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anal training - 12/13/2007 12:51:56 PM   
curious0082


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Status: offline 		i am an anal virgin, and was wondering if i should start to train myself for ass play, or does a Master normally like to take the virginity themselves?
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RE: anal training - 12/13/2007 12:56:39 PM   
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RE: anal training - 12/13/2007 12:58:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have always preferred preparing and training a girl for any type of use myself.

If anything, he will enjoy directing you in your self-training...a lot of fun in watching a girl work herself and get ready!

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RE: anal training - 12/13/2007 1:00:50 PM   
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I have always preferred preparing and training a girl for any type of use myself.

If anything, he will enjoy directing you in your self-training...a lot of fun in watching a girl work herself and get ready!


One word Yep

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RE: anal training - 12/13/2007 1:57:19 PM   
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One word Yep


Those were three!

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RE: anal training - 12/13/2007 2:14:24 PM   
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RE: anal training - 12/13/2007 3:01:34 PM   
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i am an anal virgin, and was wondering if i should start to train myself for ass play, or does a Master normally like to take the virginity themselves?


I have to tell you that I have trained two submissives for anal play and there is nothing quite like it.  Sure...it is great to play with someone who is anally experienced and enjoys anal play from the first time together but there is a whole other aspect to training a submissive into it...watching her those first times as you begin to open her up to it...so to speak.    Then, as she gains experience and loses some of that fear and begins to be more receptive...when she allows herself to experience those sensations other than pain...ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

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RE: anal training - 12/13/2007 3:26:33 PM   
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...watching her those first times as you begin to open her up to it...so to speak.    Then, as she gains experience and loses some of that fear and begins to be more receptive...when she allows herself to experience those sensations other than pain...ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.


Oh stop it!! I have to walk through an office full of people in a few while wearing dress slacks...I do not want to be parading Circus Barnum down that hallway!

And how true...you never quite recapture that darling facial expression on a girl when first training her....

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RE: anal training - 12/13/2007 8:44:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		Let the master do it - though from your perspective you may want to try a plug - depending upon the master they may not be as gentle the first time as you wish. Have plenty of lube available.

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RE: anal training - 12/13/2007 9:34:58 PM   
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Let the master do it - though from your perspective you may want to try a plug - depending upon the master they may not be as gentle the first time as you wish. Have plenty of lube available.


Oh jeeze!  I sure hope he will be gentle with the OP!  But yes, lots and lots O' lube!!   I can't imagine someone taking anothers virgin ass and not being gentle. 

girly

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RE: anal training - 12/13/2007 10:28:18 PM   
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I was surprised by the answers thus far that were 100% for letting the Master do it.

I will be the long decenter, there is nothing wrong with you beginning to get your rim ready for some serious use ahead of tome . There are some that do not bother with the ass as a form of use, Myself I routinely do, but many that do not, so be ready either way.

CP

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RE: anal training - 12/14/2007 12:13:38 AM   
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One word Yep


Those were three!


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RE: anal training - 12/14/2007 12:19:03 AM   
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[/quote]

I have to tell you that I have trained two submissives for anal play and there is nothing quite like it.  Sure...it is great to play with someone who is anally experienced and enjoys anal play from the first time together but there is a whole other aspect to training a submissive into it...watching her those first times as you begin to open her up to it...so to speak.    Then, as she gains experience and loses some of that fear and begins to be more receptive...when she allows herself to experience those sensations other than pain...ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
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you forget to mention the sweet nothings that you whisper in her ear  "hush up bitch and take in in the ass like a good little girl"

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RE: anal training - 12/14/2007 9:32:39 AM   
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RE: anal training - 12/14/2007 10:26:01 AM   
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"bend over and take it like a man!"


You're making me laugh OldBastardly1!  "bend over and take it like a man" how would a man take it any differently than a woman?  That is one area we are the same hee hee  a man is going to need lots O' lube just like a woman... trust me LOL  just being silly... no disrespect intended.

girly

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RE: anal training - 12/15/2007 7:05:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not meaning to hijack the thread, but on a related point -- I find it interesting how many people list ass play as a favorite item, but enemas as a hard limit.  I can understand not liking them, but IMO if we have one we're gonna start with the other!  lol

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RE: anal training - 12/15/2007 8:56:15 AM   
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Not meaning to hijack the thread, but on a related point -- I find it interesting how many people list ass play as a favorite item, but enemas as a hard limit.  I can understand not liking them, but IMO if we have one we're gonna start with the other!  lol


I agree with you TMaster2


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RE: anal training - 12/15/2007 9:06:27 AM   
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Not meaning to hijack the thread, but on a related point -- I find it interesting how many people list ass play as a favorite item, but enemas as a hard limit.  I can understand not liking them, but IMO if we have one we're gonna start with the other!  lol


Because mentally they hit two very different areas, that's why some people won't go there (enemas).  One can be considered medical play (among other things), and one is not.

I find them not necessary, and I wouldn't be with anyone who REQUIRED them when they were not necessary (god forbid that sex get a tiny bit messy sometimes - and yes, I mean a tiny bit, I don't mean not having one if you really need one).

So, goodness, does this mean I have to cross TM off my "MMMMMMaybe Someday" List??        

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RE: anal training - 12/15/2007 9:26:57 AM   
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Let the master do it - though from your perspective you may want to try a plug - depending upon the master they may not be as gentle the first time as you wish. Have plenty of lube available.


Then again they may be too gentle. Those guys who use lube, for instance.

What hasn't been considered here yet is that she may connect with someone who has no intention of ever training here there, nor of allowing any self training.

Why not let one little corner of the garden grow wild, he might say?

Sure, with no trellises or paths, a little rosebud might get crushed every time he barges through.

What's not to like?



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RE: anal training - 12/15/2007 10:19:15 AM   
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Let the master do it - though from your perspective you may want to try a plug - depending upon the master they may not be as gentle the first time as you wish. Have plenty of lube available.


Then again they may be too gentle. Those guys who use lube, for instance.

What hasn't been considered here yet is that she may connect with someone who has no intention of ever training here there, nor of allowing any self training.

Why not let one little corner of the garden grow wild, he might say?

Sure, with no trellises or paths, a little rosebud might get crushed every time he barges through.

What's not to like?





Yeah, really. That is the advantage of some of us jaded and experienced anal sluts. We know how hot it can be when it is not so gentle.

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