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sexyred1 -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 10:11:34 AM)

Muahahahahah! My evil master plan has worked! Now I got Katylied's attention! [sm=banana.gif]




KatyLied -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 10:12:10 AM)

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Now I got Katylied's attention!


lol
Come here....let me touch your hair....




sexyred1 -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 10:13:19 AM)

ok, let me first spritz it with Eau de Bitchiness so you recognize me....




KatyLied -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 10:13:55 AM)

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ok, let me first spritz it with Eau de Bitchiness so you recognize me....


I shall light a candle before St. Sarcastica




Jeffff -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 10:16:23 AM)

and I shall pour the wax...:)


Jeff




sexyred1 -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 10:16:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

ok, let me first spritz it with Eau de Bitchiness so you recognize me....


I shall light a candle before St. Sarcastica



Is she the patron saint for the lonely and bitter? [:D]




KatyLied -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 10:17:10 AM)

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and I shall poor the wax...:)


haha, I didn't even think of such kink when I wrote that.




sexyred1 -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 10:17:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

and I shall pour the wax...:)


Jeff


Soy or regular?




KatyLied -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 10:18:24 AM)

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Is she the patron saint for the lonely and bitter?


Yes, she is there to help the domless subs who have bad attitude.




ModeratorEleven -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 10:19:06 AM)

Ok kids, that's enough, from both sides of this little soap opera.

XI





Jeffff -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 10:42:41 AM)

We now return you to your regularly scheduled thread

Jeff




meticulousgirl -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 12:41:14 PM)

It's a great feeling when it finally does happen...take your time, take some deep breaths and enjoy it.

~meticulous~




sexyred1 -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 12:45:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: meticulousgirl

It's a great feeling when it finally does happen...take your time, take some deep breaths and enjoy it.

~meticulous~


Oh, no...you did not address that comment to ME did you?? Slowly I turn....




Sinergy -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 2:13:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

quote:

ORIGINAL: meticulousgirl

It's a great feeling when it finally does happen...take your time, take some deep breaths and enjoy it.

~meticulous~


Oh, no...you did not address that comment to ME did you?? Slowly I turn....


Cleaning woman?

Steve Martinergy




MadRabbit -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 2:32:00 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Rayne58

*smiles* I will say that laurell's and Tigrita's posts have made me feel a lot more confident with who and what I am.  It does get confusing sometimes reading about other people and sometimes I would feel a bit inadequate [sm=confused.gif] However Sir says He is more than happy with me [:)] and that is what really matters most [sm=dance.gif]


This is what really gets my rabbit tail in a knot when we get into these discussions about labels and what, in my probably overly cynical opinion, the vast majority of all this hooh-ha boils down to.

I'm so much more special/better because I am a slave/submissive/property/daughter/puppy.

While this isnt directed towards the OP since she simply made the simple mistake of poorly expressing her own feelings towards her own relationship, its still pretty much the road this thread went down.

In the end, its like a bunch of people trying to determine some kind of universal value judgement on whether an apple, an orange, a pear, or a pomegrande tastes the best.

In the end, the fullfillment and personal joy someone might feel as the treasured property of an Owner is no more less than someone might feel as a loving wife to a husband or a prized daughter of a Daddy.




sexyred1 -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 2:34:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

quote:

ORIGINAL: meticulousgirl

It's a great feeling when it finally does happen...take your time, take some deep breaths and enjoy it.

~meticulous~


Oh, no...you did not address that comment to ME did you?? Slowly I turn....


Cleaning woman?

Steve Martinergy



No, I must be dating myself. I was thinking about the old 3 stooges episode where the said, never say Niagara Falls to this guy and every time they did he would go nuts and say, slowly I turn..step by step...and then beat them!!

Pay no attention to me, I am cerebrally multitasking on the forum today and it does not always work! LOL




agoodgirl4Daddy -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 6:04:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

quote:

ORIGINAL: Rayne58

*smiles* I will say that laurell's and Tigrita's posts have made me feel a lot more confident with who and what I am.  It does get confusing sometimes reading about other people and sometimes I would feel a bit inadequate [sm=confused.gif] However Sir says He is more than happy with me [:)] and that is what really matters most [sm=dance.gif]


This is what really gets my rabbit tail in a knot when we get into these discussions about labels and what, in my probably overly cynical opinion, the vast majority of all this hooh-ha boils down to.

I'm so much more special/better because I am a slave/submissive/property/daughter/puppy.

While this isnt directed towards the OP since she simply made the simple mistake of poorly expressing her own feelings towards her own relationship, its still pretty much the road this thread went down.

In the end, its like a bunch of people trying to determine some kind of universal value judgement on whether an apple, an orange, a pear, or a pomegrande tastes the best.

In the end, the fullfillment and personal joy someone might feel as the treasured property of an Owner is no more less than someone might feel as a loving wife to a husband or a prized daughter of a Daddy.



Yes..well...good for the OP!  If she's that happy being property, I wonder how that expanse of a cornfield must feel!! 

I do detect the smell of my-label- is-better-than-yours...all you lowly submissives, Daddy's girls, bottoms, pain sluts, masochists, etc etc...

