BeingChewsie
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I'd offer resillience as being a good skill to cultivate. One of the most important in my mind. I believe expressing genuine gratitude to be the next in importance. Both of those have served me well in R's household. quote:
ORIGINAL: charlotte12 This question came to me while reading a thread on the general board but i didn't want to hijack it so i thought i'd come here and ask. I can think of any number of skills that a Dominant might find useful or even necessary to learn. The use of any toys he plans to use on his submissive, management methods etc. I was trying to think of skills a submissive might find usefull and am drawing a blank. Besides things her specific Dom or Master require her to learn does anyone feel that there are any universal skills a submissive might find useful? I am not refering to personality traits or training someone to be a slave before she even has a Master. But things like cooking or dancing (though i don't consider these to be specifically submissive skills, just things that might be useful when trying to serve another.) I'm not taking myself too seriously here. I don't think one can be trained to be "a submissive or slave" rather one is trained to serve one's specific Top. However i do believe there are things a Dom can learn before in a D/s relationship that could enhance it so i was simply curious if people could think of "submissive skills." Just a silly post for a Wednesday morning. charlotte
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"In fact, it is my contention that most women are accepting of way less than optimal circumstance constantly, and are lucky to be 'snagged' by the right man, if ever. But it is more by happy accident than by their design. " ~Ron and Hup
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