profile that says, "I am 1/2 pain slut, 1/2 cum slut, and 100% nympho."