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Smith117 -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (12/2/2007 12:30:56 AM)
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ORIGINAL: MsLilac
I haven’t even bothered to read much past page 8 of this thread. I had to stop, I felt my brain imploding.
Smith, try as you might, but you are not acting gracefully. How was I flaming you? My dear, I don’t flame people. I sense ‘typical’ diversionary tactics. Stop using smoke and mirrors, if you are going to reply to me, address what I wrote properly and accurately, instead of being evasive and distractive.
I didn’t say you spoke for my circles, I was addressing your “typically” ‘hypothesis’, to add another perspective. My truth is (and for a number of people I suspect) that that you were over egging the word “typically” - in the real word, it doesn’t even amount to 'typically'. You seemingly have a perspective bias. Which leads me on to…
"Secondly, you have no idea what profiles I'm looking at."
You gave the Collarme viewing public every idea what profiles you were looking at, by using the word “typically” and stating in a round about way that that you draw your flawed conclusions (partially at least) from the profiles you view.
To quote you again “I can't count the number of 'female doms' I have seen whose profiles say "you will not get sex, you are worthless, you will tribute me at every turn and treat me like a princess"
I am going to assume you are not involved in your local BDSM community in any significant way (feel free to correct me). I politely suggest you get out there and get involved. ‘Your experience’ amounts to nothing more than a skewed perspective bias, and self reinforcing prejudice. But so what if a both parties want that kind of relationship? If it is not for you, move on. Or maybe it annoys you so much because it pertains to you?
Yes, I agree, a lot of men will relate to your diatribe, doesn’t validate it. A lot more men and women will relate to the opposite. So, using your ‘majority’ method to make a point, what’s that proving?
Ones persons experience is not representative of a whole. What it is representative of, is that persons social habits.
To quote you, “The rest of my post was not ridiculous, unless of course you find some of it pertains to you. You see, far too many men know where I'm coming from. In fact, Tom Leykis based his radio 'empire' on telling men how to avoid women like this. So it's not uncommon at all.”
Are you aware of how ridiculous and immature this sounds? It’s disjointed, illogical, contradictory. Yes, the rest of your post was as equally ridiculous as the above quote, if not more so. I am left thinking two things. 1) You are either a genuinely ignorant and inexperienced, amateur arm chair critic, who actually believes his little forays into highly flawed gender pop psyche and social commentary. Or 2) You are trolling, and enjoying the controversy. I am going to go with number 2, as I don’t believe anybody can be that dumb.
And here we go again. To answer your first question.....the 'flame' was you calling the 'rest of my post' rediculous. That implies one of two things. Either A) It in some way pertained to you and you got offended. B) You cast it aside without reading it or simply dismissed its points, ergo marginalizing it, which is no way to effective communication. Why would I address what you wrote 'properly and accurately' when you afforded me no such courtesy?
Sorry, but men are not known for their grace. And I'm no exception.
And I'll go ahead and correct you now, I WAS involved very heavily in my local groups, until I got fed up with the drama that follows such groups, but that's another rant entirely. For now, I'll focus on one at a time.
Also, for the reading impaired, I will point out again that I was not judging those profiles. As I've said time and again prostitution is the oldest profession in the world. I just think those women should stop kidding themselves and own up to it.
And in what world do you live where a lot of people relating to an experience does not validate it? Many folks with shared experiences does exactly that, otherwise, it'd be a fluke. And in this case, it's not. Nice try though.
As for your final comments, it's funny how my observations can seem immature and rediculous to you, yet you seem to wordly and wise that you can judge me from a single post. Cute...in a....'not' kind of way that is.
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