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subtee -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 1:53:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Napkin folding, house organization, accounting, cookery, cleaning, formal table setting, drink mixing, time organization, butlering and maiding, etiquitte (thats fucked up somehow, ain't it?) party planning, catering, weather forcasting, changing tires and oil, toilet seat lifting and placement, lawn maintenance, COCKSUCKING, RIMMING, smiling, pleasant conversation, card playing, chess playing, research and library skill....... Endless, it is just fuckin' endless. HarriedMaster Hmmmm....2 out of "endless." Is that bad?

mnottertail -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 1:56:57 PM)
quote: I have learned how to throw a memorable dinner party. NOTE TO MKNOTTERTAIL: I can fold a napkin into a lotus, or a swan or anything else, for that matter. This also includes menu planning, wine selection, proper background music, floral arranging, etc. Probably the most valuable skill my hubby would say I have learned is my ability to completely override my gag reflex. I've never tried it, but I could probably swallow a sword. Here in a nutshell, is the story of my fuckin' life folks, nothing less than an orally competent and napkin folding fool.....which rates a 90 something on the rockwell hardness scale---- Come to find out that she already got a hubbie and can't spell my fuckin' name..leading me to believe that it was a mercy tease.......... Color me woeful. MKNOTTERTAIL Just like ugage, I cannot misspell my own name right.

girlygurl -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 1:57:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: girlygurl quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Napkin folding, house organization, accounting, cookery, cleaning, formal table setting, drink mixing, time organization, butlering and maiding, etiquitte (thats fucked up somehow, ain't it?) party planning, catering, weather forcasting, changing tires and oil, toilet seat lifting and placement, lawn maintenance, COCKSUCKING, RIMMING, smiling, pleasant conversation, card playing, chess playing, research and library skill....... Endless, it is just fuckin' endless. HarriedMaster LMFAO mnottertail I went through you're list of submissive skills, and just let me say, I suck! (however I do suck a mean cock [:D]) I'm not worthy to be a submissive let alone one you would even look at. hee hee not that I'm looking to serve another, nor are you looking at me... but I had to tell you I got a real kick out of your post. Me thinks the Stepford wives had a big impression on you. girly I agree, but for some reason, I just do not see Nicole Kidman (from the re-make) rimming, do you? Definitely cock sucking though.[;)] ummmm no, I think you're right on the rimming sexyred. hmmmm I wonder what it was like sucking Tom Cruises cock [:D]

DarkDaddyZ -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 2:00:28 PM)
I didn't list my kinky submissive skills requirements LOL! I wanted Mnottertail to do that first

AquaticSub -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 2:04:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: charlotte12 Besides things her specific Dom or Master require her to learn does anyone feel that there are any universal skills a submissive might find useful? Things I think might be useful to any submissive: 1. Basic self-defense skills 2. Good time management 3. Good communication 4. Being able to control one's temper 5. Basic cooking, cleaning and mending but I think those are important regardless of orientation 6. Basic social graces That's all that occur to me right now. Most of them really aren't specific to being submissive but I still consider them useful for a submissive to have.

mnottertail -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 2:06:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subtee quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Napkin folding, house organization, accounting, cookery, cleaning, formal table setting, drink mixing, time organization, butlering and maiding, etiquitte (thats fucked up somehow, ain't it?) party planning, catering, weather forcasting, changing tires and oil, toilet seat lifting and placement, lawn maintenance, COCKSUCKING, RIMMING, smiling, pleasant conversation, card playing, chess playing, research and library skill....... Endless, it is just fuckin' endless. HarriedMaster Hmmmm....2 out of "endless." Is that bad? Well seems like both ends are covered nicely then, just take some time to fill in the middle. Ron

gorgeous1 -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 2:12:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail I have learned how to throw a memorable dinner party. NOTE TO MKNOTTERTAIL: I can fold a napkin into a lotus, or a swan or anything else, for that matter. This also includes menu planning, wine selection, proper background music, floral arranging, etc. Probably the most valuable skill my hubby would say I have learned is my ability to completely override my gag reflex. I've never tried it, but I could probably swallow a sword. Here in a nutshell, is the story of my fuckin' life folks, nothing less than an orally competent and napkin folding fool.....which rates a 90 something on the rockwell hardness scale---- Come to find out that she already got a hubbie and can't spell my fuckin' name..leading me to believe that it was a mercy tease.......... Color me woeful. MNKOTTERTAIL You crack me up! Yes, so sorry for the spelling error, whoops! I am a crazy napkin folding fool! CRAZY! As for your list...I must say I REFUSE to do any type of vehicle maintenance. That is a hard limit. I don't pump gas either. I've had my latest car for close to a year and I have never once put gas in it. I have no idea how the tank is magically filled every week. Toilet seats are kept down at my house, and THOSE WITH SHORT BATS ARE ASKED TO STAND CLOSER TO HOME PLATE. Sorry to tease ya about the sword swallowing, but I am pretty darn proud of myself, considering I refused to "do that" at first and now it has become a specialty of the house. [;)] I have learned that immediately after is the best time to ask for things.

