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RE: dominating tall mens - 12/22/2007 7:09:43 AM   
MistressRouge


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Status: offline 		I once saw a Dom and female sub at a club. Dom was around 5 foot 6 (as a guess lol), and his tall amazonian female sub was at least 6 foot 2 in her stilettos. I found that quite an attractive vision, as he lead her around the club by her collar, lead draped over his shoulder, a visual that has stayed with Me ever since. Maybe the fact that the sub was also stunningly beautiful lol.

I am 5 foot 9 without heels, so I add My extra inches in height with fetish footwear, upto 6 foot 4/5 sometimes.

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RE: dominating tall mens - 12/22/2007 8:01:09 AM   
LadyChef


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Status: offline 		I have to agree with the majority here- I prefer taller men. Although I am 5'3- My preference is for men 6'0 and above. For some odd reason, little (short, diminutive, height challenged, whatever you want to call it) men are always attracted to Me.
 
If I can look down at a man, or look him in the eyes in My highest heels, he's not what I'm looking for. I even put it in My profile. But 5'4- 5'9 men are always trying to contact Me. I'm 5'6-5'9 in heels, so I like My meat at least 6'0- 6'6. I just like bringing a man to his knees to look up to Me. I'm thick too. So I like a thick man. A tall, sturdy, strong, thick man. I like to wrestle and ride a man's back. With My thighs and behind and weird upperbody strength, I would easily overpower a little man. A bigger man is a challenge to Me. It's flattering that the little guys go for Me, but that's too easy.

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RE: dominating tall mens - 12/22/2007 12:34:49 PM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		Tammyjo      and others just cause im only 225 lbs dosent me i skin and bones youd never guess i weight as much as i do its mostly muscle form my pro basketball days and im in dam good shape might be why ive won quite a few times at the cranvals that have the weight guessing person LOL.. as i did state i have meat on the bones in my frsit posting

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RE: dominating tall mens - 12/23/2007 7:27:32 AM   
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Tammyjo and others just cause im only 225 lbs dosent me i skin and bones youd never guess i weight as much as i do its mostly muscle form my pro basketball days and im in dam good shape might be why ive won quite a few times at the cranvals that have the weight guessing person LOL.. as i did state i have meat on the bones in my frsit posting



That's good. No picture to go by.

I understand that weight isn't the sole factor. I have to feel and look at someone to get a gut level reaction. But for me since I'm a sadist I have to feel really comfortable that when I hurt someone that will hurt and not harm.

I'm sorry if I offended you, iwearpanties.

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RE: dominating tall mens - 12/23/2007 9:50:23 AM   
unforegvn


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Status: offline 		bending them over a 'horse' ... keeping them in shackles on their knees works best

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RE: dominating tall mens - 12/23/2007 11:07:24 AM   
RumpusParable


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Status: offline 		Now that I've answered with a serious bit towards the actual question here, I feel like throwing in some of the fun that comes with physically dominating a taller sub/slave that I enjoy or have a special warm spot for. :)

I like reaching up above my head to slap someone sometimes.  There are different emotional links and triggers to slapping someone's face in any position... them lying down, kneeling and such...  but a taller sub is the only one where I can enjoy the form of slapping someone above me (without the sub standing on something, which again alters the mood of it).

Reaching above my head and dragging them down by their collar to my face level when I want to make a stern correction looking into their eyes, close to them.

Having their chest or middle-back right at eye-level when scening/playing with them...

The fact that you can bend them over near anything, compared to us shorter folk...

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RE: dominating tall mens - 12/23/2007 11:43:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RumpusParable
I like reaching up above my head to slap someone sometimes.  There are different emotional links and triggers to slapping someone's face in any position... them lying down, kneeling and such...  but a taller sub is the only one where I can enjoy the form of slapping someone above me (without the sub standing on something, which again alters the mood of it).


Not to hijaak this thread, but can you tell me what the attraction is to slapping a sub in the face (preferably for both the sub and the Mistress)? 
 
During my lifetime, I've only seen people slapped in the face out of anger so am having trouble relating to it in a more positive D/s context.  I've never experienced this before and on the surface it seems abusive to me, which is why I ask. 
 
Is it typically a humiliation oriented part of the dynamic; which I know can be very hot for some (including me) when the right buttons are pushed?  
 
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RE: dominating tall mens - 12/23/2007 1:49:36 PM   
RumpusParable


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Status: offline 		Face-slapping I enjoy in a few ways, depending on the sub and the situation/scene.  Humiliation play, yes but also I find that even a light thwap on the jaw tends to grab the physical and mental attention. 

Face slapping is just something that can be done in such a range, from extreme and violent full-swing slaps to little more than a tap on the jaw, and has such a strong physical and mental reaction in most people.  It's also something that is rarely done, even in full-out serious fights, to someone and expresses an intimacy level through it's use being such a rare action received and where the action takes place...  The face is often a more private and personal area than the genitals, I know mine is.  Hands, too, are funny like that... always out there, constantly in sight... but turned or touched just right (or just wrong) and we suddenly notice how much more they are than we normally think about.

