krazysubbiekat
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ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures quote:
I guess I should have specified formal education in this too. I do not feel that formal education is a big thing...I mean personally if some girl with glasses and a book under her shoulder came to me (unless she had the whole schoolgirl get up ::wink::) I wouldn't think that we had too much in common. But I do prefer someone that has a wealth of knowledge, as I stated before. To me thats the type of person that can carry on a conversation about pretty much anything and interest you. And when I say match wits, I also mean just "hold their own." This post didnt really add to the discussion, as I just like to start them, you guys are the ones that keep them going. Rob Sir, a formal college education and very possibly an advanced degree is a necessity for employability that pays at least a middle class wage, unless one has a marketable trade or skill. Even the glibe with only high school diplomas find sales positions closed to them as they compete with college-educated candidates. A woman who has decided to make no provision whatsoever for a middle-class (above the poverty level) income has demonstrated a lack of "common sense" in my opinion. One of the indicia of transitioning into adulthood is the ability to feed, clothe and house oneself in a reasonably safe and comfortable manner. We live in a shrinking economy, shifting to a predominately service-based economy, and many industrial jobs that once allowed people a decent wage have been exported overseas. i would expect a woman in her early 20's to be laying some kind of foundation for her career. pinkpleasures i normally do not respond to forums with anything that might be construed as inflamatory. i am a firm believer that if you can't say anything nice...Keep your mouth shut! However, to this i have to say something. i have a high school diploma and some college and i am gainfully employed fully capable of supporting myself and my family in a reasonably comfortable manner. To imply that without a college degree, a woman is somehow lesser than one who does have one is entirely prejudiced. i personally consider myself an intelligent, well-spoken, capable person, and my lack of a college diploma does not change that. Just my two cents...that and 4 years of college might make me change my mind! lol
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