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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 12:40:52 PM   
angelikaJ


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Status: offline 		ah..when I was 8 I found books ABOUT victorian sexual erotica and sexual practices that my dad had left behind.
when I was 13 he gave me a copy of Fanny Hill to read...

when I was 15 or so I would engage in hide and seek with my brother's stash of penthouse etc...feeling perfectly justified since he used to raid my Seventeen magazines when he was much younger (along with my hand lotion, hair conditioner etc...)
no boundary issues in my family....

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 12:55:55 PM   
astarri


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Status: offline 		haha angelikaJ

I was not one of those people that wondered if my parents "did it" because i saw/heard enough. Like the time i had my friends over and as i turned say my dads ass bouncing up and down in the picture window of their bedroom. It never really freaked me out knowing though. I found porn mags too ...stories ... now looking back im not sure if they were more liberal with what they could write back in the 80's or if my mom had some kinky fantasies cause they were definitely not appropriate for me to read!! They did stick with me though all these years later.

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 12:57:33 PM   
DarkDaddyZ


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Status: offline 		I grew up in the 70s and 80s.  When I was 12, I discovered their "massager" the Ostersizer (I believe that's what it's called).  When I started masturbating at 13 I used to go into their closet and use it. It has this cup thinging attachment and well you get the picture.  One day I noticed they moved it to another place which I figured out that they knew I was using it.  We never discussed it.  I found it and kept using it while looking that pictures in my father's Hustler and Players magazine.

One time, as I was pleasuring myself the switch broke.  and left a hole where the electrical board was.  My hands were sweating so I used that to create a current and kept going.  And I continued getting off this way until one day I could no longer find it.  That was the day I discovered my hand works too.

Z-

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 1:04:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkDaddyZ

I grew up in the 70s and 80s. When I was 12, I discovered their "massager" the Ostersizer (I believe that's what it's called). When I started masturbating at 13 I used to go into their closet and use it. It has this cup thinging attachment and well you get the picture. One day I noticed they moved it to another place which I figured out that they knew I was using it. We never discussed it. I found it and kept using it while looking that pictures in my father's Hustler and Players magazine.

One time, as I was pleasuring myself the switch broke. and left a hole where the electrical board was. My hands were sweating so I used that to create a current and kept going. And I continued getting off this way until one day I could no longer find it. That was the day I discovered my hand works too.

Z-



Holy crap, Z! I think my parents had the same "massager"! It had several attachments, the cup thingee you describe and one that had a nub and a ring a ring set slightly lower than the nub, and a wavy thing. I remember the massager was a 70's yellow-gold color. Have to confess I tried that out once, then decided to order a massager from one of those cheap silly catalogs that sell all kinds of useless things like personalized golf tees and such. I told my mom I had ordered some Christmas presents, so no peeking!

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 1:08:46 PM   
DarkDaddyZ


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ORIGINAL: gorgeous1


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkDaddyZ

I grew up in the 70s and 80s. When I was 12, I discovered their "massager" the Ostersizer (I believe that's what it's called). When I started masturbating at 13 I used to go into their closet and use it. It has this cup thinging attachment and well you get the picture. One day I noticed they moved it to another place which I figured out that they knew I was using it. We never discussed it. I found it and kept using it while looking that pictures in my father's Hustler and Players magazine.

One time, as I was pleasuring myself the switch broke. and left a hole where the electrical board was. My hands were sweating so I used that to create a current and kept going. And I continued getting off this way until one day I could no longer find it. That was the day I discovered my hand works too.

Z-



Holy crap, Z! I think my parents had the same "massager"! It had several attachments, the cup thingee you describe and one that had a nub and a ring a ring set slightly lower than the nub, and a wavy thing. I remember the massager was a 70's yellow-gold color. Have to confess I tried that out once, then decided to order a massager from one of those cheap silly catalogs that sell all kinds of useless things like personalized golf tees and such. I told my mom I had ordered some Christmas presents, so no peeking!


Yep that's the one!  Who would have though a blender maker can make something that felt so good!


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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 1:10:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		My parents had the same one!   And yeah, I used it.  Didnt care for though because the cup attachment didnt really stimulate enough for me.  I actually go onto ebay every now and then and look through the vintage vibes some of them are real hoot.  Still looking for those ancient dildos on the Arch. sites but the only ones I have found were ones carved from stone and they were way expensive. 

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 1:18:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		Too funny about the Osterizer. I was naughty enough to know what to do with it, but too innocent to figure out what the heck the cup attachment was for!

