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RE: submissive skills - 11/30/2007 11:03:35 PM   
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Massage!!
A few classes at a massage school go a long way for ANY sub.

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RE: submissive skills - 12/5/2007 9:07:35 PM   
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Welding
Public speaking
Some sort of physical displine
Hot towel stright razor shaving
Cooking
Driving
Basic mechanical skills
painting


<sigh>  Once again I find myself saying "how is it that he and I are so perfect for each other, and still we prefer the same end of the whip?"   


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RE: submissive skills - 12/6/2007 5:44:46 AM   
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I'd offer resillience as being a good skill to cultivate. One of the most important in my mind. I believe expressing genuine gratitude to be the next in importance. Both of those have served me well in R's household.


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ORIGINAL: charlotte12

This question came to me while reading a thread on the general board but i didn't want to hijack it so i thought i'd come here and ask.

I can think of any number of skills that a Dominant might find useful or even necessary to learn. The use of any toys he plans to use on his submissive, management methods etc. I was trying to think of skills a submissive might find usefull and am drawing a blank. Besides things her specific Dom or Master require her to learn does anyone feel that there are any universal skills a submissive might find useful? I am not refering to personality traits or training someone to be a slave before she even has a Master. But things like cooking or dancing (though i don't consider these to be specifically submissive skills, just things that might be useful when trying to serve another.)

I'm not taking myself too seriously here. I don't think one can be trained to be "a submissive or slave" rather one is trained to serve one's specific Top. However i do believe there are things a Dom can learn before in a D/s relationship that could enhance it so i was simply curious if people could think of "submissive skills."

Just a silly post for a Wednesday morning.

charlotte


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RE: submissive skills - 12/6/2007 8:42:56 AM   
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RE: submissive skills - 12/6/2007 2:57:08 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MizSuz

quote:

ORIGINAL: topcat

Navigation
Welding
Public speaking
Some sort of physical displine
Hot towel stright razor shaving
Cooking
Driving
Basic mechanical skills
painting


<sigh>  Once again I find myself saying "how is it that he and I are so perfect for each other, and still we prefer the same end of the whip?"   



Y'all could take turns holding it?.....

Soloman


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RE: submissive skills - 12/7/2007 1:27:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Stephann

quote:

ORIGINAL: MizSuz

<sigh>  Once again I find myself saying "how is it that he and I are so perfect for each other, and still we prefer the same end of the whip?"   


Y'all could take turns holding it?.....

Soloman



Ummmm....we have. hahahahaha


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RE: submissive skills - 12/7/2007 2:41:43 PM   
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Just as I predicted....



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RE: submissive skills - 12/7/2007 9:58:14 PM   
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Good Communication and Listening skills.
Flexablity(take it as you will)
Love for and Commitment to the Power Exchange.
Humbleness.
Compassion.
Creativity.
The ability to be Honest with-out Fear.
A natural ability to Nuture.
High Asperation to enrich her Domina's life
at expense of her own desires.
Getting to know her Domina's needs before
her Domina is even aware.
A great sense of self and of Humor.
An eager willingless to Learn.
Patients and pure Adoration and Respect.
Being extremely Lovable !
 
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