mnottertail -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 2:16:11 PM)
It is a fine music that doth soothe the savage beast. I know when I get me one of them dog licking peanut butter style blowjobs, I don't feel like killing anybody any more, for at least a couple hours. But I digress, that is the dichotomy presented....if you can air start a man in such glorious and historic fashion, what need of napkins is there in the world? Ron

Littlepita -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 2:16:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Napkin folding, house organization, accounting, cookery, cleaning, formal table setting, drink mixing, time organization, butlering and maiding, etiquitte (thats fucked up somehow, ain't it?) party planning, catering, weather forcasting, changing tires and oil, toilet seat lifting and placement, lawn maintenance, COCKSUCKING, RIMMING, smiling, pleasant conversation, card playing, chess playing, research and library skill....... Endless, it is just fuckin' endless. HarriedMaster Good grief, if I had to learn your endless list where would I find time to do the submitting and begging for more?

gorgeous1 -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 2:17:40 PM)
OK, there's a full report... ORIGINAL: mnottertail Napkin folding YES, house organization YES, accounting FOR WHAT?, cookery YES , cleaning YES, formal table setting YES, drink mixing EX-PROFESSIONAL, time organization YES, butlering and maiding YES, etiquitteYES (thats fucked up somehow, ain't it?)AND YES party planning YES, catering TO HIS EVERY NEED, weather forcasting A NON-ISSUE IN SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA, changing tires and oil HELL NO, toilet seat lifting and placement HELL NO, lawn maintenance JUST DID AN IRON SULFATE TREATMENT, COCKSUCKING YES, RIMMING NO, smiling YES, pleasant conversation YES, card playing PHASE TEN VIXEN, chess playing YES, research and library skill YES....... Endless, it is just fuckin' endless.

gorgeous1 -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 2:24:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail It is a fine music that doth soothe the savage beast. I know when I get me one of them dog licking peanut butter style blowjobs, I don't feel like killing anybody any more, for at least a couple hours. But I digress, that is the dichotomy presented....if you can air start a man in such glorious and historic fashion, what need of napkins is there in the world? Ron That is heartily agreed with here. They say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach and I just do not believe that. Any woman can have her man wrapped around her little finger with an artful sword swallow. It is one of the finest skills a girl can have, and the rewards are many. It is amazing how it does soothe the beast man, and put him in a quasi-hypnotic state of yesland...

MsBearlee -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 2:29:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Napkin folding, house organization, accounting, cookery, cleaning, formal table setting, drink mixing, time organization, butlering and maiding, etiquitte (thats fucked up somehow, ain't it?) party planning, catering, weather forcasting, changing tires and oil, toilet seat lifting and placement, lawn maintenance, COCKSUCKING, RIMMING, smiling, pleasant conversation, card playing, chess playing, research and library skill....... Endless, it is just fuckin' endless. Dang Ron, who knew you were so social...out dere on da farm! [:D]

FRSguy -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 3:34:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gorgeous1 OK, there's a full report... ORIGINAL: mnottertail Napkin folding YES, house organization YES, accounting FOR WHAT?, cookery YES , cleaning YES, formal table setting YES, drink mixing EX-PROFESSIONAL, time organization YES, butlering and maiding YES, etiquitteYES (thats fucked up somehow, ain't it?)AND YES party planning YES, catering TO HIS EVERY NEED, weather forcasting A NON-ISSUE IN SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA, changing tires and oil HELL NO, toilet seat lifting and placement HELL NO, lawn maintenance JUST DID AN IRON SULFATE TREATMENT, COCKSUCKING YES, RIMMING NO, smiling YES, pleasant conversation YES, card playing PHASE TEN VIXEN, chess playing YES, research and library skill YES....... Endless, it is just fuckin' endless. You do all that and no RIMMING!!! Isnt that like the perfect slice of apple pie with no ice cream on it? LOL

