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Being owned - 12/17/2007 6:26:31 PM

takenbyjohnr07

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i had always thought of myself as a sub and not a slave or property. My Owner started me off slowly since he is my first realtime Owner/Master). Now i am his property and i feel so much more fullfilled than i ever did in the role of being submissive. i didn't realize how wonderful it could be to be his property. Especially, the way he treats me. has anyone had this happen to them that they feel so much more alive and Owned and all that good stuff because they have become property? Thanks

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i am the sole property of Johnr. He is the love of my life and the greatest Owner and i will live to serve and, please him only every day of my life.

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 6:30:15 PM

girlygurl

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I feel pretty damned alive being His submissive OP and I'm just a submissive. hee hee

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 6:31:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: girlygurl

I feel pretty damned alive being His submissive OP and I'm just a submissive. hee hee

girly

There is no such thing as being "just a submissive" girly. How we feel about ourselves should be a healthy measure of our own sense of self. Sometimes, however, it just isn't and that's sad.

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 6:34:38 PM

girlygurl

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I was being sarcastic laurell

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 6:38:17 PM

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I know and you have mail.

< Message edited by laurell3 -- 12/17/2007 6:40:08 PM >

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I cannot be defined by moments in my life, but must be considered for by the entirety of my existence.

When you fail to consider that I am the best judge for what is right for me, all of your opinions become suspect to me.

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 6:40:10 PM

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I love the smell of sarcasm in the evening. And morning. And midday.

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 6:54:04 PM

OneX2

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It is always a wonderful experience to be with someone who creates a comfortable space, and knows what you will be thinking when your ready to ask for me.

J

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 7:09:28 PM

cainssub

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im finding out that though i consider myself a sub, what i call myself doesnt really matter, i have a Master and have very few limits.....He doesnt refer to me as a slave but i think thats exactly where i'm headed......

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 7:20:01 PM

takenbyjohnr07

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And do you find that as exciting as i did? It all happened so naturally.

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 7:30:54 PM

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I don't think of myself as property. I do think of myself as owned, loved, controlled, understood, and extremely spoiled. As long as you are living your bliss then all is good.

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 7:31:05 PM

Sirsinini

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quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

i had always thought of myself as a sub and not a slave or property. My Owner started me off slowly since he is my first realtime Owner/Master). Now i am his property and i feel so much more fullfilled than i ever did in the role of being submissive. i didn't realize how wonderful it could be to be his property. Especially, the way he treats me. has anyone had this happen to them that they feel so much more alive and Owned and all that good stuff because they have become property? Thanks

"Property" is a label.
I love being HIS property...only because I was never as owned or as incredibly cared for as I was when I was a "whore." Yet just another label.
I was asked once, how can a man own a woman? (or vice versa)
Its the control. Just my POV.

Enjoy youself royally and have fun...but be obedient and submissive.

Inini, Sir's devoted property

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 7:45:41 PM

takenbyjohnr07

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you too! :)

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 7:58:00 PM

Rayne58

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I have trouble getting my head around the concept of ownership. When I was married before my ex was controlling and jealous and I felt like I was owned and not in a good way

so to me being owned has bad connotations.

I identify as a submissive. I can't ever see myself as a slave simply because I'm not prepared to give over that much control. No matter that Sir is nothing like my ex, and I know He loves and cares for me and would never do anything to damage me either physically or emotionally. It's one of those "walls" that maybe will never come down.

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 8:06:20 PM

takenbyjohnr07

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i use to feel EXACTLY the same way.

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 8:07:50 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rayne58

I have trouble getting my head around the concept of ownership. When I was married before my ex was controlling and jealous and I felt like I was owned and not in a good way so to me being owned has bad connotations.

I identify as a submissive. I can't ever see myself as a slave simply because I'm not prepared to give over that much control. No matter that Sir is nothing like my ex, and I know He loves and cares for me and would never do anything to damage me either physically or emotionally. It's one of those "walls" that maybe will never come down.

There's nothing wrong with where you are Rayne. Embrace who you are today and enjoy it. If it's going to happen it will. Be who you are not who other people say you should be.

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I cannot be defined by moments in my life, but must be considered for by the entirety of my existence.

When you fail to consider that I am the best judge for what is right for me, all of your opinions become suspect to me.

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 8:13:08 PM

TemptingNviceSub

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quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

i had always thought of myself as a sub and not a slave or property. My Owner started me off slowly since he is my first realtime Owner/Master). Now i am his property and i feel so much more fullfilled than i ever did in the role of being submissive. i didn't realize how wonderful it could be to be his property. Especially, the way he treats me. has anyone had this happen to them that they feel so much more alive and Owned and all that good stuff because they have become property? Thanks

I do not think it is because you now label yourself owned as opposed to submissive...I feel it is because you have now, over a period of time, grown in your trust, and your devotion has blossomed within that relationship of trust and security that you both have nurtured..So thus your fulfillment is from the relationship not the label you have placed upon it...Tempting

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You must make tracks into the unknown~~Thoreau

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 8:22:36 PM

Rayne58

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quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

quote:

ORIGINAL: Rayne58

I have trouble getting my head around the concept of ownership. When I was married before my ex was controlling and jealous and I felt like I was owned and not in a good way so to me being owned has bad connotations.

I identify as a submissive. I can't ever see myself as a slave simply because I'm not prepared to give over that much control. No matter that Sir is nothing like my ex, and I know He loves and cares for me and would never do anything to damage me either physically or emotionally. It's one of those "walls" that maybe will never come down.

There's nothing wrong with where you are Rayne. Embrace who you are today and enjoy it. If it's going to happen it will. Be who you are not who other people say you should be.

Thanks laurell

My journey has been relatively short (4 years). I am amazed at how far I have come in that small amount of time. Thst first marriage was long (over 20 years) and the remnants of it still affect me in not so good ways.
Believe me, Sir and I are enjoying our lives together a lot

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 8:33:40 PM

takenbyjohnr07

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Beautifully put and i believe that is exactly what has happened. you are very perceptive. Thank you/

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i am the sole property of Johnr. He is the love of my life and the greatest Owner and i will live to serve and, please him only every day of my life.

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 8:37:56 PM

cainssub

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if it wasnt exciting and satisfying why would anyone do it at all? yes it is a wonderful feeling knowing He guides my actions.....

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RE: Being owned - 12/17/2007 8:39:16 PM

sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

I love the smell of sarcasm in the evening. And morning. And midday.

Katy, are you smelling what I smelling? It might be smell of smugness pervading the air here...have you EVAH seen self satisfaction with being involved taken to such an extreme?

Have you read Shakespeare? There was this line, "I think the lady doth protest too much" or something along those lines.

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