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RCdc -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 9:12:14 AM)

And I am beyond tired of people refering to submissive people as 'subbies' (we aren't soft rolls with fillings), you girl(I am over the age of 21), or little one (my height rocks).  What is there to be done? - Not much.
When will people learn that disappearing or no response is a response?
 
the.dark.




HottLicks -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 9:15:33 AM)

To play along here... check out the pic's on profile... okay... I am going blind as a bat, but how do you get really huge nipples on some pic's and smaller ones with that amount of difference on one domme?  I just don't get it....

Call me lost or help me understand... I care not... I just wanna know how to do that or to know the truth of how blind I must be?




mnottertail -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 9:18:56 AM)

LOL, cuntish behaviour rather disgusts me in the first place, although I have looked at that profile many times, because I like that black dress and could see my girl wearing something like that. but yeah, very little social 'eptness'. I assume they run when she lays the bitch out for perusal.

Ron




HottLicks -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 9:21:03 AM)

That was a nice dress... lol




Stephann -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 9:22:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: HottLicks

To play along here... check out the pic's on profile... okay... I am going blind as a bat, but how do you get really huge nipples on some pic's and smaller ones with that amount of difference on one domme?  I just don't get it....

Call me lost or help me understand... I care not... I just wanna know how to do that or to know the truth of how blind I must be?


I was more pondering why she's using 10 year old photos....

Sherlock Stephan




HottLicks -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 9:30:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Stephann

quote:

ORIGINAL: HottLicks

To play along here... check out the pic's on profile... okay... I am going blind as a bat, but how do you get really huge nipples on some pic's and smaller ones with that amount of difference on one domme?  I just don't get it....

Call me lost or help me understand... I care not... I just wanna know how to do that or to know the truth of how blind I must be?


I was more pondering why she's using 10 year old photos....

Sherlock Stephan


 
Being a woman of age here... well... I guess memory lane is easier on the eye than what we get later on???  But dang I wouldn't go around showing what I had against what they will get if the changes were that great!  But I still wanna know how I can change my nipples through the ages... cause... well... just cause...




mnottertail -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 9:32:44 AM)

do nipples areolas suffer middle aged spread as bellies and behinds often do?

Dr. Kildare




AquaticSub -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 9:34:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Feminita

Nothing is implied after "one chat"...where does that stupidity come from? you've taken this inquiry way off track with your absurd jumping  to erronous conclusions...what a dope!


I dunno but you certainly could have handled it better. Maybe this is why they don't want to meet?




breatheasone -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 9:34:44 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

do nipples areolas suffer middle aged spread as bellies and behinds often do?

Dr. Kildare

I'll let you know when I get there...[:D].




HottLicks -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 9:35:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

do nipples areolas suffer middle aged spread as bellies and behinds often do?

Dr. Kildare


Mine don't... that's why I'm askin!




everhope -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 9:36:59 AM)

oh yeah...hot dress!

the way she(?) is responding to other posters is leaving me cold.
what a waste...can you imagine looking like that and having a sweet as honey personality.
well if that was true she would not be here complaining about anybody disappearing.
yep, Ron cuntish behavior is never attractive and there is no plastic surgery that can improve behavior.

everhope 




MrRodgers -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 9:41:16 AM)

Yes they can but it takes time. Often one must find a way to hold their attention during early correspondence and chat. Once you have it...a normal give and take in conversation establishes trust. This forms the basis for gradually seeking a real committment to meet. It isn't easy and patience is required.

Many men ('doms') here have much the same problem with subfems but it takes attention...time and then work in a real committiment to meet without promising or requiring anything beyond that.




ghitaPVH -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 9:42:17 AM)

hottlicks...my areolas change size depending on if Im cold or not....just like nipples get hard and stuff, my whole areola does, it like shrivels and pulls in towards hte nipple and overall get smaller looking....shrugs..maybe Im just weird...but from a distance it looks like my areolas loose about a total inch in diameter when they are cold...

not nessesarily defending the chick...just a thought about nipple size....




HottLicks -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 9:48:01 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH

hottlicks...my areolas change size depending on if Im cold or not....just like nipples get hard and stuff, my whole areola does, it like shrivels and pulls in towards hte nipple and overall get smaller looking....shrugs..maybe Im just weird...but from a distance it looks like my areolas loose about a total inch in diameter when they are cold...

not nessesarily defending the chick...just a thought about nipple size....


Thanks! lol... I guess I am just jealous then... {goes off thinking of freezers and heat lamps}




LadyChef -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 9:54:07 AM)

Not everyone accepts No as an answer. Some people are in such denial, they reject rejection.




txnights05 -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 10:08:16 AM)

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Not everyone accepts No as an answer. Some people are in such denial, they reject rejection.


No kidding... i spent an hour chatting with a gentleman last night. I concluded that we were not a good match for several reasons. I told him so and was given "let's keep the door open for now". I try very hard not to offend or hurt someone else's feelings but as you say, some don't take a no very easily.




toservez -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 11:44:01 AM)


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ORIGINAL: txnights05

quote:

Not everyone accepts No as an answer. Some people are in such denial, they reject rejection.


No kidding... i spent an hour chatting with a gentleman last night. I concluded that we were not a good match for several reasons. I told him so and was given "let's keep the door open for now". I try very hard not to offend or hurt someone else's feelings but as you say, some don't take a no very easily.



That is especially true with insecure people online. There are no outward clues that their brain can take in to know when they have gone to the point of being sure and cross over to it cannot be it just is or me it must be the fault of the other that many get in real life so not to expose their faults and frailties so easily.

Cyber lets a lot of people wallow in their self acclaimed greatness without that pesky there is another(s) that are also human beings with ideas and preferences.




Feminita -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 12:17:12 PM)

Answer to nipple question: enhanced boobs ! Note cup change from B to C+

Thanks to all for staring, I mean, noticing. And "yes" that is my "get me laid for sure dress"




OldBastardly1 -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 12:37:13 PM)

I will try to say this in such a way that I don't feel the wrath of Mod 11 again.

I read the profile & saw the pics. I saw an attractive woman in the pics and a rather unattractive person in the text. It is a shame to waste beauty on a mean/nasty core ( I am speaking of the personality ). I have had conversations with people that I thought would be interesting, only to find that the more I found out about them, the less interested I was.

Example time....if I was fishing for trophy bass, but was using calf liver for bait, I seriously doubt that I would catch a trophy bass. Should I insult the bass because it didn't want to eat icky calf liver?

I don't mean this as an insult [sm=flying.gif], just offering some constructive input.




Feminita -> RE: Can subbies make a commitment? (12/6/2007 12:45:01 PM)

OB- Is it my "profile" or "journal" you find objectionable?

FYI- I get 9:1 fan mail on it ...usually like "rolled on the floor laughing" (correct interpretation)




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