To me, a slap to the face is much more powerful and intimate in nature than a butt-spanking (as fun as that can be!) or other forms of physical caring-brutality. ;)

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RE: dominating tall mens - 12/23/2007 8:35:24 PM   
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o for her to feel a special kick from dominating a man taller or larger than her; for me this speaks of something of a sense of inferiority, a napolean complex if you will


You may call me Napoleana I guess.

For me, it isn't so much a powertrip aspect, as it's simply entertaining. Here I am, an average height women, that has someone who could easily overpower me under control. The looks of "How did that happen?" when I have a big, tough looking guy at my whim just makes me giggle. I guess it's kind of the same reason why I enjoy topping other (willing of course, top wars are fun) tops, it's unexpected and fun. It's not that I have something to proove per se, I simply enjoy the irony of it.

A good friend and mentor of mine is similar in that way. He's pretty damn tiny (5'3" I think?) for a man. He says he enjoys topping guys much larger than he is, because he knows that if they didn't want to be there, they could just deck him.


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RE: dominating tall mens - 12/24/2007 4:20:04 AM   
beeble


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Status: offline 		``So, yeah.  I like dominating men.  I like to control them and whip them and tie them up have them do exactly what I say.  I like it when they kneel before me and lick my boots.  I like them to call me Mistress or Queen or Goddess and focus all their energy on making me feel happy and fulfilled and special.''
``OK, fine.  Whatever.''
``Also, it's a little bit hotter if he's taller than me.''
``What?  My God!  You must have no self-esteem!  At all!  You're just trying to hide your rampant inferiority complex!  I can't believe it!''

If we're going to claim that dominating tall men is all about low self-esteem and inferiority complexes, wouldn't it make more sense to pin that argument on the need for domination rather than the tallness of the sub?  I mean, I still wouldn't buy the argument but it'd look just a bit less silly.

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RE: dominating tall mens - 12/24/2007 7:34:21 AM   
sazmira


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Status: offline 		I'm a switch but I'm going to reply anyway. So there.

I'm 5' 2". Everybody's taller than me. *shrug*

I almost never question the reason I get to boss people bigger than me. It's one of those "it just is" things. Part of it is my willingness to go as far as I have to get my way. Part of it is their belief that I will go as far as I need to in order to get my way. A lot of it is that personal power is frequently variable and usually lies somewhere other than size. (Lordy, I'm sounding cheesy today. Apologies.)

Yes sometimes some of the folks I play with get a bit froggy and in those cases learning which way body parts move and aren't supposed to move helps when you want to "make" them do something or other.

A fantastic thing to remember: where the head goes, the body must follow. For folks with hair, it's a fantastical leash. For folks without hair, you can use an ear, lip, or (if you're not too squeamish) their nose but with any of those you kinda gotta have a seriously firm grip.

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave
Not to hijaak this thread, but can you tell me what the attraction is to slapping a sub in the face (preferably for both the sub and the Mistress)? 


On the bottom side: getting slapped in the face feels good to me. I usually find it as relaxing as a sensual massage.

On the top side: while slapping someone in the face feels good on the palm of my hand, what I like more about it is the look on their face. Sometimes it's almost a betrayed "Oh! You just slapped my face!" look. Other times, their eyes light up with a "You just slapped my face and now I'm gonna kick your ass, bitch" look. Either/or. I like it.

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RE: dominating tall mens - 12/25/2007 2:50:16 AM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		AS very  tall sub i cant speak for all of the tall subs but for my self i love it being brought down  by smaller Domme all my life ive towerd over others even as young kid growing up . so for me i enjoy it crave it need wants loves it !

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RE: dominating tall mens - 12/26/2007 4:01:06 AM   
LaMistressa


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Status: offline 		I'm fairly tall for a woman (5'9"), but I've played with some men much taller than me, as well as those who are shorter.

Regardless of their height -- if you can reach their ear and latch onto that, you will have their attention, and they will go wherever you pull them.

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RE: dominating tall mens - 12/26/2007 4:04:26 AM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		La mistressa    i agree you are tall .. or is that avg height now for a female ?  seems younger generations are getting taller

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RE: dominating tall mens - 12/26/2007 8:56:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

I find it highly thrilling to have the proverbial "tiger by the tail" -- the strong, masculine male who surrenders himself solely to me


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RE: dominating tall mens - 12/26/2007 10:29:47 AM   
AMADF


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Status: offline 		Just read you all, I was on vacation. After reading you all i see there are a lot of domination emotions in each dominating action when it comes to tall mens. Many mistresses go for kneelingwith them, i enjoy kneeleing but i dont use it so often, mainly because i get SO excited beating all that muscle tower :D :D like someone said its just to easy to order them to kneel, i love challenges and the idea that all that huge man is just standing there waiting for next beat makes me CRAZY :P i like to see them
standing.

I do ask them to bend in strap play :) otherwise i cannot get the right angel.

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