Stephann -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 3:47:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: charlotte12 quote: ORIGINAL: chellekitty i fully agree that they are learn-able traits, i too had to learn them...i would actually argue that with the exception of obedience, none of them are even leaning towards being submissive traits or skills...all people should have patience and confidence, and should be able to respectfully communicate and relax, and it is helpful for all people to be graceful...regardless of status, orientation, or gender... But i don't think i would find my Master so lovable if he had any grace in him to speak of. [;)] Frankly, if I'm involved with any sort of Grace, it'll be me in her. Preferably heavily bound and chained. slave, I'll answer this as if I haven't already given you a laundry list of things I want you able to do. Obviously different men expect different things; this is what I enjoy from a slave: - A musical skill - Some sort of literary ability - An interest in the world around her - Graceful movements (there's that damn Grace again; at least she has a fine ass) - Some sense of fashion and makeup. Not necessarily a top model, mind you. - Her own sense of wit and humor. Nobody likes a boring slave; memorizing one good joke a week will keep people in stitches for years to come. - The ability to drink whiskey - Some sort of marketable skill (employment is something good for a slave, methinks.) Stephan

gorgeous1 -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 3:59:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FRSguy quote: ORIGINAL: gorgeous1 OK, there's a full report... ORIGINAL: mnottertail Napkin folding YES, house organization YES, accounting FOR WHAT?, cookery YES , cleaning YES, formal table setting YES, drink mixing EX-PROFESSIONAL, time organization YES, butlering and maiding YES, etiquitteYES (thats fucked up somehow, ain't it?)AND YES party planning YES, catering TO HIS EVERY NEED, weather forcasting A NON-ISSUE IN SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA, changing tires and oil HELL NO, toilet seat lifting and placement HELL NO, lawn maintenance JUST DID AN IRON SULFATE TREATMENT, COCKSUCKING YES, RIMMING NO, smiling YES, pleasant conversation YES, card playing PHASE TEN VIXEN, chess playing YES, research and library skill YES....... Endless, it is just fuckin' endless. You do all that and no RIMMING!!! Isnt that like the perfect slice of apple pie with no ice cream on it? LOL Sometimes a perfect slice of Apple Pie can be totally ruined by ice cream. Besides, there's just no such thing as a perfect girl, now is there? [:)]

GingerDouce -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 4:35:48 PM)
I have learned much from reading this post. Thank you for starting it! I agree with domestic talents, they are essential. Knowing one's place, responsibilities - it would be tiresome for Master to have to constantly remind one what was expected. Sexually? I suppose and open mind, clear, respectful communication and willingness to follow my Master's lead once boundries have been agreed upon. Adaptability is a good arrow to have in one's quiver as well. I am with a Master from another country and it is an adventure. So many similiarities and few differences, but ones we both need to pay attention to and reach an accordance upon. Thank you again for posting this! Ginger Slave to Lord Priam.

ravennfyre -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 4:42:55 PM)
"toilet seat lifting and placement, lawn maintenance, COCKSUCKING, RIMMING, smiling,"... golly... methinks that a couple of those are quite important! ;)

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 5:06:52 PM)
http://www.collarchat.com/m_987422/mpage_1/key_skills/tm.htm#987482 What do you bring to the table? http://www.collarchat.com/m_268592/mpage_1/key_skills%252Csub/tm.htm#268592 service skills!!! http://www.collarchat.com/m_789802/mpage_1/key_skills/tm.htm#789805 the submissive brag thread Reposted: Good question, and there's no possible way I can include them all: Good working knowledge of pop culture and classical cinema, theater, music and literature. Excellent background in debate and contextualizing, excellent research skills. Quick learner, follows directions well Fastidious organizer, excellent relational memory and trivialist Offline friendships and contacts to the scene on many levels Young and in fairly good physical condition, no diseases Sexually educated and experienced Computer literate with moderate level of experience in average office programs and database management No children or sick relatives currently needing daily attending Independent means of transportation Excellent shopping and styling skills

juliaoceania -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 5:12:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross http://www.collarchat.com/m_987422/mpage_1/key_skills/tm.htm#987482 What do you bring to the table? http://www.collarchat.com/m_268592/mpage_1/key_skills%252Csub/tm.htm#268592 service skills!!! http://www.collarchat.com/m_789802/mpage_1/key_skills/tm.htm#789805 the submissive brag thread Reposted: Good question, and there's no possible way I can include them all: Good working knowledge of pop culture and classical cinema, theater, music and literature. Excellent background in debate and contextualizing, excellent research skills. Quick learner, follows directions well Fastidious organizer, excellent relational memory and trivialist Offline friendships and contacts to the scene on many levels Young and in fairly good physical condition, no diseases Sexually educated and experienced Computer literate with moderate level of experience in average office programs and database management No children or sick relatives currently needing daily attending Independent means of transportation Excellent shopping and styling skills I need to take my skill set to a resume writer to have it drawn up like this... who knew we needed a sub CRV[:D]

Prismfire -> RE: submissive skills (11/28/2007 6:01:05 PM)
Unlike the others here I think there are many skills a submissive can learn. However very few of them are physical. Effective communication, Self evaluation, Learning to recognise emotional ebbs and flows and how to handle them. I guess basically it boils down to know yourself, truthfully. I think this is a skill that is so lacking these days, so many submissives are so quick to blame others for things that they themselves are responsible for. If you learn how to really break down what you do and WHY! you do it then guidence from a Dominant becomes so much easier.

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