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 1:18:32 PM   
tearfulsurrender


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Status: offline 		Humm, this is a great thread.  And here i thought i was the only one who had freaks for parents.  Lets see.. i was a nosey little bitch when i was a kid so i found all kinda not so cool stuff.  i found amature porn starring my parents.. somehow that is worse than walking in on them.  i found the normal stuff.. moms stash of vibes, dildos, lube etc. They toyed with the bedroom bondage i think cuz once i found a set of clover clamps.. i had no idea what they were at the time of course and i asked mom.  She gave me this long speech about not going into her room..it didnt work too well because not too long after that i found swinger mags and letters of corrispondance from other swingers.  Back then i thought my parents were just ick.. now.. i think wow, how lucky i am to have such kinky parents.  It sure makes it easier when topics of conversation include bruises, permenant collars and toys that they have happened to find.

OH and i almost forgot the best part.. once when i was about 14ish i was walking to the bathroom and heard my mom begging for it up the arse.  Go mom!

~~tearful

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 1:20:57 PM   
FRSguy


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ORIGINAL: tearfulsurrender

Humm, this is a great thread.  And here i thought i was the only one who had freaks for parents.  Lets see.. i was a nosey little bitch when i was a kid so i found all kinda not so cool stuff.  i found amature porn starring my parents.. somehow that is worse than walking in on them.  i found the normal stuff.. moms stash of vibes, dildos, lube etc. They toyed with the bedroom bondage i think cuz once i found a set of clover clamps.. i had no idea what they were at the time of course and i asked mom.  She gave me this long speech about not going into her room..it didnt work too well because not too long after that i found swinger mags and letters of corrispondance from other swingers.  Back then i thought my parents were just ick.. now.. i think wow, how lucky i am to have such kinky parents.  It sure makes it easier when topics of conversation include bruises, permenant collars and toys that they have happened to find.

OH and i almost forgot the best part.. once when i was about 14ish i was walking to the bathroom and heard my mom begging for it up the arse.  Go mom!

~~tearful



What a wonderful outlook. Did you ever confront them about it later on?

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 1:22:05 PM   
astarri


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Status: offline 		haha had it too .... personal massagers. What a great invention!!

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 1:33:39 PM   
DarkDaddyZ


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ORIGINAL: tearfulsurrender

Humm, this is a great thread.  And here i thought i was the only one who had freaks for parents.  Lets see.. i was a nosey little bitch when i was a kid so i found all kinda not so cool stuff.  i found amature porn starring my parents.. somehow that is worse than walking in on them.  i found the normal stuff.. moms stash of vibes, dildos, lube etc. They toyed with the bedroom bondage i think cuz once i found a set of clover clamps.. i had no idea what they were at the time of course and i asked mom.  She gave me this long speech about not going into her room..it didnt work too well because not too long after that i found swinger mags and letters of corrispondance from other swingers.  Back then i thought my parents were just ick.. now.. i think wow, how lucky i am to have such kinky parents.  It sure makes it easier when topics of conversation include bruises, permenant collars and toys that they have happened to find.

OH and i almost forgot the best part.. once when i was about 14ish i was walking to the bathroom and heard my mom begging for it up the arse.  Go mom!

~~tearful

I used to get off sexually by telling who ever I was having sex with at the time how I can't wait to tell their mother and father what a good slut they are and see if she got it from them

Thanks for the post

Z-

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 1:37:29 PM   
gorgeous1


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Status: offline 		I would say that in relation to what some others discovered in their parent's stash, what I found was pretty non-eyebrow-raising.

HOWEVER...my introduction to kink and porn was at a friend's house down the street. Her parents both worked, and her older sister took off all the time, so we were two 10 year olds with no supervision. Her parents had a VCR in their bedroom, and we watched HOURS of porn and pored over the Playboys, Hustler, Penthouse, Playgirl, and all the other obscure mags featuring big jugs or wet this-or-thats. I have to confess that viewing porn is what kept me a virgin for so long...I thought every man on the street had a third leg and it scared the crap out of me!

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 2:50:20 PM   
Greylynn


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Status: offline 		I was given a bag of books from one of my mom's friends when I was in middle school. It included some very interesting books giving uses for cucumbers, candles and....well....let's just say I figured out why she really loved her dog

I never told mom and I never returned the books.

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 3:09:26 PM   
Honsoku


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Status: offline 		Hmm, well my house had an interesting (but not unusual) dynamic with my mother being really uptight about porn (and sex in general) and my dad practically encouraging it. Let's just say that my parents were frequently sloppy about locking their bedroom door, and I was a particularly curious child. I don't know when my first exposure was, but it was sometime between six and ten. So, it wasn't unusual for me to sneak a tape or two out of their collection when I was left unsupervised. Though since those weren't available on a regular basis, I learned to identify the hallmarks of catalogs and mailers and intercept them (the next best thing). We also had skin-a-max; want to guess how long it took me to figure out how to program a VCR?

As for kinky, there wasn't a whole lot. The most I found was one tape with light d/s overtones and one outright femdom video. I am fairly sure I only scratched the surface, as the overtones didn't really interest me at the time, so I wasn't seeking them out. I was more focused on the aesthetics of what I was seeing. This also may play a factor on how I got here so young, as the "BOOBIES!" factor wore off a long time ago (not that I still don't appreciate a nice pair), so I started to look for something more.

