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BeingChewsie -> RE: submissive skills (12/6/2007 5:44:46 AM)
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I'd offer resillience as being a good skill to cultivate. One of the most important in my mind. I believe expressing genuine gratitude to be the next in importance. Both of those have served me well in R's household.
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ORIGINAL: charlotte12
This question came to me while reading a thread on the general board but i didn't want to hijack it so i thought i'd come here and ask.
I can think of any number of skills that a Dominant might find useful or even necessary to learn. The use of any toys he plans to use on his submissive, management methods etc. I was trying to think of skills a submissive might find usefull and am drawing a blank. Besides things her specific Dom or Master require her to learn does anyone feel that there are any universal skills a submissive might find useful? I am not refering to personality traits or training someone to be a slave before she even has a Master. But things like cooking or dancing (though i don't consider these to be specifically submissive skills, just things that might be useful when trying to serve another.)
I'm not taking myself too seriously here. I don't think one can be trained to be "a submissive or slave" rather one is trained to serve one's specific Top. However i do believe there are things a Dom can learn before in a D/s relationship that could enhance it so i was simply curious if people could think of "submissive skills."
Just a silly post for a Wednesday morning.
charlotte
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