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RE: Balance Doms Pleasure with submissive's pleasure - 12/23/2007 6:12:06 PM

Kostly

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ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW
His responses show that he is more concerned with past experiences and not that everyone seems to be different and not everyone can take the same things. Every anatomy is different. He seems more set on defending himself and proving himself right than actually listening. Learning only happens when one listens. I hope he is listening to what his sub is telling him and not only concerned with only proving himself right. That is how people get hurt.

Its amazing,
"Every anatomy is different." WOW thanks for the enlightenment! Guess you didnt get that this fact should be ASSUMED that I didnt have to state it. In addition my posts about this issue was about the DIFFERENCES in this wonderfull womans reaction from EVERYTHING I have read, experianced and talked to about!

Then you become psycic subbie and feel obligated to tell everyone how I feel... I didnt know you were so brilliant and knowledgable in my relationship, my personality, and my life.. All this time, I thought I was triing to figure out why she is different... Now I know that I was all about my PAST relationships, and not my current wonderfull one... THANKS FOR TELLING ME! I DONT KNOW WHAT I WOULD OF DONE WITHOUT YOU!

Psycic subbies to the Rescue!

Actually the problem is not removal of the buttplug (which would make sense, but the actual clasping down on the end... Very strange indead... but yous it is something that I have never heard off... A Dr. maybe able to answer the question, but chances are... probably not... as far as the hemerroids and asking her Dr. about it... thats up to her, but she is shy. If she doesnt want treatment for it, and if I cant have my silly buttplugs, then ohh well we dont use them! Its not the end of the world... maybe we will try one of thoose small glass ones... see if they are better... just a bit too much money right now to invest in such a toy... its not a $40 problem. Life goes on.,..

Anyways, yea I did get allot of good knowledge, mixed in with some really stupid comments... Its like Kindergarden again...

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RE: Balance Doms Pleasure with submissive's pleasure - 12/23/2007 10:44:25 PM

Kostly

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My submissive wanted to get on this post to defend me and herself. To stop the speculation bullshit about our relationships, and to cut the crap from the people on this site that have more opinions then hairs on their head.

But alas I asked her not to... Our relationship is not secrete. We are announced as D/s on most sites. This site is her social environment, and for me, this site is a place that I can get away from and ask questions without getting sucked into any rumor/opinion mill that actually matters to me. On sites that I actually have friends on...

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