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Stephann -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 8:44:59 AM)
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Clearly, you're looking for a woman to 'play' with you and your husband.
The problem isn't you, exactly, but rather you're pursuing a unicorn (the single hot bisexual female.) For every one of these rare creatures, you've got nine other couples hounding them as well.
So, a quick look at your profile has lovely photos of you... but not the man you're going to expect her to be with?
The entire text of your profile reads 'sex ad.' It gives the bare bones "couple seeking hawt chick." It's filled with your venting against the world and sundry with lots of colorful words (literally in blue and magenta) and 'smilies' that swing hammers and flip the double bird. The profile's so angry and devoid of actual information on who you are, in fact, that my first thought is "This is probably a guy using his wife' photos, looking to hook up with chicks on the side." Usually, women's profiles are friendly and talk about who they are as people, what the like, what makes them happy. It also helps to clearly explain what, exactly, the type of relationship the female submissive might expect to engage in (i.e. for a one night stand, or an occasional play partner, or a live in full time slave.) It's usually men posing as women who say "I'm a hawt chick with great tits."
I can only assume that you're persona is exactly the same way in chat, as it is in your profile. Put yourself in the submissive's shoes; if some woman (or possibly a man posing as a woman) came on to you, the way you come on to these girls, why on earth would you be interested? Attractive women don't lack from any opportunities for sex, regardless of what the alt.com advertisements tell you.
Stephan
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