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RE: Orgams question - 3/29/2008 8:03:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		Cali...I sort of wish I had read your post weeks earlier...but I want to say that I experienced this on my own almost exactly as you described!  The only difference was that the pauses weren't because I was getting close...once the phone rang, then I sort of got bored and turned my attention to my partner...then I stopped to get my favorite vibrator...then all of a sudden I was at the point where I usually feel like I HAVE to stop and I couldn't.  The feeling wasn't some amazing burst or explosion like I had imagined (or read in every single erotic story written) but it was SATISFYING and tears immediately started streaming and I was laughing and crying at the same time.

Kali...I wish this for you...maybe by now you've experienced it?

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RE: Orgams question - 3/29/2008 4:28:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		Awww, hon, I'm so glad for you!  YAY!!!!!!!!! 

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RE: Orgams question - 3/29/2008 7:11:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		OK - elderly thread and all, I just have to throw my two cents in.

I have orgasms, and the dom doesn't always know it. He's learning to recognize the signs, though - the forced expulsion of breath, the clenching of most of my abdominal muscles, that certain tone to my cries that all say this is quite different from the cries of pain or mere arousal. He smiles when he asks me, "How many?" and I say, "I lost count." These are some clit-generated, some vaginal, and some anal. My friend (the only one I talk to about BDSM) joked that a stadium counter (those gadgets that are used to count people passing by - click, click, click) might be necessary to get a correct count.

pip

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RE: Orgams question - 3/29/2008 7:16:56 PM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		Here is the counter you need.

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RE: Orgams question - 3/29/2008 7:26:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Here is the counter you need.

HelpfulCali


Yep - that's the one. Thank you, oh helpful one.

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RE: Orgams question - 3/29/2008 7:34:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		LMAO.....i just have to tell  You all how silly i can be..... (trying not to use the 'Stupid' word as it gets me into trouble here).......
i'm reading another thread on here tonight and i see this topic scroll by...So i think to myself, "Damn...Finally someone posted on a topic i need to know about!!!" i was really excited until i realized that  it was in fact me who had started this thread...ah well.........the search for the O continues (big, small, it don't matter).
patiently,
Kali


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RE: Orgams question - 3/29/2008 7:49:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		the problem is that there is NOTHING that someone else can do to make you cum if you aren't open to it. also, if you don't know how to make yourself cum, chances are no one else will either. don't worry- you wont miss it when it happens. Unfortunatly, some 30% of women have never nor will they ever, experience the big "O". I hope you aren't one of them. Take some time, when you aren't expecting anyone home to bother you, crank up music you love or some hot porn and spend some time exploring your body. Slippery lube... does it feel good to you? find out what does and doesn't feel good to you. For me, the smell of a sweaty guy sends me off the edge!

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RE: Orgams question - 3/29/2008 8:36:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		Kali - I almost always take a long time to orgasm.  I require a lot of clitoral stimulation, and having something inserted in my vagina, whether flesh or electronic, makes it harder or impossible.  I've changed over the years (decades) though.  In the past, I could only cum by my own hand.  Later, my boyfriends could get me off by oral - very lightly, and it took an hour.  Now, I need rough stim on my clit, either hand or vibe - I find a tongue is too soft now.  I even like having my clit paddled, or rubbed with the bristles of a hairbrush.  I've been married for 22 yrs, and my husband (who is wonderfully persistent) is getting much better at using his hand.  I need to have a really good fantasy in my head to get off - even if we're in the middle of a scene.  I've got to get a really good mental picture of exactly what I want done - this is more critical than actually having it done.  I like describing it to my hubby also, although I've gotten to the point where I can describe something I know he would enjoy while focussing on something different for myself.

I had a lot of trouble when our son was young - he was quite difficult and I was always tired or aggravated.  Now he's away at college & I can relax more.  Before that - I'm not sure.  I think I thought it was supposed to be automatic - some guy shoves a dick up your twat and you magically explode.

I used to not really feel anything from intercourse.  Now it's enjoyable, even if that's not what gets me off.  I absolutely have never had a vaginal orgasm, I can't even imagine what it feels like.  But in the past few yrs, once I start cumming, if my hubby starts fucking me, I can continue.  I've had some orgasms last for 20 minutes. 

What's it feel like to me?  I feel a build-up of heat, starting at my crotch and moving up my torso, like a wave.  The nerve endings in my clitoris are jumping.  There's a point where I have to move my fingers off to the side, because continuing directly on the clitoris becomes painful.  It can get tricky here - I used to get "stuck" at this point and not be able to cum.  The actual orgasm feels like something is "finishing," there's a release of tension.  Often that means lots of bouncing and spasming - it feels like my toes are going to start curling all the way up my legs.  Sometimes it feels like I'm not "done" and if I keep up the stim for another 20 min, I can have another peak.

I'm finding that as I get older & more relaxed (and we have more time & privacy for a good spanking), it is much easier & faster for me to cum.

Good luck!

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RE: Orgams question - 3/29/2008 9:56:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		If a guy knows how to please a Woman and does it right you'll surely know. It's like lightning or electricity going thru you but it doesn't hurt. Instead you feel a release of all pressures and stress. Sometimes like in little waves or jolts. After you feel tinglely, relaxed, and warm all over. (I feel the same when I beat the crap out of a guy who really deserves it.)

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RE: Orgams question - 3/30/2008 1:28:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		I find it harder to orgasm alone than when I'm with someone and I sometimes need a little picture or words in my head to orgasm but they come thick and fast for me and sometimes leave me weak and trembling or i can faint.

I think orgasms are like snowflakes no 2 are the same

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