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RE: Caning - 10/24/2005 7:07:44 PM

Aquariansub

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I have often wondered as I find the marks a great bonus if the marks aren't as evident is a little enjoyment in the process lost?

In reply to Hoople.....
I still get a little anxious with the cane..the anticipation though is wonderful

this is what these threads are all about...sharing experiences and finding out more

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RE: Caning - 10/25/2005 7:40:38 AM

plantlady64

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ORIGINAL: Aquariansub

I recently heard from someone who loved canning that she now had a "hard arse" and the cane no longer would leave marks. Has anyone else experienced this?

Hello There,
I had experienced something called leather butt. What happenes is you get this grey or purple parlor to all your butt skin. I mentioned it to my Master as like your friend I played pretty hard the next time and I did not bruise. He immediately suspended me from butt impact play in any form until my skins complexion returned to normal. It took a long no spanking month before it healed.
I'd tell your friend that they (unfortunatley) should take a break and let their butt fully heal before they play again.
If it's leather butt and he/she does not take a break it can lead to nerve damage.

I'd also like to say the first time I was spanked hard enough to bruise I was briused from lower back to butt, and hip to hip. It lasted 14 days before it went away.
Since then I need to be hit harder to bruise and my bruises are indeed much less severe.
My Sister who's also a sub said that it's due to all the little veins around the surface retracting deeper under the skin. I don't know if that's possible, but it very well may be true also.
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sub suzanne

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RE: Caning - 10/25/2005 8:00:13 AM

cravinspankin

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ORIGINAL: Aquariansub

The biggest thing for me afterwards was that I love the marking and the bruises....however why would someone enjoy being left with bruises?

As a newcomer to the lifestyle i've wondered this myself. I see the bruises and smile, though heading into this lifestyle i had seen pictures of subs bruised after a caning in particular, and it scared the daylights out of me. I had insisted that I didnt' want to be left black and blue after playing.
Socially.. we're taught not to allow people to do these things to us.
Makes me wonder the same question... why do we enjoy being left with bruises. But then again, i find myself wondering why i enjoy being beaten in any way. I can't help that i do, and would never tolerate it in an angry, violent situation. But need to feel the pain sometimes...
well, i'm just rambling.. guess i'm still trying to get my head wrapped around some of the emotions and feelings that come with this lifestyle.

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RE: Caning - 10/25/2005 11:54:43 AM

ownedjulia

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i'm right there with you on that.

Sometimes there is a need for a release that only a damn good thrashing can achieve.

I've always enjoyed that sort of pain so taking hte cane was never really a problem, if your having problems with it i'dsuggest a warm up first - start with some hand spanking, get the target area warm, blood flowing, etc it does make it easier and over time you will build up your pain levels.

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RE: Caning - 10/26/2005 12:47:21 AM

Aquariansub

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Thanks again for you words of wisdom and experience plantlady

I too have noticed the more canning the less bruising I get...

cravinspakin....those emotions and getting your head around things get easier the further into your journey you go ....especially with play like cannings. Like Julia said the warmups certainly help