Honsoku

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 3:39:09 PM   
jesiul


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Status: offline 		Unfortunately, I was more than aware that my parents had sex. When I was 14 I couldn’t figure out why my parents where sitting out in the car after retuning home. Thinking that they may have been arguing I thought if I went out there it may stop them. As I walked up to the steamed up window I saw my father with his head against the seat top and my mother bobbing up and down in his lap.

A few years later I woke up about 3am needing to use the bathroom…yep walked in on my parents. Dad was stuffing my over the sink in the ass. We never spoke of it. But during that same year I also found my parents goody box…and it wasn’t until years later I even had a clue what most of it was.

But it wasn’t until I was in my 30’s that I found out just how kinky my parents are…While visiting for Christmas I was helping my dad get things out of the shed to decorate and found the accessory box, saw the blush on my fathers face closed the lid and didn’t say a word.

A few days later I was going through my parent’s movie collection and found a small stash of porn, thinking the one that had the label torn off must have been the good one I put it into the VCR. OMG…it was my MOM, in my shock I did what all sisters would do, called my younger brother to come over… turned the VCR back on covered my eyes and asked; “Is that DAD???” My brother is still trying to get over it!!

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 3:49:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		My parents were just the opposite.  They put the PURE in Puritan.

A few years ago dad got the internet.  After a few weeks, he decided he would looking to see if "it" was really out there like people said it was.   He was so wound up about IT being out there and how he expected something but not THAT.  He went on about it for days.  My ex and I were thinking, what did he see???   2 guys and a goat?

A month or so later, he was concerned that my nephew might be surfing for porn and wanted me to pull up where he had been on dad's computer.   I only found ONE nude picture, it was a good looking blonde twirling a loli pop on her clit.  I said, "There you go dad, that's what he's been pulling up."

He sheepishly said, "No, that what I pulled up."



This is IT?????  This is what you were going on about for days?   Here let let show you 2 girls 1 cup....ummmm....better not.

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 4:46:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		My parents used to take afternoon naps. I guess we weren't supposed to hear the bedroom door lock, or 15 minutes later my dad sneezing and coming out to use the bathroom.

I found my mom's vibe that plugged in and looked like an index finger and thumb when I was about 12. I sure did love that toy! Dad's Penthouse taught me all I needed to know about how random people could end up having sex.

My parents were actually very open about sex. I was the prude. Now, I have a ton of kinky items and they aren't hidden. Lord knows what my UM will say about me someday. Oh wait, I already did get the lecture that our walls aren't that thick!

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 7:51:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		My mom is LOUD during sex... And I slept in the room right under the bed. >.< Not fun. I even tried to ask her to kinda, y'know, keep it down a little. Nope, no luck *shudder*

And I found her "toys" when I was about 12 or 13... And then had to "re-discover" them with my two best friends a few years later...

And of course, the worst of it was when she found out I'm interested in BDSM, she keeps trying to talk to me about it...  It's great that she's accepted her kinky side, but I don't wanna know about it.

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 7:52:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		I will never understand why so many people are upset/grossed out at the fact that the people who gave them life, loved them, made them into who they are today, sacrificed so much for them to try and have a better life would want to enjoy intimacy and sexual expression with others. 

I want nothing but love, joy and fulfillment for my mother in ALL ways.  She deserves it. 

I suppose if your parents were really bad people who did a horrible job, you'd think they deserve to be punished by not having an active and healthy sex life- otherwise, I think kids (even adult kisa) need to stop acting like selfish clueless morons and try really being sexually liberated and embrace the "consensual adults having fun is good" idea.

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RE: Parent's Stash - 12/12/2007 8:02:01 PM   
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I will never understand why so many people are upset/grossed out at the fact that the people who gave them life, loved them, made them into who they are today, sacrificed so much for them to try and have a better life would want to enjoy intimacy and sexual expression with others. 

I want nothing but love, joy and fulfillment for my mother in ALL ways.  She deserves it. 

I suppose if your parents were really bad people who did a horrible job, you'd think they deserve to be punished by not having an active and healthy sex life- otherwise, I think kids (even adult kisa) need to stop acting like selfish clueless morons and try really being sexually liberated and embrace the "consensual adults having fun is good" idea.


I have absolutely no problem with my mom having a sex/love life. I wouldn't even mind so much hearing the general moaning and what not. But, I really don't want to know exactly where his penis is, or how he's touching her when I in the basement and she's on the top floor. There's enjoying sex, and then there's faking it/making it seem better than it is.

Oh, and when you're mother offers you her boyfriend for your "first time" (yes, that did happen to me), there are issues. Can you say "Ewww"?

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