Be happy.....but seriously, OP...  your relationship has no more or less magic or intensity or realness or love or supreme-BDSM-ness than anyone else's.  It's simply evolved as a relationship does when it's moving toward being a real _______________ (whatever label you wish to toss upon it).   




juliaoceania -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 6:17:02 PM)

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Give me a break, julia. Usually you are more astute than this. Obviously you have not been following along, so spare me your judgemental tone here. No one who has commented on the thread feels bad, is jealous or has used anyone's happiness to feel bad.

My mother always says, it is often not what is being said, but HOW it is said that makes the difference, and what I have responded to is the HOW, not the WHAT.

Does that clear things up for you now


My post was not pointed at you, this is rather silly, and no I have more important things to do than to keep up with how collarme turns




slavegirljoy -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 7:28:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: agoodgirl4Daddy

I do detect the smell of my-label- is-better-than-yours...all you lowly submissives, Daddy's girls, bottoms, pain sluts, masochists, etc etc...

Be happy.....but seriously, OP...  your relationship has no more or less magic or intensity or realness or love or supreme-BDSM-ness than anyone else's.  It's simply evolved as a relationship does when it's moving toward being a real _______________ (whatever label you wish to toss upon it). 
i don't detect any "my-label- is-better-than-yours..." in this post.  Nowhere does it say, i feel so much more fulfilled than "...all you lowly submissives, Daddy's girls, bottoms, pain sluts, masochists, etc etc..."  It clearly says that " i feel so much more fullfilled than i ever did...".  What's wrong with that? 

 
It could easily have been posted in the "Positive Experiences" forum but, there is also the question asked, "has anyone had this happen to them...." and, i think, that is a reasonable topic for "General BDSM" discussion.  i also don't hear any smugness in this post.  Where, in the OP, does it say that the relationship is in any way more intense, more magical, more real or more anything than what anyone else has?  i didn't read that.
 
Maybe, it's just me.  Maybe, i tend to give people the benefit of believing that they are sincere in what they write.  But, i really don't get all the negativity in this thread about what was written in the OP.  Is it just because it isn't a negative, complaining, "oh woe is me", angry, rant type of post?  Should there be a "Warning Label" at the top of all positive posts?
 
Just because someone has made a discovery about themself, through a change in their relationship, and it's a positive experience, and they feel awakened to a part of their identity they didn't know existed before and they are curious about whether this sort of thing has happened to anyone else, why does that automatically mean that the person is being "smug" or expressing some sort of "superiority" over anyone else?  Anyone care to help me understand this?  Because, i really just don't get it, at all. 
 
slave joy
Owned property of Master David
quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

i had always thought of myself as a sub and not a slave or property. My Owner started me off slowly  since he is my first realtime Owner/Master). Now i am his property and i feel so much more fullfilled than i ever did in the role of being submissive. i didn't realize how wonderful it could be to be his property. Especially, the way he treats me. has anyone had this happen to them that they feel so much more alive and Owned and all that good stuff because they have become property? Thanks




EvilGenie -> RE: Being owned (12/19/2007 7:32:31 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

quote:

ORIGINAL: Rayne58

*smiles* I will say that laurell's and Tigrita's posts have made me feel a lot more confident with who and what I am.  It does get confusing sometimes reading about other people and sometimes I would feel a bit inadequate [sm=confused.gif] However Sir says He is more than happy with me [:)] and that is what really matters most [sm=dance.gif]


This is what really gets my rabbit tail in a knot when we get into these discussions about labels and what, in my probably overly cynical opinion, the vast majority of all this hooh-ha boils down to.

I'm so much more special/better because I am a slave/submissive/property/daughter/puppy.

While this isnt directed towards the OP since she simply made the simple mistake of poorly expressing her own feelings towards her own relationship, its still pretty much the road this thread went down.

In the end, its like a bunch of people trying to determine some kind of universal value judgement on whether an apple, an orange, a pear, or a pomegrande tastes the best.

In the end, the fullfillment and personal joy someone might feel as the treasured property of an Owner is no more less than someone might feel as a loving wife to a husband or a prized daughter of a Daddy.


You got it MR! My relationship cannot be defined or labeled, it is what it is and we are both divinely happy in it. The labels only come, for me, as CM forces us to pigeon (notice I didn't say rabbit) hole ourselves and our relationships into said labels. What anyone wants to define it as, I don't give a rat's flying testicle with the world at large but I had to pick from the options given by CM.

Not all of this is in direct response to what you said though some of it is and is in complete agreement. I also would provide a warning to those wishing to begin threads. If it can be placed in your journal, then please do so. Those who want to will read it and those who do not won't. It's a bit like those who do all of the talking about it (sex) are those not getting any.

Be very careful of wording as this is a communication medium where there is no tone of voice, inflection or body language. What you write will be taken literally, pun intended. This was poorly worded and descended into something most of us do not want to be a part of here. sexyred and katy I have never found to be offensive though push anyone and one may not like what they receive.

P.S. So katy, have you done it in the shower yet?? [:D]

Best,

EG




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