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Delvin -> RE: Spotting a fake... (8/31/2005 4:17:26 PM)
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Where to begin here...
Years ago, before the internet, finding people who met your needs and desires was a difficult task (not impossible), and most people worked together to reach the desired needs of both or more in the relationship. The Old Guard is a prime example of what has been ripped off of them to give today’s M/s "fad" new terms and labels.
Let’s talk about "fads". We see it more now then ever before and always growing into this beast, that... "I'm gay"..."I'm bi"... this idea that is cool to be a certain way and announcing it to anyone who would listen. Let’s be real blunt here for a few moments. Many... many ... many people have been brutally beaten, jailed, asked to leave their community, harassed, dismissed from their jobs, disowned from families and killed for being gay, bi. It’s not something "cool" to be, it simply IS the reality of the person and their way and beliefs. This trickles down into this lifestyle, though W/we are still so completely taboo you can't just walk out and say, "I love to torture my woman at night"... or any other clever tag. This, like anything else "rebel" is seen as a nifty fad for some of people, something "to do" while your with your circle of friends. Fads have a tendency to kill like rumors.
Many people fight daily to attempt to get lawmakers to see the rights of ALL people on this planet. This fight will continue for many years sad to say.
The Outing Police.
We have all seen them, the desire or need to be many things, special, important, "part of the gang", again what ever tag you want to use. To out someone, simply to call their bluff is no better then outing someone who is trying to keep their private life secret and then destroying them because you felt the need to out them. This is a VERY fine line between common sense and responsibility to others and simply sticking your nose into someone else’s business. A cruel and potentially dangerous, abusive Master... should he be outed ?...How about a slave who uses her body to prey on less experienced people to get what she wants, money, items, bills paid, then leaves... Out him/her ?....
Sad times we live in now with less and less respect for one another on a general basis of simply calling someone you don't know Sir or Ma'am... or perhaps keeping the door open for someone coming in behind you... many examples... sad times.
I guess the main reason for this rant is W/we as a whole need to be very careful how we proceed with "spotting a fake". Because I let me slave do certain things that may not fall in line with the "Masters Handbook", does that mean I too am a fake ?... A personal responsibility for each others safety and well-being is always good, but that too can be carried too far. We may mean well, but the end result is pain and suffering to someone else. Be careful out there, be smart, and be human.
D
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